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why am i always so unlucky in love?
love is the most important in my love. but why am i always so unlucky in it? what have i done wrong? is it something i have done wrong in my previous life that this is happening? -
tian shi, di li, ren he
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Wat happened?
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in my life, i had met bad guys, and good guys. somehow, even the good guys, or those who appear to be the good guys end up hurting me. i dunno why. what have i done wrong?
i am just a normal girl who is looking for love. looking for a stable guy who will love me and take care of me.
why have i done wrong to warrant this?
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must see luck one la. or yuan fen.
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shi bu shi wo de ming sheng de bu hao?
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when i was with them, i treated them whole heartedly. i never give other guys a second look. i try to manage their finance for the. if they are tight, i will even try to eat in. even by birthdyas. if they are stress, i try to be accomodating.
why is this happening to me all the time? -
and when i thought i have met the sweetest guy, he turns out to be lying to me. cheating me
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Dun give up hope.. be patient.. keep ur spirits up.. u'll find Mr Right someday..
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i had been trying to keep my spirit up.Originally posted by Gackt247:Dun give up hope.. be patient.. keep ur spirits up.. u'll find Mr Right someday..
whe i was 20, my bf was a good for nothing. lazy to work. i left him after 2 years.
then i met a colleague, we were together later. he turns up to be a violent guy.
a year later, i met a mr nice guy. but he ended up cheating on me.
i met another man. he turned up to be a womanizer.
after that, i met a gambler, another womanizer, anoter woman beater.
why is my life so tough? -
Wah.. I supp u have to open up ur eyes when it comes to choice of men. I mean doing a thorough screening b4 jumping into a r/s. No point jumping into one hastily only to get urself burnt.Originally posted by vgal:i had been trying to keep my spirit up.
whe i was 20, my bf was a good for nothing. lazy to work. i left him after 2 years.
then i met a colleague, we were together later. he turns up to be a violent guy.
a year later, i met a mr nice guy. but he ended up cheating on me.
i met another man. he turned up to be a womanizer.
after that, i met a gambler, another womanizer, anoter woman beater.
why is my life so tough?
But hey.. this shoudl be a reason for u to give up hope totally.. yes.. u could be disheartened.. but u shouldnt give up. Make all these incidents as lessons tt will make u stronger n wiser.. Dun let them intimidate u n put u down.
There are brighter days ahead.. it's up to u to last n see those days.. -
you should know them better before getting into a relationship
remember never ever go for looks
decent looks can liao character most important -
not only apply to love ! soccer alsoOriginally posted by FireIce:tian shi, di li, ren he
in general the whole of human life -
Just treat every relationship (whether good or not) as a learning experience and you should be able to differentiate the good or bad guys better.
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Just curious, is there any chance the guys have been the ones making the first move in courting you in most/all your relationships?Originally posted by vgal:why am i always so unlucky in love?
love is the most important in my love. but why am i always so unlucky in it? what have i done wrong? is it something i have done wrong in my previous life that this is happening? -
sometimes this happen when you subconsiously tend to choose the same wrong type of guys. Have you considered this possiblity? As in the same kind of guys that always attract you, always end up like a b@stard?Originally posted by vgal:why am i always so unlucky in love?
love is the most important in my love. but why am i always so unlucky in it? what have i done wrong? is it something i have done wrong in my previous life that this is happening? -
*Pats Vgal's Head*
Well, im sure there is alot of good guys out there..
Juz dun rush into a r/s lor.. Take time in your selection..
Find out more from the guy.. Checks his friends out..
His peers are usually good telling signs of what character
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maybe you're looking at the wrong country
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ren suan bu ru tian suan.
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i predict yun will ask u for ur birth date.Originally posted by vgal:in my life, i had met bad guys, and good guys. somehow, even the good guys, or those who appear to be the good guys end up hurting me. i dunno why. what have i done wrong?
i am just a normal girl who is looking for love. looking for a stable guy who will love me and take care of me.
why have i done wrong to warrant this? 
i believe u are not the only one la..
juz hope that there will be someone who truly loves u and dote on u lor. -
the sky is darkest b4 dawn
jiayou
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Since this keeps happening again and again, you need to ask yourself: why do you keep falling for the wrong guy?
need to look into their backgrounds also before getting together, and not just be "cheated" by their sweet talks and promises...get to know someone better first before agreeing to a r/s... -
I find it hard to believe you. You mean you're so lucky you can find out 7 times what the characters of the guys, straight 7 times after you know them?Originally posted by vgal:i had been trying to keep my spirit up.
whe i was 20, my bf was a good for nothing. lazy to work. i left him after 2 years.
then i met a colleague, we were together later. he turns up to be a violent guy.
a year later, i met a mr nice guy. but he ended up cheating on me.
i met another man. he turned up to be a womanizer.
after that, i met a gambler, another womanizer, anoter woman beater.
why is my life so tough?
Some (many) guys can hide their characters very well, you know, even up after they marry you. -
You got try to find out what character they got BEFORE you decided to go dating with them? Or you just fall in love at first sight?Originally posted by vgal:i had been trying to keep my spirit up.
whe i was 20, my bf was a good for nothing. lazy to work. i left him after 2 years.
then i met a colleague, we were together later. he turns up to be a violent guy.
a year later, i met a mr nice guy. but he ended up cheating on me.
i met another man. he turned up to be a womanizer.
after that, i met a gambler, another womanizer, anoter woman beater.
why is my life so tough? -
Wow...7 guys down...I hate to admit this but...its very likely e next guy won't be much different if you allow yourself to fall for e same type of man again...Originally posted by vgal:i had been trying to keep my spirit up.
whe i was 20, my bf was a good for nothing. lazy to work. i left him after 2 years.
then i met a colleague, we were together later. he turns up to be a violent guy.
a year later, i met a mr nice guy. but he ended up cheating on me.
i met another man. he turned up to be a womanizer.
after that, i met a gambler, another womanizer, anoter woman beater.
why is my life so tough?
You can't seem to be able to find e type of "nice guys" that you want maybe because they are not e type that you will be attracted to...maybe that explains why your beaus are so similar...
No offence intended gal...hope your next find will be e one of your dreams and you'll be e only one in his heart...keeps your eyes open ya?