One ear in... One ear out....Originally posted by sheri:stfu? Err wat is this. The worst thing is , some work aspects i need her help. But all this complaining is draining and I got my own life to lead
juz let her complain lo...maybe she nid sum1 to listen her and let her frustrate out...u oso doing her a good deed mahOriginally posted by sheri:Hate my colleague, seated beside me. She finds every opportunity to complian this complain that. Sometimes across cubicle (like radio like dat).
Usually I just look disinterested, keep quiet and pretend to be too busy to hear. My job also not perfect wat.Wat else can i do?
Dun want to have such negative people around me.
Do you all have such colleagues? I scared I become like her too....only complaining.
disinteresteder.... u misuse the word, sorry to point it out......
yaya i dislike this kind of people too.Originally posted by BufPuf:wan to add on
everytime she complain or she initiate the conversation
she will always say 'aiya...say u also dun understand 1 lah'
than i thinking...'then u still tok to me for fark?!'
the world only revolves around them..Originally posted by BufPuf:wan to add on
everytime she complain or she initiate the conversation
she will always say 'aiya...say u also dun understand 1 lah'
than i thinking...'then u still tok to me for fark?!'
i also heard lots of complaints.. not from colleagues but from fre.. i mean once a while is fine.. but she do that almost everyday when we chat in msn.. she kips complaining bout her work problem until i have no chance to really chat with her casually. and i don understand why she don wan to quit her job since she had some much problems.. then whenever i give my advice, she dosen seems to heed my advice.. then when i tell her my problem, she will end up telling hers.. bth.. so what should i do?Originally posted by sheri:Hate my colleague, seated beside me. She finds every opportunity to complian this complain that. Sometimes across cubicle (like radio like dat).
Usually I just look disinterested, keep quiet and pretend to be too busy to hear. My job also not perfect wat.Wat else can i do?
Dun want to have such negative people around me.
Do you all have such colleagues? I scared I become like her too....only complaining.
Yaya...u seem to understand wat I mean. As to think of a solution for her => Anything I suggest she puts it down. Anyways maybe I am a complainer too...haha, complaining here on the board about her compliants. This morning just heard her complain again. Really bad fengshui manz...new year somemore! haha....hack care. The tot that today is wed already, hAPPY!Originally posted by MyPillowTalks:problem:
-u cant stand her
-she cant adapt to the environment
solution:
-tink of wad she ish complaining about, then how can u solve it
-write a letter to ur employer, telling a CERTAIN(dun put name) employee ish experiencing problems, see if can change not
lastly:
-dun make her problem ur problem