Sharing Thread:Valentine's day EMO feeling
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Affairs of the heart really confuses us all and it sometimes is good to hear a view from a third person.
Others who are feeling the same can share too
I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I initiated it because i was feeling that my ex changed and that she just didn't had that part of her left that attracted me so much in the first place.
Eventually, quarrels and misunderstandings led to our downfall. You know...Couples in love do the most petty and darndest things. Since the relationship was already rocky on my side, it took the littlelest of quarrels and misunderstandings which led to our separation.
The breakup was hard to take for both of us but it was harder for my ex. I knew she was suffering but i didn't want to cause more hurt so i just lied low. I maintained that we were still friends.
A few months passed and now its today. I thought everything was over and that both of us could now start anew.
Then i received a very very sad Powerpoint presentation from my ex. It was about the past memories we had together, the way she took the breakup, post breakup and present. It even contained pictures we took together and the funny things we did.
She still loves me...
I'm now in a state of emptiness, emo-ness and feeling downright lost. I guess i should be feeling guilty that i couldnt appreciate what i had but as you know we cant turn back time and we can't reverse certain things. I truly am confused now.
Yours Truly
Temere -
at least u let her go instead of leading her on or treat her as backup for companionship, u don't have to be guilty. I think since u already made the decision to leave her, why go back.. unless u feel u didn't made the correct decision last time.
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the question now is, do u still love her?
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Surely there is none
Who will speak a pitying word
About my lost love.
Now my folly's fitting end
Is my own nothingness.
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actuali these things do happen so its up to how u n her recreate the spark... but since both of u apart now so jz bobian and wish her luck... but do send her flowers if shes not occupied for the day...Originally posted by Temeraire™:Affairs of the heart really confuses us all and it sometimes is good to hear a view from a third person.
Others who are feeling the same can share too
I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I initiated it because i was feeling that my ex changed and that she just didn't had that part of her left that attracted me so much in the first place.
Eventually, quarrels and misunderstandings led to our downfall. You know...Couples in love do the most petty and darndest things. Since the relationship was already rocky on my side, it took the littlelest of quarrels and misunderstandings which led to our separation.
The breakup was hard to take for both of us but it was harder for my ex. I knew she was suffering but i didn't want to cause more hurt so i just lied low. I maintained that we were still friends.
A few months passed and now its today. I thought everything was over and that both of us could now start anew.
Then i received a very very sad Powerpoint presentation from my ex. It was about the past memories we had together, the way she took the breakup, post breakup and present. It even contained pictures we took together and the funny things we did.
She still loves me...
I'm now in a state of emptiness, emo-ness and feeling downright lost. I guess i should be feeling guilty that i couldnt appreciate what i had but as you know we cant turn back time and we can't reverse certain things. I truly am confused now.
Yours Truly
Temere -
y confused?
do u stil love her?
if yes, then try again n start everything all over.
if not, dun ruin or waste her time anymore.
spare her, leave her alone n let her go.
she will find someone who suits her better in time to come. -
feeling gulity? sympatise? or Love?Originally posted by Temeraire™:Affairs of the heart really confuses us all and it sometimes is good to hear a view from a third person.
Others who are feeling the same can share too
I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I initiated it because i was feeling that my ex changed and that she just didn't had that part of her left that attracted me so much in the first place.
Eventually, quarrels and misunderstandings led to our downfall. You know...Couples in love do the most petty and darndest things. Since the relationship was already rocky on my side, it took the littlelest of quarrels and misunderstandings which led to our separation.
The breakup was hard to take for both of us but it was harder for my ex. I knew she was suffering but i didn't want to cause more hurt so i just lied low. I maintained that we were still friends.
A few months passed and now its today. I thought everything was over and that both of us could now start anew.
Then i received a very very sad Powerpoint presentation from my ex. It was about the past memories we had together, the way she took the breakup, post breakup and present. It even contained pictures we took together and the funny things we did.
She still loves me...
I'm now in a state of emptiness, emo-ness and feeling downright lost. I guess i should be feeling guilty that i couldnt appreciate what i had but as you know we cant turn back time and we can't reverse certain things. I truly am confused now.
Yours Truly
Temere
it sound like u have gotten over with that r/s, is only ur ex who is still holding on. pls think carefully b4 u make another decision. dun ever try and hurt her for another time. -
I think it is me feeling guilty. I definitely do not love her anymore. Ah well...
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Don't you think both of you would start to quarrel again if you patch back...?Originally posted by Temeraire™:Affairs of the heart really confuses us all and it sometimes is good to hear a view from a third person.
Others who are feeling the same can share too
I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I initiated it because i was feeling that my ex changed and that she just didn't had that part of her left that attracted me so much in the first place.
Eventually, quarrels and misunderstandings led to our downfall. You know...Couples in love do the most petty and darndest things. Since the relationship was already rocky on my side, it took the littlelest of quarrels and misunderstandings which led to our separation.
The breakup was hard to take for both of us but it was harder for my ex. I knew she was suffering but i didn't want to cause more hurt so i just lied low. I maintained that we were still friends.
