I want to dispose my body. Feel sad and terrible.
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I think your only concern should be about girls. Other than that it is unneccessary to fret. Those comments in your head like "alien", "not good looking", "big head small body" don't help in anything but instead only add on to your misery (for unneccessary reasons, you can do without them), so remove them from your mind. Everything other than girls is irrelevant to your height.Originally posted by elementa:My parents are taller than me. I think I am an alien. My gf spit the remarks at me on my height. Somemore I am not very good-looking too as comment by others by pinpointing or make bad remarks on me. My head is very big as compared to my body.
Ok so about girls now... good if you can find a girl who doesn't mind your height, or else you can be like me and be single for life. Sex can be found with money.
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You are right. I have not done anything wrong on her. She isn't that tall yet she look down on me. She is about 1.52. I can't compete this new competitor,her new bf. She fell in love for this new bf for about 1.8m plus immediately, when he snatched it from me. It is so unfair.Originally posted by Cool-gal:i understand how u feel as im short too.
how can ur ex gf made such comment? she will get her dessert.
hmmm, dun worry, God will provide for u.
my bro is 162cm, n he is happily married.
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Sometime not only love, career also matter. Taller people promote faster,able to deal with easier with same level of eye contacts. I can see those managers in my workplace are tall-builded with wide shoulder with at least more than 1.78m Somemore they are 40 plus.Originally posted by january:erh.. dun envy loh
if u envy and desire too much.. ur life will be quite sad
learn to be less desire an more content....
worst come worst get a foreign wife. sure got short one.
I thought those borned in the 1960s are shorter, yet I am wrong when I stepped into the working world. I am borned in the 80s with better nutrients should at least reached 1.6 or 1.7 plus. Hughzz.... -
not only u short..
its ok...nth u can do rite...unless u want go operation
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That is a lie your mind has created. Get more confidence. Height doesn't matter.Originally posted by elementa:Taller people promote faster,able to deal with easier with same level of eye contacts. -
well it's not ur fault..Originally posted by elementa:I am 25 male,only 158cm. People say play basketball can work, but try since from young still the same. I think basketball is played by already tall people. i wonder if going to hospital or clinic can work. eg. hormone injection, leg sawing, or maybe other like pump more calcium or medication into bloodstream.
I feel so inferior especially in the lift looking all the tall men, some women are even taller than me here at work. They use the kind of look at me when i stand in
the centre of the lift, embrassesing. No confident to face people,even my gf left me due to my height. When she said that, I really feel like jumping out of the window and recarnate to be a new person. I can't carry on with these stupid short ugly body.
I have read other forum on height increase, it seem like it is always the same answer like playing basketball but I have try everything since very young, yet no increase since after 15 but have not see a doctor yet.
Can anyone here help me what to do for increasing height before it is too late for me. Thanks all of you.
everything happen for a reason..
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I think strength in personality is very important too. Nobody will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself.
To make yourself feel good; image-wise, work on your dress-sense, grooming and then go gym and have workout routine. Exercise gives you a better toned body + you'll feel much better mentally.
Then work on your life. Schooling, working... work hard and be successful in whatever you do. Get some money, revamp your life, revamp wardrobe, revamp your house/room, get a motorcycle/car, hang out, meet people.
Slowly your life will get back on track.
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Knowing what he wants from this life sounds better to me.Originally posted by mayday80:I think strength in personality is very important too. Nobody will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself.
To make yourself feel good image-wise, work on your dress-sense, grooming and then go gym and have workout routine. Exercise gives you a better toned body + you'll feel much better mentally.
Then work on your life. Schooling, working... work hard and be successful in whatever you do. Get some money, revamop your life, wardrobe, revamp your house/room, get a motorcycle/car, hang out, meet people.
Slowly your life will get back on track.
