I passed the test
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Hi folks.
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs, have you ever went through a relationship where your girl, out of nowhere, suddenly reveals that she is not exactly the innocent puppy you imagined her to be? In a rough emotional jerk, you are made aware that is she not as sexually naive as you thought she was.
Remember the sheer heartpain you went through? The ache you were receiving second-hand goods, if I may put it forth so bluntly?
I was with her the other night in the middle of some heartland park. We were being sexually active ; she was masturbating me and as she did so, we discussed about our sexual past.
It was on that night that I confessed to her I wasn't a virgin. In the earlier stages of our relationship I had lied and said I was one.
She, in turn, too, confessed that she was not as pure as I had imagined. Her ex-boyfriend had insisted on her giving him oral sex and other sexual activities stopping short of copulation. Naturally, being a possessive male, I felt a flash of hot anger. I felt cheated, and though I revealed no outward emotional signs, my mind was in a state of mental anguish.
That night, I went home and reflected.
I slowly realized that it wasn't fair for ourselves if I were to suddenly treat her in a different light. We love each other very dearly, and I am not going to compromise that and the trust, comfort and faith we have in each other just because of things that we have had no control over.
In this way, I had passed the test and now I love her all the more because I have the innate knowledge that I can accept and respect her no matter what her past. I think after this episode we shall share an even closer bond with each other.
I am glad I had been tested this way.
So to all my brudder-brudder out there, don't feel cheated if you feel you are getting a beautiful diamond that has lost some of its shine, all the more if you are not a model of purity and chastity yourself.
My only deep regret is I now do not have the chance to give up my own "V" to her.
Cheers. -
What about her, you got ask her how she thinks?
by the way, why is this in AA?
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it is sad to hear about this things...
if u love each other, then try discuss with her and see how...
sometime , she does not want to talk about it, dun force her....
this r/s is up to 2 of you...
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Originally posted by iSpeak:Hi folks.
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs, have you ever went through a relationship where your girl, out of nowhere, suddenly reveals that she is not exactly the innocent puppy you imagined her to be? In a rough emotional jerk, you are made aware that is she not as sexually naive as you thought she was.
Remember the sheer heartpain you went through? The ache you were receiving second-hand goods, if I may put it forth so bluntly?
I was with her the other night in the middle of some heartland park. We were being sexually active ; she was masturbating me and as she did so, we discussed about our sexual past.
It was on that night that I confessed to her I wasn't a virgin. In the earlier stages of our relationship I had lied and said I was one.
She, in turn, too, confessed that she was not as pure as I had imagined. Her ex-boyfriend had insisted on her giving him oral sex and other sexual activities stopping short of copulation. Naturally, being a possessive male, I felt a flash of hot anger. I felt cheated, and though I revealed no outward emotional signs, my mind was in a state of mental anguish.
That night, I went home and reflected.
I slowly realized that it wasn't fair for ourselves if I were to suddenly treat her in a different light. We love each other very dearly, and I am not going to compromise that and the trust, comfort and faith we have in each other just because of things that we have had no control over.
In this way, I had passed the test and now I love her all the more because I have the innate knowledge that I can accept and respect her no matter what her past. I think after this episode we shall share an even closer bond with each other.
I am glad I had been tested this way.
So to all my brudder-brudder out there, don't feel cheated if you feel you are getting a beautiful diamond that has lost some of its shine, all the more if you are not a model of purity and chastity yourself.
My only deep regret is I now do not have the chance to give up my own "V" to her.
Cheers.
Glad you thought of it this way; several that came before you perished at this level.
Cheers -
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nope.. both of us very V and abit blur blur.
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Congratulation! You've passed the test!
But try not to bring this matter up again because that will be the REAL test. -
x2Originally posted by Yunhaier: Glad you thought of it this way; several that came before you perished at this level.
Cheers
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In summary, you thought you owned her. But instead, she pwnd you big time.Originally posted by iSpeak:Hi folks.
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs, have you ever went through a relationship where your girl, out of nowhere, suddenly reveals that she is not exactly the innocent puppy you imagined her to be? In a rough emotional jerk, you are made aware that is she not as sexually naive as you thought she was.
Remember the sheer heartpain you went through? The ache you were receiving second-hand goods, if I may put it forth so bluntly?
I was with her the other night in the middle of some heartland park. We were being sexually active ; she was masturbating me and as she did so, we discussed about our sexual past.
It was on that night that I confessed to her I wasn't a virgin. In the earlier stages of our relationship I had lied and said I was one.
She, in turn, too, confessed that she was not as pure as I had imagined. Her ex-boyfriend had insisted on her giving him oral sex and other sexual activities stopping short of copulation. Naturally, being a possessive male, I felt a flash of hot anger. I felt cheated, and though I revealed no outward emotional signs, my mind was in a state of mental anguish.
That night, I went home and reflected.
