How do u overcome emotional insecurity
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How do u overcome emotional insecurity, especially when u wanna interact with people?
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change what You believe and ya chg how ya feel emotionally
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Build up your own self esteem then u won't feel insecure
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Get help from close friends and family. Ask them to build support and rapport in what you wanted to do. Do not force yourself to suddenly mask a super ego in front of yourself and present it to other people. Learn through conversations, books, other ppl's experiences and such.Originally posted by Texcoco II:How do u overcome emotional insecurity, especially when u wanna interact with people? -
You mean people in general...? Or a particular group of people...?Originally posted by Texcoco II:How do u overcome emotional insecurity, especially when u wanna interact with people? -
Have a wank mate?Originally posted by Texcoco II:How do u overcome emotional insecurity, especially when u wanna interact with people?
Nah, just joshing with you. On a serious note, it wholly depends on the kind of emotional insecurity you're dealing with and the source of it.
Firstly what is it?
Depression? Stress? Low-esteem? What are you particularly discontent about?
Your physique?
One of the greatest mistakes one tends to do is repress a particular negative emotional thus 'works around it' rather than confronting it thereby a first step of solving it.
Theoretically, take for instance, one who is fully aware that one is clinically or morbidly overweight rather than facing the problem they deny it or accept the condition as 'normal' whereas it is not normal to be clinically or morbidly fat. And as a means of building up their esteems they would wear revealing and rather provocative clothing showing their flab, it is horrible for the observers and one can definately tell, most of the time that the overweight individual being observed is self-conscious. The way I see it, the only soluble method of tackling obesity is the gym. You recognise the problem and you find means of eradicating it. -
Makintyr: Is this your own conclusion / based on some books. Seems weird that fat people will wear revealing clothes as a means to boost their self esteem. But once read a psychology book, that a woman who was raped will have a tendency to become promiscuious after the event, as a means to forget the pain.
Going back to the topic, ya must tell us wat your problem is. But another way is to tell yourself , the other person is just as nervous as u are. Just ask your friends lor, do they feel scared of having nothing to tok about when meeting people for the first time etc. I bet they are. So dun worrie, u are not alone. That thought alone is comforting, coz while u are searching your brain for topics, the other person may be doing the same.