One-sided relationship...
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Allow me to complete the sentence... "A one sided r/s..." Will never work out...
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Don't always presume that the other party would know how you feel... Always COMMUNICATE if you want your thoughts to be known... Unless you rather put your relationship to risk...? If the relatioship's important enough for you, do more for it...Originally posted by wuming78:sigh.
i am so tired. -
been thinking about it...
but in the end, i think i will choose to do nothing about it, and just continue to give, and continue to console myself that hopefully, it all amounts to something... -
Bad move... If that would really work on the long run, then what are you doing here...? In fact, posting this could only be one of the early prelude symptoms to worse things to come....Originally posted by wuming78:been thinking about it...
but in the end, i think i will choose to do nothing about it, and just continue to give, and continue to console myself that hopefully, it all amounts to something... -
Originally posted by rane:Hi, I fully understand what you said. Sad
!!!! I experience this with friends, family members and bf. It's kind of sensitive to bring up such issue, but it is not impossible to sort this out (depends on the party). If you can think of ways to communicate this concern in the way that the other party if he/she is open and does not get hurt, by all means go ahead. May be do it indirectly first and see how it goes. Different people different personalities so there is no one method that works on all people. 
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Originally posted by wuming78:been thinking about it...
but in the end, i think i will choose to do nothing about it, and just continue to give, and continue to console myself that hopefully, it all amounts to something...
Have you talked to her? Or is there a compelling reason why you cannot ask for her reciprocation?
If you really want to do this alone, you'll suffer from a burnout. Even if you're willing to give selflessly - I think there's a limit no matter how much a person can give.