please do read...got a problem
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Well im sec4 this year and im a pretty popular guy in school, hang out with the in grp and everything go to an all boys school by the way . The problem is that i dont know any girls
. i mean i know as in i go to church and i say hi, and thatsall,dont have any girls i can talk to. have been a pproached by girls for my name n stuff but kina din know what to say so kina screwed it up in church again no one to talk to well there are a few girls try that do try but you see i used to be quiet but kind of changed into a more talkative person over the years so ppl in hte church kinda branded me a s i serious or quiet person so dont have any friends.
after seeing all of my friends having relationships, i kinda feel jealous but i cant tell anyone, or more like no one know about this problem i hav. ppl in school all think of me as a cool and nothing bothers me blur guy yea and dont think i have a problem we girls some even think i can get girls easily(not trying to say im good looking or anithing lol i personally think im just average).Not really sure what i should do to get to know a few girls or maybe evn have a reltionship 
any sugestions? or anyone wanna be friends or even have a relationship? -
I'm not a christian...but...do you go to church to be closer to God or to girls?
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popular guy but no girlfriend = loser
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seriously too high self esteemOriginally posted by mhcampboy:popular guy but no girlfriend = loser -
Um,such stuff will happen as time goes by
Dont rush,just enjoy life as it is now -
haha nahz dont really hav such high esteem i just appear to be someone im not in school lol
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you signed up for this?
you gotta come out of tt turtle shell of yours. no girl is gonna approach you while you're in that shell. sometimes you got to get out of your shell and find them. and btw are you desperate to get into a relationship because vday is coming or smth? -
no worries, u have plenty of chances when u go JC/poly
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hmm maybe lol well actually today felt depressed so yea never told anyone bout my problem .. hahaz but ill get over this soon just felt depressed today. o yeah and thanks for all your replies
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=/ disagreeOriginally posted by mhcampboy:popular guy but no girlfriend = loser -
Socialise more.. be yourself. Dont need to worry about getting into a r/s it will come naturally, one fine day.
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go work in an all-girls environment.
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How a bout popular guy but no girlfriend = gay?Originally posted by mhcampboy:popular guy but no girlfriend = loser -
anyway ts, u popular in wad?
studies? sports? guys? -
Good point, Xiao Jun.Originally posted by Xiao Jun:I'm not a christian...but...do you go to church to be closer to God or to girls? 
To elcapitan:
On the normal side, many forumites here tell you how to make your "portfolio" better so as to attract more gals to communicate with you. Be yourself, more chances in JC/poly/ITE/others, etc, etc...
On the Christian side, grow more in spirit and learn to leave this "issue" to God. He will have one prepared for you as you prepare yourself for one. No need to ask when or how. When you are ready, He will reveal her to you. -
alamak, you are still young, don't have to worry so much about this yet. i know very parents-nagging type, but studies really should come first since you are sec4 this year. there will be plenty of opportunities for you in the future! just be natural instead of trying so hard to strike a conversation.. maybe you can chat with the girls from your church via msn or smth? should be easier right?
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Pls dun go into a r/s for the sake of going into one.
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Just ask asgm lor.
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so u jz desperate for gf rite? if u reali good looking(Originally posted by elcapitan:Well im sec4 this year and im a pretty popular guy in school, hang out with the in grp and everything go to an all boys school by the way . The problem is that i dont know any girls . i mean i know as in i go to church and i say hi, and thatsall,dont have any girls i can talk to. have been a pproached by girls for my name n stuff but kina din know what to say so kina screwed it up in church again no one to talk to well there are a few girls try that do try but you see i used to be quiet but kind of changed into a more talkative person over the years so ppl in hte church kinda branded me a s i serious or quiet person so dont have any friends.
after seeing all of my friends having relationships, i kinda feel jealous but i cant tell anyone, or more like no one know about this problem i hav. ppl in school all think of me as a cool and nothing bothers me blur guy yea and dont think i have a problem we girls some even think i can get girls easily(not trying to say im good looking or anithing lol i personally think im just average).Not really sure what i should do to get to know a few girls or maybe evn have a reltionship any sugestions? or anyone wanna be friends or even have a relationship? ), gals will come n know u... so u still insist u gd looking? dun get a gf cos everyone is having it, get one cos u reali like person n hv chemistry... -
did i read wrongly? you're popular in a boys school? hmmmm
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simi school?
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popular guy = guy school = GAYS!!!!Originally posted by ctstalin:did i read wrongly? you're popular in a boys school? hmmmm -
Enjoy life first dude
dun trouble yourself wif r/s because u saw others having it -
You need to enjoy life as a single for as long as you can. Once you married/engaged, alot of responsibilities are going to kick in. Many ppl told me to get a gf but i simply disagreed with what they are saying.
Remember! You're no.1 in your life! -
Well let me tell you, without girls is a good things, too many girls around you , u will surely screw up.
Dun go into r/s too soon, let it happen naturally.
if you are interested in a particular girl, go slow first, maybe be her friend then ....
u say u r a popular guy , so I think it is alright.
Dun worry , relax ur singlehood now!