Your friend's probably right! Cos if you're not used to speaking with strangers or rather someone whom although you've known him but first time talking to him, it's quite natural.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:Well to all here...
l tink l oso posses a problem similar to TS
l dare to call up my good guy frenz and tok abt sch wrk and etc, ask them out...joke with them
But to those ppl...that l noe online...nver see be4 or tok be4 de...juz chat in msn and game..then one day...l hav to call them..tell them sumtinz...especially gals...l will be kinda nervous...like mind empty empty de...cnt tink of topics to say...very jialat...
Does anyone noe what is this problem of mine mah? l did ask a guy frenz..whether l am normal or not...he say of coz la...he told me if he were to speak to sumone he had nver spoken be4 on phone...he oso will be nervous...
You mean the girl you like have discussed this issue with you?Originally posted by clueless007:sigh... if there's anything in the world i lack, i lack the ability to converse face to face, or on the phone... and this poses a problem for me.. i don't know what to do... it's just who i am but the girl i like starting to talk about this bad point of me le.. sigh...
that's what i do for business calls. good method.Originally posted by Dating Specialist:Maybe you can test this out? Write down what you need to tell the person, either in point forms or the entire sentence, so that when you really forget, refer back to the paper and get your message across.
Yeah, sometimes you may find that it's not so much of the fact that you had it written down, bur rather the psychological effect of knowing you're safe with that paper, and it kind of puts you at ease.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:that's what i do for business calls. good method.
yeah, but when you get unexpected calls, thats another story.Originally posted by Dating Specialist:Yeah, sometimes you may find that it's not so much of the fact that you had it written down, bur rather the psychological effect of knowing you're safe with that paper, and it kind of puts you at ease.
When one is relaxed, the mind tends to function very well!![]()
Yup, unexpected calls tend to make one lose his stance right haha...I agree.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:yeah, but when you get unexpected calls, thats another story.
Last time I was like you... Now I just swings back and forth between quiet and noisy... In fact, sometimes I think I talk too much..??Originally posted by clueless007:i'm working now lor... ya, i'm very quiet... have problems handling phone calls.. but i'm tryin..
haha...you can try msn's video call. Its FREE and if your tired or run out of topics to talk...you can just pull out the handset and blame on technical errorsOriginally posted by clueless007:i'm working now lor... ya, i'm very quiet... have problems handling phone calls.. but i'm tryin..
haha...you can try msn's video call. Its FREE and if your tired or run out of topics to talk...you can just pull out the handset and blame on technical errorsOriginally posted by clueless007:i'm working now lor... ya, i'm very quiet... have problems handling phone calls.. but i'm tryin..
Originally posted by Click Here:haha...you can try msn's video call. Its FREE and if your tired or run out of topics to talk...you can just pull out the handset and blame on technical errors
Its a good platform for you to start with