Originally posted by Homebody:
You know it's a crush when the person has interest in you too and you want the whole world to know asap.
Love - When true love is exist, there is no compulsion for reciprocal benefits from the one you love. Everything you do is for the good of the person, not for yourself. Feelings for the person doesn't consume you. You involve other people into your life and expand your social circle. Truly loving a person will make you a happier person. Your self-esteem is not at stake. You don't work your life around the person only. You see and accept the faults of the person, perhaps to like the faults too. Love is not just about feelings, it's also chemistry between the person you love and yourself.
Usually, when it's true love, you don't want to expose the relationship too early to others.
I happened to know two guys of description Cyan & Violent. No longer in touch with Cyan liao.