A few months passed and now its today. I thought everything was over and that both of us could now start anew.
Then i received a very very sad Powerpoint presentation from my ex. It was about the past memories we had together, the way she took the breakup, post breakup and present. It even contained pictures we took together and the funny things we did.
She still loves me...
I'm now in a state of emptiness, emo-ness and feeling downright lost. I guess i should be feeling guilty that i couldnt appreciate what i had but as you know we cant turn back time and we can't reverse certain things. I truly am confused now.
Yours Truly
Temere
And can you explain the part in blue...? What do you mean by 'start anew'? As in friends or....? -
Actually... Was sort of in the same dilemma with you some time back..Originally posted by Temeraire™:I think it is me feeling guilty. I definitely do not love her anymore. Ah well...
I suppose some things just have to be done...? Even if ya didn't do it, you'll probably just be living on other kind of regrets right now...? -
just let her go then... she definately deserve someone who love her...Originally posted by Temeraire™:I think it is me feeling guilty. I definitely do not love her anymore. Ah well... -
sometimes ppl change bcos of their partner's attitude. sometimes they change bcos of their friend's influence. u have to know y she changed, was it bcos of u or bcos of her peers. when u find the root to the problem, learn from it n den decide.
maybe read my thread to knw wat i just went thru n the lessons i learnt.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=237245
sorry, i duno hw to make it link.
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Why not, accept her back, and start afresh?
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The part in blue.... Well... What i meant was start anew as friends...Originally posted by NuTcRaCk:sometimes ppl change bcos of their partner's attitude. sometimes they change bcos of their friend's influence. u have to know y she changed, was it bcos of u or bcos of her peers. when u find the root to the problem, learn from it n den decide.
maybe read my thread to knw wat i just went thru n the lessons i learnt.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=237245
sorry, i duno hw to make it link.
Actually i knew why she changed... It was probably we became closer once i snagged her. I liked her cant care less, arrogant, i am boss attitude... Once we became one... It seemed to disappear from here and she seemed like a fragile girl -
Bump?
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guess she reali is better off on the long run wthout u...Originally posted by Temeraire™:The part in blue.... Well... What i meant was start anew as friends...
Actually i knew why she changed... It was probably we became closer once i snagged her. I liked her cant care less, arrogant, i am boss attitude... Once we became one... It seemed to disappear from here and she seemed like a fragile girl -
~~Often, a person need to lose everything before he know how to cherish.
Actually, happiness is right in front of you.
Just what is happiness?
When you are hungry, a bowl of hot noodle in front of you is happiness.
When you are tired, a soft bed is happiness.
When you are crying, a gentle tissue is happiness.
Actually, happiness has no definition. Sometimes, small actions can touch
your heart. Happiness or not, depends on how you look at it.
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since u dun love her anymore, why u want waste her time....
Woman's youth is very important!
u are EMO because it is Valentine day...
But u love her, it is a different thing -
I dread to think about e way she must feeling now...her loneliness on Valentine's...her bitterness in Lunar New Year's festive period...Originally posted by Temeraire™:Affairs of the heart really confuses us all and it sometimes is good to hear a view from a third person.
Others who are feeling the same can share too
I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I initiated it because i was feeling that my ex changed and that she just didn't had that part of her left that attracted me so much in the first place.
Eventually, quarrels and misunderstandings led to our downfall. You know...Couples in love do the most petty and darndest things. Since the relationship was already rocky on my side, it took the littlelest of quarrels and misunderstandings which led to our separation.
The breakup was hard to take for both of us but it was harder for my ex. I knew she was suffering but i didn't want to cause more hurt so i just lied low. I maintained that we were still friends.
A few months passed and now its today. I thought everything was over and that both of us could now start anew.
Then i received a very very sad Powerpoint presentation from my ex. It was about the past memories we had together, the way she took the breakup, post breakup and present. It even contained pictures we took together and the funny things we did.
She still loves me...
I'm now in a state of emptiness, emo-ness and feeling downright lost. I guess i should be feeling guilty that i couldnt appreciate what i had but as you know we cant turn back time and we can't reverse certain things. I truly am confused now.
Yours Truly
Temere
Don't know why you are still feeling confuse now though...even if she's deluded now...eventually "guilt" would be e last reason any gal would want from a guy to patch things up... -
I'm just feeling too emo over the email
I guess the memories coming back at me were too much.
Anyway thanks guys! I guess i will take all your advices. I have already let her go.... Its just about her letting go that i'm worried about... She can't seem to let go -
then let her hate u lor.Originally posted by Temeraire™:I'm just feeling too emo over the email
I guess the memories coming back at me were too much.
Anyway thanks guys! I guess i will take all your advices. I have already let her go.... Its just about her letting go that i'm worried about... She can't seem to let go -
points:
-u still like her
-cant bear to leave someone sho good
solution:
-call her out for a tok, not in groups now as she might go away from you
-tell her how u really feel, mostly she would still care for u as u all are tgt before