Teacher harrassing ex-student
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My girlfriend's ex-teacher (a Maths teacher from Bedok South Secondary
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Still, his advances did not relent.
He even had the cheek to tell her that he did not mind being a third party in our relationship.
Again, my girl had to ward off his advances.
I have asked my girl for his number but she refuses as she fears that in my anger I might threaten him bodily and hence get into trouble (later kena police report knn!).
Yesterday as we were out together on Valentine's Day he dared to message her.
Today was the last straw. He msged her telling how he will give her allowance money so long as she spent time with him physically (by that I suppose he wants her to sleep with him) and that she need not inform me of what's going on. My girlfriend was horrified and threatened to report him to the papers, to MOE etc etc
My gf has promised me that she will allow me to confront her should he contact her one more time.
Should I ready the parang?
I have kept this matter quiet for far too long.
He has shown my girlfriend no respect, nor has he shown respect for himself and his profession. He started "jio-ing" her while she was retaking her O Level's as a private candidate - he was her night class teacher. As an educator, his conduct is very unbecoming.
I can easily report the matter to MOE, just as easily I can wait outside the gates of his school with a parang slung behind my back.
Which course of action should I take? This has been a very embarrassing ordeal for my sweetheart. -
collect all evidence
show sch principal, cc to MOE, bcc to stomp -
Inform Principal and MOE asap.
This kind of jerk must finish him off asap.
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hope she didnt delete the msgs...
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x2Originally posted by CoolMyth:Inform Principal and MOE asap.
This kind of jerk must finish him off asap. -
The Maths teacher is a cheeko pek. Please inform the school principal immediately. Also, report to neighbourhood police post. And report to MOE too. If you do not stop him now, he will also sexually harass other female students.
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MOE email address is [email protected]Originally posted by norm:The Maths teacher is a cheeko pek. Please inform the school principal immediately. Also, report to neighbourhood police post. And report to MOE too. If you do not stop him now, he will also sexually harass other female students. -
get him to stop, then report him if he fails to desist.
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x3Originally posted by CoolMyth:Inform Principal and MOE asap.
This kind of jerk must finish him off asap.
dun inform stomp la. i think we have too much media focused on this sorta matter already. abit counter-productive. -
go to MOE
dont try to take him on yourself
dont try to 'act hero'
if you do the wrong thing you can also end up in jail yourself
let MOE handle this -
Post his lumber here and we'll know what to do.
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Mai chou luan.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Post his lumber here and we'll know what to do. 
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what's mai chou luan?Originally posted by CoolMyth:Mai chou luan. -
pics of gf
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DO NOT AT ANY MOMENT HURT HIM BODILY!
he might use that against you and your gf... -
= Dun try to stir shit.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:what's mai chou luan? -
Originally posted by iSpeak:
Dont use parang lah. later you go jail go gf heartbroken lah.
My girlfriend's ex-teacher (a Maths teacher from [b]Bedok South Secondary ) has been harrassing her for quite some time - a few months perhaps. He confessed her feelings for her, but she rejected him outright. On and off he has tried to win her heart. He continues to SMS her even after me and her went steady, and she made clear that she was attacted.
Still, his advances did not relent.
He even had the cheek to tell her that he did not mind being a third party in our relationship.
Again, my girl had to ward off his advances.
I have asked my girl for his number but she refuses as she fears that in my anger I might threaten him bodily and hence get into trouble (later kena police report knn!).
Yesterday as we were out together on Valentine's Day he dared to message her.
Today was the last straw. He msged her telling how he will give her allowance money so long as she spent time with him physically (by that I suppose he wants her to sleep with him) and that she need not inform me of what's going on. My girlfriend was horrified and threatened to report him to the papers, to MOE etc etc
My gf has promised me that she will allow me to confront her should he contact her one more time.
Should I ready the parang?
I have kept this matter quiet for far too long.
He has shown my girlfriend no respect, nor has he shown respect for himself and his profession. He started "jio-ing" her while she was retaking her O Level's as a private candidate - he was her night class teacher. As an educator, his conduct is very unbecoming.
I can easily report the matter to MOE, just as easily I can wait outside the gates of his school with a parang slung behind my back.
Which course of action should I take? This has been a very embarrassing ordeal for my sweetheart.[/b]
Give us his lumber. -
dont even bother to go talk to that teacher.
so what if you DO successfully threaten him and he shuts up and leaves your gf alone??
what about OTHER girls???
just collect all the evidence and give to the principal lah... -
do NOT post any numbers or pictures or names here
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What's his lumber?
If you dont post his lumber here, means you allowed him to harm others girl.
If you dont post his lumber here, it means you allow his to jio and bio you girlfriend.
Be a MAN. Post his Lumber. -
I believe there's only one way out.
Collect the SMSes that the teacher has been sending, and go straight to the MOE. -
Scare tactics work best?
Threaten to cut off his penis and stuff it inside his mouth.
That's what I feel like doing now. -
Yea!Originally posted by iSpeak:Scare tactics work best?
Threaten to cut off his penis and stuff it inside his mouth.
That's what I feel like doing now. -
lumber tactics works best too.
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Wad's with teachers nowadays? Rape, molest and now sexual-harrassment?
I think MOE should get stricter with the behaviour and presentation of teachers.
Who knows, a few years down the road some primary school teachers will start harrassing the students.
To Threadstarter: Even if you wanna use force, make sure that he start the fight first and make sure that you have alibi. Otherwise seek help from MOE, the media and STOMP.
Cheers.
C.K