what should I do?
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Recently, I meet a friend whom I used to be very close friend with her, after that had an quarrel and argument and after that , I was so angry with her and she dun allow me to friend another girl. I was totally upset and feel that she was a bit of controlling.
That time is our crucial year...
Then I meet her again... We even say hi and start to chat. We had a few good memory and had some wonderful time together. I know her family too...
I was a bit guility too.... that times, we are preparing for final examination and I was a bit destracted by this things, so I wish to cool down and concentrate on my studies. that time , I had friendship problem and she had problem with boy, financial , study and many more.
I find it hard to cope, I wanted a break from her because I feel stressed... But I tell my another friend to take care of her. While , I try to study hard for my exam. Solve my other problems, I suggested a breakto from her. I see ometime see that she is working hard at the other side of the class.
I cry when I say this. I feel really sad about it. Somehow I know she is sad too... but I dun wan to quarrel with her... I feel very confuse too....
she was sad to during that time and I was not there as a friend to help her. I feel that I am a bad friend.
But now, I saw her again, I want continue be her friend, I know her address, in fact , she live near my house, i even know her house and block number but I dun know whether I should pop into her life.
If I dun do it , I feel that I missing something... I somehow know some of her feeling during that period because I kind of experience it... I think that I want to do something. Maybe return to the mutual friend or that type of friend that can contact constantly and chat up...
now I dun know whether I had the courage to do it and contact her to solve this problem. I really want to solve it.
Can people give suggestions what should I do? -
Give her the silent treatment, stay focus on your own matters. Your own issue is more important
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i don't quite understand the first part. but anyway, you say you want to be her friend, but is it worth it? from the way you descibe her it seems she's pretty unreasonable. my stand is clear - any friend who doesn't allow you to have any other friends besides him/her is no goddam friend...
maybe you are just too used to having her around and now that she isn't, you have a sense of unfamilarity and uneasiness. but sometimes you gota move on. just try it out for a change, there's no harm in mixing around with other people, god knows you may like it better on the other side.
and please don feel say because you couldn't be there for her when she most required it. i mean, no way you can be beside her all the time yeh? your life doesnt revolve around her...
i wish you good luck! -
Now with sms life is so much simpler. People even send divorce message and fire their employees through sms because they find it hard to tell them directly.Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Recently, I meet a friend whom I used to be very close friend with her, after that had an quarrel and argument and after that , I was so angry with her and she dun allow me to friend another girl. I was totally upset and feel that she was a bit of controlling.
That time is our crucial year...
Then I meet her again... We even say hi and start to chat. We had a few good memory and had some wonderful time together. I know her family too...
I was a bit guility too.... that times, we are preparing for final examination and I was a bit destracted by this things, so I wish to cool down and concentrate on my studies. that time , I had friendship problem and she had problem with boy, financial , study and many more.
I find it hard to cope, I wanted a break from her because I feel stressed... But I tell my another friend to take care of her. While , I try to study hard for my exam. Solve my other problems, I suggested a breakto from her. I see ometime see that she is working hard at the other side of the class.
I cry when I say this. I feel really sad about it. Somehow I know she is sad too... but I dun wan to quarrel with her... I feel very confuse too....
she was sad to during that time and I was not there as a friend to help her. I feel that I am a bad friend.
But now, I saw her again, I want continue be her friend, I know her address, in fact , she live near my house, i even know her house and block number but I dun know whether I should pop into her life.
If I dun do it , I feel that I missing something... I somehow know some of her feeling during that period because I kind of experience it... I think that I want to do something. Maybe return to the mutual friend or that type of friend that can contact constantly and chat up...
now I dun know whether I had the courage to do it and contact her to solve this problem. I really want to solve it.
Can people give suggestions what should I do?
Why don't you send her a "Happy CNY" sms and see if she replies. Since you stay so near each other, you can send an sms... "Kopi downstairs coffee if you are free?" I don't know if girls drink kopi at coffee shops downstairs or not, but you get the message.
If she never respond than take it that it is fated and that she did not receive your sms. If she responds many moons later, that is ok too issn't it? -
i like this 1Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Now with sms life is so much simpler. People even send divorce message and fire their employees through sms because they find it hard to tell them directly.
Why don't you send her a "Happy CNY" sms and see if she replies. Since you stay so near each other, you can send an sms... "Kopi downstairs coffee if you are free?" I don't know if girls drink kopi at coffee shops downstairs or not, but you get the message.
If she never respond than take it that it is fated and that she did not receive your sms. If she responds many moons later, that is ok too issn't it?
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you should kill yourselfOriginally posted by Sakuraflower:my another friend -
How old are you?Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Recently, I meet a friend whom I used to be very close friend with her, after that had an quarrel and argument and after that , I was so angry with her and she dun allow me to friend another girl. I was totally upset and feel that she was a bit of controlling.
That time is our crucial year...
Then I meet her again... We even say hi and start to chat. We had a few good memory and had some wonderful time together. I know her family too...
I was a bit guility too.... that times, we are preparing for final examination and I was a bit destracted by this things, so I wish to cool down and concentrate on my studies. that time , I had friendship problem and she had problem with boy, financial , study and many more.
I find it hard to cope, I wanted a break from her because I feel stressed... But I tell my another friend to take care of her. While , I try to study hard for my exam. Solve my other problems, I suggested a breakto from her. I see ometime see that she is working hard at the other side of the class.
I cry when I say this. I feel really sad about it. Somehow I know she is sad too... but I dun wan to quarrel with her... I feel very confuse too....
she was sad to during that time and I was not there as a friend to help her. I feel that I am a bad friend.
But now, I saw her again, I want continue be her friend, I know her address, in fact , she live near my house, i even know her house and block number but I dun know whether I should pop into her life.
If I dun do it , I feel that I missing something... I somehow know some of her feeling during that period because I kind of experience it... I think that I want to do something. Maybe return to the mutual friend or that type of friend that can contact constantly and chat up...
now I dun know whether I had the courage to do it and contact her to solve this problem. I really want to solve it.
Can people give suggestions what should I do?
Are you a female?