part time bf
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my gal friend is going to get married.. Recently her close friend actually confessed to her he really like her.. he doesnt mind being her part time bf. he actually asked her to accept him as one! she is shocked of course, but deep down inside, i knew they have been closer than just friends. How should i advise her?
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tell her to give it up.
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ask her.. this time can only choose one...fiancee or best fren..
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She's already gonna get married... Give it up x2
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wanted to tell her its her own choice, whatever choice she made, she must not regret.. her finacee treat her well.. really dont know what she wants.
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i feel bad for her future husband to be... she just wanna have the best of both and not considering the consequences she'll face if her fiancee found out her so called part time bf / fuck buddy ?
talking sense to her wont help anymre.. let her decide herself ba. tht guy can go screw the wall.
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I must either be in the wrong planet or i'm really old-fashioned. Nowadays got part-time bf one meh?!?! and what is wrong with that guy's thinking? People want to get married already and he still be 3rd party... -_-"
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wat a cheap dick... tell her to choose only 1, cannot 1.5... tat guy jz wans a free ride without the strings attached... if u her fren, tell her husband to be so he can 'deal' with the problem... ask him if he needs a parttime problem solver anot...Originally posted by jacqn:my gal friend is going to get married.. Recently her close friend actually confessed to her he really like her.. he doesnt mind being her part time bf. he actually asked her to accept him as one! she is shocked of course, but deep down inside, i knew they have been closer than just friends. How should i advise her? -
hmm... what does it means that they have been closer than just frnz? if she agreed with this part time bf.. how long can it hide from her husband-to-be? This is absolute nonsense!Originally posted by jacqn:my gal friend is going to get married.. Recently her close friend actually confessed to her he really like her.. he doesnt mind being her part time bf. he actually asked her to accept him as one! she is shocked of course, but deep down inside, i knew they have been closer than just friends. How should i advise her? -
omg...interesting...first time I hear of it
PART-TIME BF 
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Just tell her to forget about having a part-time boyfriend.
The way I see it, it's as good as cheating on her fiance. -
Its so obvious...going get married liao and still thinking wad part time bf...
Think ur galfren is confused ba..tell her dun ruin her future..
Some guys juz want fun, not commitment..
Hence the word..."part-time"....
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whats wrong with that guy..
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You can tell her the pros and cons and yes, ultimately she is the one who choose. I can only feel sorry for the guy who proposed to her. Boy is he going to get what he doesn't expected.Originally posted by jacqn:wanted to tell her its her own choice, whatever choice she made, she must not regret.. her finacee treat her well.. really dont know what she wants. -
thats y her close fren tell her he like her..Originally posted by wonderamazement:She's already gonna get married... Give it up x2
he don wanna b late -
Originally posted by jacqn:my gal friend is going to get married.. Recently her close friend actually confessed to her he really like her.. he doesnt mind being her part time bf. he actually asked her to accept him as one! she is shocked of course, but deep down inside, i knew they have been closer than just friends. How should i advise her?
He's probably the kind of man with a 'vulture mindset' - doesn't want to get downright dirty insofar as to break her present relationship directly, preferring to wait for her relationship to crumble (equipped with the typical thinking that most BGR 'wouldn't last' type of perception).
Now that he realised he has lost the bet, he became desperate. And being desperate means he's willing to risk his foot by wedging it in between the 'closing door'... before she gets married.
His idea of a part time boyfriend suggested to me that very likely, he's keen on a non-committed sexual relationship, because even if he's emotionally depended on her, usually, that doesn't spark off the idea of a part time boyfriend in that context. A close friendship (platonic) would do just as well.
Why would her close guy friend make such a request? I supposed within their dubious friendship... she has probably suggested to him something, in which he has gotten the idea that your gal friend is probably into such sub rosa relationship.
I think the answer is pretty straightforward - if she is even having difficulty making a decision, I think she is not ready for marriage... emotionally.
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kick his balls... tell him dun be a "c" "b" and spoil people's marriage...
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once cannot have the best of both worlds..
better ask her who she loves.. if not, all 3 parties will get hurt. -
that guy also cb one..
ming zhi dao she is getting married still do this kind of stunt -
choose 1 and what is that guy thinking anyway ? wanna bang a going to married woman izzit ?
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i believe she is mature enough to decide....
it's her life anyway....she jus need to be prepared for watever consequences there may be -
if i know that guy, i will knn kill him...motherfucker...
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if u happen to meet the so called pt-bf, pls give him a tight slap.
shameless bastard.
ple getting married, stil try to break ple up.
i hate couple-wrecker! -
he no break up the couple mah, tts why opt to be part time boyfren
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Tell her this kind of thing don't play play eh!
It can drive her husband crazy.
Also let her close friend know that.