do you think it's wise to try and chase after someone..
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whom I think is attached?
or do you think it's wiser if I just try and befriend her (I do not know her yet)?
it's something that I've been pondering about for quite a while now but just couldn't find the answer.
see the thing is, I fear rejection.
it's okay if I make a fool out of myself in the process of befriending her but it decreases my morale and confidence whenever I get rejected.
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Get to know more gal friends and from them,u can learn plenty of dos and don'ts, court gal skill,plus increase plenty of confidence. It will help u court yr future gf with ease!
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Do anything but don't get caught.
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Originally posted by peeehead:
Why should you even worry if she's attached? If the lack of confidence and fear of rejection is what holds you back, does it really matter even if she were unattached? I think you know what's the more pressing problem you need to resolve first...
whom I think is attached?
or do you think it's wiser if I just try and befriend her (I do not know her yet)?
it's something that I've been pondering about for quite a while now but just couldn't find the answer.
see the thing is, I fear rejection.
it's okay if I make a fool out of myself in the process of befriending her but it decreases my morale and confidence whenever I get rejected.
advice?
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Get over it and swallow your pride. Just go out and have fun finding your way around in the dating game.
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if u happen to find out she is attached, pls dont woo her. have some ethics pls.
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it's not the wisest idea to do it. But it's fair game... if you really like her a lot, you probably should make a move and see how it goes.
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Do you know its creepy for strange guys to go to girls and tell them that they like them?
I don't want to burst any bubbles so that tactic doesn't work (well at least not 100%)
So to avoid looking like this to a girl for the first impression
Being friends is the first step that has to be taken
So in the end when you do ask the question
you'll be looking like this (to a girl)
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Originally posted by peeehead:whom I think is attached?
or do you think it's wiser if I just try and befriend her (I do not know her yet)?
it's something that I've been pondering about for quite a while now but just couldn't find the answer.
see the thing is, I fear rejection.
it's okay if I make a fool out of myself in the process of befriending her but it decreases my morale and confidence whenever I get rejected.
advice?
If it decrease your moral and confidence whenever you get rejected, then why would you want to pick a 'high risk' investment?
Like investment, just play according to your risk appetite.
Cheers -
no. bad investment.
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Even if she's not attached, won't you think it'll be more practical and wiser to know her 1st...?Originally posted by peeehead:whom I think is attached?
or do you think it's wiser if I just try and befriend her (I do not know her yet)?
it's something that I've been pondering about for quite a while now but just couldn't find the answer.
see the thing is, I fear rejection.
it's okay if I make a fool out of myself in the process of befriending her but it decreases my morale and confidence whenever I get rejected.
advice?
About the part ya mentioned of fear for rejection... I can only say... Nothing ventured, nothing gained... -
don woo gals if u fear rejectionOriginally posted by peeehead:whom I think is attached?
or do you think it's wiser if I just try and befriend her (I do not know her yet)?
it's something that I've been pondering about for quite a while now but just couldn't find the answer.
see the thing is, I fear rejection.
it's okay if I make a fool out of myself in the process of befriending her but it decreases my morale and confidence whenever I get rejected.
advice?