I slowly realized that it wasn't fair for ourselves if I were to suddenly treat her in a different light. We love each other very dearly, and I am not going to compromise that and the trust, comfort and faith we have in each other just because of things that we have had no control over.
In this way, I had passed the test and now I love her all the more because I have the innate knowledge that I can accept and respect her no matter what her past. I think after this episode we shall share an even closer bond with each other.
I am glad I had been tested this way.
So to all my brudder-brudder out there, don't feel cheated if you feel you are getting a beautiful diamond that has lost some of its shine, all the more if you are not a model of purity and chastity yourself.
My only deep regret is I now do not have the chance to give up my own "V" to her.
Cheers. -
That wasn't what he meant.Originally posted by Deportivo:In summary, you thought you owned her. But instead, she pwnd you big time.
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you have to read between the lines bro.Originally posted by M©+square:That wasn't what he meant. -
Well if your gf have bfs before you..then it is very native to think she's so call "innocent"
Think of it..if you want to be intimate with her...why wont her ex bf want to be intimate with her also...
Therefore..you are wise to realise that if you love her...then accept her past, whatever it is and if you cant accept, then she's not for you.
Good luck all best for you and gf -
blemishes in life make things more humane.
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You are full of shit.
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Originally posted by Deportivo:In summary, you thought you owned her. But instead, she pwnd you big time.
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em why u need to wash ur dirty linen in the public?
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very well saidOriginally posted by Deportivo:In summary, you thought you owned her. But instead, she pwnd you big time. -
well she is still technically a virgin isn't she? that's rare these days
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:What about her, you got ask her how she thinks?
by the way, why is this in AA? -
Wat if she wasnt a V? Would you have dump her eventually (amidst difficult decisions that is) because of this?
And why did you lie to her in the first place? Did you feel guilty that you weren't a V anymore? What if she did way more than what you even felt was appropriate for yourself (hence the lie due to the self-felt inadequacy)?
Would you not be able to accept her then?
Am glad that you tot this way too. You've come to accept her as who she is and not just what you expect her to beOriginally posted by Yunhaier: Glad you thought of it this way; several that came before you perished at this level.
Cheers -
ser mer yi shi ah?Originally posted by iSpeak:Hi folks.
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs, have you ever
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man when I read your post there only one thing I do....Originally posted by Deportivo:In summary, you thought you owned her. But instead, she pwnd you big time. -
If you love her, you will be happy for her that she had some good times with another guy. Sxx is important but it is not everything. Why do you regret you did not give you "V" to her? So what if you did? Will your relationship be better? Focus on your relationship with her everyday and use all you intelligence to make it wonderful for the both of you.Originally posted by iSpeak:Hi folks.
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs, have you ever went through a relationship where your girl, out of nowhere, suddenly reveals that she is not exactly the innocent puppy you imagined her to be? In a rough emotional jerk, you are made aware that is she not as sexually naive as you thought she was.
Remember the sheer heartpain you went through? The ache you were receiving second-hand goods, if I may put it forth so bluntly?
I was with her the other night in the middle of some heartland park. We were being sexually active ; she was masturbating me and as she did so, we discussed about our sexual past.
It was on that night that I confessed to her I wasn't a virgin. In the earlier stages of our relationship I had lied and said I was one.
She, in turn, too, confessed that she was not as pure as I had imagined. Her ex-boyfriend had insisted on her giving him oral sex and other sexual activities stopping short of copulation. Naturally, being a possessive male, I felt a flash of hot anger. I felt cheated, and though I revealed no outward emotional signs, my mind was in a state of mental anguish.
That night, I went home and reflected.
I slowly realized that it wasn't fair for ourselves if I were to suddenly treat her in a different light. We love each other very dearly, and I am not going to compromise that and the trust, comfort and faith we have in each other just because of things that we have had no control over.
In this way, I had passed the test and now I love her all the more because I have the innate knowledge that I can accept and respect her no matter what her past. I think after this episode we shall share an even closer bond with each other.
I am glad I had been tested this way.
So to all my brudder-brudder out there, don't feel cheated if you feel you are getting a beautiful diamond that has lost some of its shine, all the more if you are not a model of purity and chastity yourself.
My only deep regret is I now do not have the chance to give up my own "V" to her.
Cheers.
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To all non-virgin guys out there:
If you are not a virgin yourself, you have NO RIGHT to expect your gf to be a virgin... This is just fair.... Dont be an asshole... Wat about your previous gf whom you have had sex with? Does it mean that no one will want her anymore? All because you took her virginity? Please go and think about it....
And for all those virgin guys/girls out there... It's all up to the individual whether you mind your other half not being a virgin or not... Sometimes it's just not as simple as "If you love him/her, you wont mind".... -
Ya - please move it to Bar so that I can unleash my creative juices when I craft a reply. Please to FireICe - do it please!Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:What about her, you got ask her how she thinks?
by the way, why is this in AA?