feel pity 4 my fren...
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but i wonder how he can take all tis...
let mi explain...
he n his gf have been 2gether 4 1yr + liao...
he is stayin wif his mum cos his parents r divorce...
but his mum is ver rich as she is somethin like Finance minister....
his gf family is also ver rich n she is the onli child...
ok it goes like tis...
his gf is a christian... a true christian believer...
my fren got smoke n his gf quarrel over tat...
mayb tats fine cos mayb she wanna help him quit...
but got 1 time she found a 4D ticket in his wallet...
they quarrel over it 4 5 hrs...
n the ticket is nt even his, but is his fren wan as his fren ask him 2 help him buy wan....
n whenever he wanted 2 go where, he must so call ask permission from her....
n also must report 2 her whether he is or even he off work...
oh btw when they quarrel, its the gf who quarrel n my fren kept sayin sorrie...
its like shes controlin him...
most of us tell him 2 leave her as she is not worth it...
but he duwan... they r acturally sch mates...
my fren also owns a bike n has both car n motor licence...
when our company host a dinner buffet at a hotel...
tats when mi saw his gf....
she just normal lookin....
n worst of all, she doesnt allow him 2 tok 2 us...
i mean wat kind of gf is tat...
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to each his poison.
but ya.. i feel sorry for him too.
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quite strict... well his choice lo...
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control freak.
your friend like to be controlled is it ? i've got a guy friend who tell me he likes his gf to do this to him
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Joker not joking for once?
Kns.. ask ur fren to dump her la. Even if a guy is controlled also not till this extent wat. kns.. like no backbone lidat. This kinda guys where got girls like.. at least in the long term. -
mm...a guy needs to have a big heart but from what u say, he got a timid heart! hai..
encourage ur fren to do the what it takes to have his pride back yeah.. -
there are many cases where one party like to control, the other party like to be controlled... maybe this is called compatibility?
but seriously feel that she is too strict as in dont allow him to tok to his frnz, but as for smoking and buying 4D.. is bad habit, so is better to quit, thou' that ticket is not his.. that is your frnz life.. so u cant tell him what to do, the best u can.. is to advise him lor... will communicate helps or should i say.. will the gal listen? -
he like, he can tahan is his problem lah
their own problem let them settle loh
u dun be pai lang wanna break them up or wat
later the girl come find u then u know -
No point in telling him to break off with her... As long as you love someone , you will not care wat others think and what they tell you ...
Let him Do things himself !! Once he really get sick and tired of it , then will he break off with her ... Maybe 2morrow , maybe next wk , maybe next month , maybe 1 yr later , maybe 10 or 20yrs later.... It all depends On him , On how long he can love and tahan her..
Reminder!!! Dont waste your saliva on him! He will know what to Do when he wakes up!!! -
no big deal.
my former colleague cant even go out with anyone after he got married. -
gf control bf too much!!!
At least must give some freedom.
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That girl sure is a control freak.
To be brutally frank, I see such girls as pure hypocrites - don't tell me that she doesn't talk to her friends at all after she got attached.
I've had a couple of buddies whose gfs flared up at them just because they happened to be talking to other girls. Sheesh... don't tell me that those girls have never talked to other guys before.
But yeah, as FI said, it's really his problem. If he chooses to be blinded by love so much so that he's screwing himself, then there's really nothing much you can do.
It's his personal choice. No one is forcing him to get himself controlled by her. -
I can tell you what's the problem here. in fact, I just have to quote it.Originally posted by joker105:his gf is a christian... a true christian believer...
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FCP.
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Originally posted by Cool-gal:FCP. first time heard of this.
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wats this?Originally posted by Cool-gal:FCP. -
Final Cut Pro.Originally posted by BenBenDeZhu:wats this? -
qian jin xiao jie la..
and are u the fren who asked him to buy 4D? -
wa...she rule his life
i dont buy 4d toto.. i dont smoke also
but why i no gf
i dont mind telling n reporting what im doing n where i am also..sometimes pple nv ask i also say..if im quite close with them..
i dont mind..
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'his gf is a christian... a true christian believer...'
my working place...got this girl also ...
then 1 day...some guys..at my working place..were having ' mens talk'
u know lei ..
then she overheard it cos she was behind but they dontknow..
then...she scream at 1 guy which is 1 of my manager...in his 30s..
''u look so decent..but i didntknow ur also like that until now''
then she cried very hard n say wanna quit the job..then she feel so bad after listening to those stuff then dont wanna be a christian anymore
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some of my frens went thru the same thing...
christian gfs....
they all cannot tahan...
they keep trying to "save" you...
MY OPINION TO THOSE GFS: We do wat we believe in. you can introduce your ideas and ideals. BUT DO NOT HINDER WITH THE FREEDOM ITSELF.
MY OPINION TO YOUR FREN: maybe some SM on her would teach her gd
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FCP = female chauvinist person.
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den MCP leh?Originally posted by Cool-gal:FCP = female chauvinist person. -
face it.. girls of the digital age.. i'm in a similar situation.. mine doesnt allow me to study for my exams! beat that.. i'm supposed to skip school on her birthday AND valentine's day for HER.. she'll be in sch during this time btw.. hell yea.. conveniently forgetting and ignoring the stuff put up against them like what WE GUYS do for them every day and blame us for rules they made up themselves.. for what? for their own sake of course!
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cause..his GF think u lousy fren..scared u will lead him astray..hhaha
