Originally posted by Mr_ugly:
I actually admire a girl, who is my classmate for 7 months and she found out i like her long long time ago...haiz
All my friendz in the class told me that she found out long long time ago. But she never avoid me....BUT...BUT is she trying to find a chance to Reject me...coz i havn't express my love...haiz
*DOOMSDAY*
i am a uglyducking..haiz..............................
I also had a crush on a girl when I was in Sec1. Even in Sec2 I still admired her secretly. Didn't reveal it for many years... before we left for tertiary education I didn't even have the guts to ask her out or take her tel number. Not even really have the guts to talk to her. I had to painfully let go that time & we didn't meet for 7 years. But now she's my wife. We got married close to 4 years ago during the SARS peak period. Don't know how, just that God performs miracles.
Ask her out as friends. Best if in a group. At least she don't feel uneasy. Leave everything to fate and start as friends. Don't rush into a relationship. If there's a chemistry, there's fate between the two of you, the relationship will come naturally. By the way, if you being ugly matters to the girl only then forget her. Your character, your capabilities are far more important than your looks.
Good Luck!!