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well he has to start somewhere. I think this is a good start to get his life moving.Originally posted by Eric Cartman:Knowing what he wants from this life sounds better to me. -
No. Know what he wants before moving, instead of moving aimlessly without knowing what he wants and in the end wasted a lot of time and energy.Originally posted by mayday80:well he has to start somewhere. I think this is a good start to get his life moving. -
try operation..
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What if the operation fails and he ends up crippled or looking like a man made freak.Originally posted by OO_OO_OO:try operation..
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be confident! as long as u believe in urself and show that u are confident (of cos not over lar) ppl wont look down on u.
As for gals are getting taller nowadays, i seriously dont think so. instead i feel that ppl are getting shorter these days... is rather hard to find a gal that is above 1.60 and guys above 1.75.
Be patient, and your rite gal wil be there for u. i think i shld congrats u that ur ex left u, this kind of gal really dun deserve u. is better to noe earlier than later.
i have one classmate in my sch, and i doubt he is any taller than u, he is not handsome, slightly to the plump side.. he is the top in the dean list! Super confident till all of us dont remember abt his physical, just remember his capability.
i ever saw in the news, the bigger your head is... the smarter u are. make use of it.
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That is so damn right. One of my school teachers looks kinda weird but I don't know how to describe it, but he speaks in a very refined manner (suitable for himself) and has every movement of his body trained to have no wastage (in other words he is mindful of all his actions and speech) and now he is looking like someone very clever and respectable.Originally posted by mystee:be confident! as long as u believe in urself and show that u are confident (of cos not over lar) ppl wont look down on u. -
Thanks the contributors right here.
For the operation,I don't have enough monies for it yet and it is quite danger.
Is there other ways for height increase other than operation? I will try as long there is some hope. Good to have honest suggestion especially from tall people in here like food or some stuffs. -
Im 159cm leh, we can be friends lol
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I am 168cm and hope to grow taller too. Those 180++cm say hope to be shorter are bullshiting ... (dun say 190++)Originally posted by elementa:Thanks the contributors right here.
For the operation,I don't have enough monies for it yet and it is quite danger.
Is there other ways for height increase other than operation? I will try as long there is some hope. Good to have honest suggestion especially from tall people in here.
At the age of 25, i really dont think the chances are high. You mention earlier that your face is full of scars. Use the money you plan for operation(height) on your face.
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join us for basketball outing =D
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scarcastic !Originally posted by Ignatiaus:1.84m tall and sometimes i wish i was abit shorter
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Your lack of height should make you hungrier to succeed and work harder in spite of the prejudice against you. Remember that Tom Cruise and Napoleon weren't much taller than you.
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25 too old to grow.only way to be taller is to wear shoes with thicker soles so as to boost the height or the other way is to go for surgery.the doc saw your legs into half and insert metal plates to increase the lenght of your shin.which will be very very painful during the recovering period
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haha she can find someone taller and more handsomeOriginally posted by elementa:I slipped into depression and had sleepless night troubling with my height problem for two years. I have been wanting to jump out of the window to end my life and forget the worries everytime I recall my gf said "You are too short for me, Let's break up!" It is just like stabbing a knife into my heart.
but what she can't find is the true love for her as she emphasis mostly on physical appeareance than anything else
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1.58m for a guy...I really think is still okay. Instead of focusing on your height, which u cannot change, probably change other aspects of your life. You mentioned your face is full of scars, than go see skin doctor, do resurfacing or something. Or better yet just improe the way you communicate to people. Instead of physical attractiveness, build up internal attractiveness too. Or improve the body , like have a propotional / muscular and fit body instead. For gals I think height is not the most important thing lor, moreover there are short gals everywhere in singapore. Those cute petite gals.
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Whoa when u startign to be hard on ppl...Originally posted by SGpork:not only u short..
its ok...nth u can do rite...unless u want go operation 
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Dear TS... I am 168cm, and my BF is 158cm like you... Despite the height difference, I love him lots... cos his personality is bigger than his physique...
Build your confidence, and I am sure you will charm everyone!