Best Friend / Girlfriend
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when can you tell a girl treats you as a friend, and when can you tell that there's more to it?
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Not all girls are the same?
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when "the line" is crossed...
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I myself got confused, but i think there's some signs that she treats u as a friend, or something more.Originally posted by PamperedSoul:when can you tell a girl treats you as a friend, and when can you tell that there's more to it?
thx .
1) A friend, no matter how good, will not sms u almost every day, be it to ask about homework, or talk about life in general.
2)She calls or sms to ask u about homework or ask for advice about something, but then do not hang up or stop after getting an answer. Instead, she drags on the conversation.
3)She will somehow appear in ur area of sight(i.e walk ard ur cubicle in work, or walk near your seat) more often than necessary.
4)She talks to u very excitedly, very chatty and seems at ease when you are alone with her, but somehow, she clamps up, and talks very little when in a grp.
These are some points which I encountered recently, and I don't think it applies to EVERY gal out there. Hope it helps -
once she starts talking to you about other guys then she is your friendOriginally posted by PamperedSoul:when can you tell a girl treats you as a friend, and when can you tell that there's more to it?
thx .
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well..i kind of agree to what nanren4ever has replied...
there was 1 gal who called me quite often during my sec sch days...chat abt a lot of things,,home work life things like that...and i muz admit we became very very gd frens.When the day she left for Uk for further studies,i felt very sad,like i've lost a impt thing...was thinking abt her quite a bit here n there..and she only kind of confessed when she left for UK..but well,i wasn't so into her n nth happen since then..she's juz my very gd female fren.
there's a gal i quite like now..always thinking of excuses to sms n chat with her...like CNY,will send her greetings and extend sms chat things like that..
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Originally posted by borgkilla:once she starts talking to you about other guys then she is your friend
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Ask her to find out...us gals are too complicated to be stereotyped into any typical way of treatment...
We always know who is "just a friend" and who is "something more" -
i dunoe....
i still lookin 4 answers....
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only times will tell.Originally posted by PamperedSoul:when can you tell a girl treats you as a friend, and when can you tell that there's more to it?
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correct..Originally posted by Quiet Guy:only times will tell.
i think every girl reacts differently..
theres no fixed formula
some would try to win u over, some try to make u jealous, some try to test if u like anyone else. -
very complexed matter... u need to spend alot of time studying about gal that can drive u crazy...
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i myself had been tinking for dis for so long already...
nanren4ever provides some really gd answers though, thx leh...
any more points frm the girls themselves? this could mean alot to the guys out there. -
If ladies want to make a game out of everything, pretty soon the men will leave the field.
A note of advice to gals who want to play for such a long time until he tires of it. -
listen to luo zhi xiang - hao peng you
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No disrespect, but even men know who is "just a friend" and who is "something more". That said, even if asked, I'm not sure if many girls would actually reveal to the guy asking the question if he was "just a friend" or "something more"...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Ask her to find out...us gals are too complicated to be stereotyped into any typical way of treatment...
We always know who is "just a friend" and who is "something more"
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some will test u just to see if she gain one more admirer, not that shes all that into u. thats quite common especially among prettier girls.Originally posted by OO_OO_OO:correct..
i think every girl reacts differently..
theres no fixed formula
some would try to win u over, some try to make u jealous, some try to test if u like anyone else. -
maybe she is hinting to u to take actions b4 she is goneOriginally posted by borgkilla:once she starts talking to you about other guys then she is your friend -
i think the worse thing is if u like the gal and she's hinting u that she like u n u didn't get the signal,but instead send the wrong signal...
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possible,but she may also be hinting that she dont think of u as potential.Originally posted by Kenashi:maybe she is hinting to u to take actions b4 she is gone -
The SIGNS, all a girl liking us or treat us as girlfriend. If like this I don't even dare to talked to her. Afraid she get the wrong perception. What do you think guys, is that okay?
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hmmm.... tough one....
but i would think if she treats you like a friend only, she'll talk to you more about guys she like, and ask you about gals you like....
also watch her eyes when you compliments other gals.... look for any sign of disappointment...
that's all i can think of...
but seriously, if you like her... just ask her, or drop hints... cos i've personally seen two compatible ppl NOT get together cos they both do not think the other party sees them in that way....
and if you don't like her in that way, likewise drop hints like.... "hmmm.... I bet if i had a little sister, she'll be just like you!!" -
Never assume the gal is treating you more than a friend until you ASKED her yourself and clarify. Second guessing will only complicated matters.Originally posted by PamperedSoul:when can you tell a girl treats you as a friend, and when can you tell that there's more to it?
thx .
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what if she talks about other guys but will tend to change the topic when you talk about other girls?Originally posted by smudgey:but i would think if she treats you like a friend only, she'll talk to you more about guys she like, and ask you about gals you like.... -
Totally agreeOriginally posted by Bontakun:Never assume the gal is treating you more than a friend until you ASKED her yourself and clarify. Second guessing will only complicated matters. 