Classmate acting gay.
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Ive got this really weird classmate who keeps touching me and i keep thinking hes gay....
How do i get him to stop harrassing me for god's sake its so annoying. -
[color=Darkblue]tell him to stop doing it, says that you are uncomfortable with such extreme friendliness.
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Hi,Originally posted by Question:Ive got this really weird classmate who keeps touching me and i keep thinking hes gay....
How do i get him to stop harrassing me for god's sake its so annoying.
You haven't give much information about your school. Are you from an all boy's school in the first place? (I'm not stereotyping, but the tendency is higher.) Before you dispel him as a gay, you have to know a few tell tales sign. People have different ways of expressing themselves, sometimes to a certain sense that you may mistaken the person is gay/lesbian or maybe he treats you as a very good friend.
1) Think of the relationship between you and him. How close is it? Do you guys always talk anything to each other? Does he always stick to you only?
2) Do you notice that he's trying to flirt with you?
3) Those actions that you said, do they happen in conjunction with anything suspicious, say when he's trying to flirt with you?
4) Ask anyone, including girls, who knows him, does he do the same?
5) Did he mention more things that are related to man instead of woman? Meaning take notice and make compliments...
The best option is not to label him as a gay, even though that he may be a gay. I don't know how old are you and him, but in a conservative country like Singapore, he will be isolated and may have adverse effects when growing up. If you know the truth, keep to yourself, and lead everyday life.
If you are still uncomfortable by his actions, perhaps keep a distance with him, and try not to be alone with him. Stay with your group of friends. Or do what stonned had said, tell him directly, but in a jokingly manner, you know.
Sometimes, isolate gay people(not saying your friend is one) may not be the best option. They have their own rights as well, they are still people. It's the society fault that leads us to discriminate these people, with wrongful depictions of their lives. Some may lead a havoc life, but most gays/lesbians are generally friendly, and most importanly, they still need friends of the same gender, as well as the opposite. -
r u still in ur teens? well i tell u, i was from a boys sch and sometimes things like these happen, u just have to see when and where they take place...
theres this friend who go around the class during breaks grabbing everyones private parts and pinching everyones nipples, but now in his 20s he has turned out to be an absolutely straight flirt...
theres also this guy who enjoys wrestling some guy to the ground and "sodomising" him in class, but hes straight too (well maybe hes bi, but thats really none of my business)
recently one of my friends told me her ex classmate put her hand on her lap while they were sitting at a crowded fast food restaurant and told her shes interested in her...
this kind of thing i try to take it easy now lah... tinydots advice is good, i dun advise well, can only share some experiences, but i say treat these people like u treat anybody else -
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the next time he touches u , you jus show all ur anger and shout back..he confirm kana stunned and wont even touch u again..lolz..Originally posted by Question:Ive got this really weird classmate who keeps touching me and i keep thinking hes gay....
How do i get him to stop harrassing me for god's sake its so annoying.
Givache 
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one of my friend worst...
i tell you...
you DONT WANNA know what he does to others...
you dont wanna know... -
Tell me !!!Originally posted by Prodigy:one of my friend worst...
i tell you...
you DONT WANNA know what he does to others...
you dont wanna know... 
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Well im from a mixed school.He keeps flirting with me and occasionally doing the weird thing like stroking my hair or hinting about something related to geylang.....as to my knowledge he only seems to take particular interest in guys.In fact quite a lot of people,even some teachers know he likes guys.He doesnt seem to mind,in fact he LIKES being called a gay and goes round boasting "IM GAY".He KNOWS i dont like the attention hes giving me and ive told him to layoff but he simply doesnt CARE....
Thanks for your help though. -
Then act gay to scare him off
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nobody, guy/gal, str8/gay, etc should tolerate sexual harrasment
inform ur teacher or report to the police, at the very least stay in groups, away from him... hope it helps -
Castrate him
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trust meOriginally posted by greengoblin:Tell me !!!
you DONT wanna know
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Oh i think i will do just that.Originally posted by HingisCrashesOut:nobody, guy/gal, str8/gay, etc should tolerate sexual harrasment
inform ur teacher or report to the police, at the very least stay in groups, away from him... hope it helps -
he act gay huh, then u must give him a stern warning otherwise he won let go one....someday around in school u ask himgo toilet with u ....must make sure no one around..then when he not paying attention, GRAB and SQEEZE his dick real hard with force n don let go while u issue yall warning to him , he surely won act gay again ...
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Give him jia lat jia lat!! so he will not bother u anymore
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aiyohh the more u dun wanna tell us, the MORE we wanna know...Originally posted by Prodigy:trust me
you DONT wanna know -
TRUST ME dammitOriginally posted by peiyi:aiyohh the more u dun wanna tell us, the MORE we wanna know...
you peeps REALLY DONT WANNA KNOW...
if i tell you
you all will wish that i didnt tell in the first place -
If I were u. I will wheck that gay @ss...Originally posted by Question:Ive got this really weird classmate who keeps touching me and i keep thinking hes gay....
How do i get him to stop harrassing me for god's sake its so annoying.
Show him ur power and u r no some pushover... -
Just bash him up the next time he tries to fondle you.
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kick his lan jiao and ask him dont harrase u again
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hehe i find this post quite funny. why dont u go and caress him and make him think ure a real gay. if hes not he'd get scared and stop doing those stuff. if hes for real... well at least u know for sure.
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Yupp, STRONGLY agreed.Originally posted by Witch:kick his lan jiao and ask him dont harrase u again -
Chop his lan jiao easier
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I AGREE that would be fun!Originally posted by userid:hehe i find this post quite funny. why dont u go and caress him and make him think ure a real gay. if hes not he'd get scared and stop doing those stuff. if hes for real... well at least u know for sure.