saying other ppl should let go, but you yourself cannot
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hahas i'm sure you guys always tell ppl to "let go of this guy/girl and move on.." any of you guys have had a similar experience? ppl telling you to let go and move on, but you can't.. it is LOGICAL and BENEFICIAL to let go, but you just can't do it.. i've been told to let go etc.... for the past few months.. still cant.. still get bullied by her.. still get hurt.. and i've asked ppl to let go and stuff a lot during these months.. hahas..
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yes.. me
and it's soo much difficult if the girl is being friendly to u -
It applies to many other things as well
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the girl isnt being nice.. she's scolding me everyday.. saying i'm in love with someone else.. i've loved her since i was 14, the VERY FIRST girl i was in love with.. i'm 18 this year, i've never stopped loving her since then.. and yet she's doing things like saying i have many girlfriends out there when i dun have a single female friend left.. i did her pw for her last year, and she blames me for not lending her my lap top when i need it for my OWN pw.. she msgs another guy and tells me I am wrong..
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The only time when letting go is good is when...
You in toilet. -
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saying other ppl should let go, but you yourself cannot
That is why I never give advice. I am not him, how do I know? -
For me relationship and death is easy to let go.
I have gone through it before. -
Me too.Originally posted by Eric Cartman:That is why I never give advice.
And i also dun see myself as being qualified to give pple advice. -
best solution is to let go liao mah
then tell him to go do stupid stuff meh?
haha
but yeap..sometimes ask others to let go you yourself cannot
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so true... that's why it is never head knowledge but "heart knowledge" that countsOriginally posted by blue_crimson_89:hahas i'm sure you guys always tell ppl to "let go of this guy/girl and move on.." any of you guys have had a similar experience? ppl telling you to let go and move on, but you can't.. it is LOGICAL and BENEFICIAL to let go, but you just can't do it.. i've been told to let go etc.... for the past few months.. still cant.. still get bullied by her.. still get hurt.. and i've asked ppl to let go and stuff a lot during these months.. hahas..
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hahas i'm sure you guys always tell ppl to "let go of this guy/girl and move on.." any of you guys have had a similar experience? ppl telling you to let go and move on, but you can't.. it is LOGICAL and BENEFICIAL to let go, but you just can't do it.. i've been told to let go etc.... for the past few months.. still cant.. still get bullied by her.. still get hurt.. and i've asked ppl to let go and stuff a lot during these months.. hahas..
cannot let go because they are the ones who cause all the problems mah... -
beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. ppl may not understand why you can do so much things for a person. but you see that every thing done is worth it. you owe her in the past life..
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yea i admit. i always tell my fres to let go seeing them living in despair. but i myself at times wil tend to tik of the past, hoping one day we could get together again.. i noe i should realy let go but i don noe why, i will jus tik of him esp when nite comes and regret the things that i did in the past... maybe it loneliness that strucks me... i really hope to tell him that i am sorry..Originally posted by blue_crimson_89:hahas i'm sure you guys always tell ppl to "let go of this guy/girl and move on.." any of you guys have had a similar experience? ppl telling you to let go and move on, but you can't.. it is LOGICAL and BENEFICIAL to let go, but you just can't do it.. i've been told to let go etc.... for the past few months.. still cant.. still get bullied by her.. still get hurt.. and i've asked ppl to let go and stuff a lot during these months.. hahas.. -
I guess the letting go of things is usually hard for everyone.. i fully understood that kind of feeling.. sometimes longing for him to come back and he doesn't.. my friend, probably you should stay going out with other ppl instead of thinking him at night.. get a life friend.. no point telling him sorry or what.. there's no right or wrong in relationship.. move on for a new beginning... i have moved on.. time to move on.. time really heal wounds.. need ppl to accompany.. can look for me n u can just pm me...Originally posted by huy:yea i admit. i always tell my fres to let go seeing them living in despair. but i myself at times wil tend to tik of the past, hoping one day we could get together again.. i noe i should realy let go but i don noe why, i will jus tik of him esp when nite comes and regret the things that i did in the past... maybe it loneliness that strucks me... i really hope to tell him that i am sorry..
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thanks lysa.. i guess i nid time.. i really wans to noe what wrong cos he nv tells me the reason for breaking up.. i tok i might do something wrong that agitate him to cause this break up but i really nv did anything wrong.. i was tiking maybe that time when he woos me i rejected going out with him a few times.. if this is so, i already apologise to him when we get together.. and i always give in, we nv fight or quarrel. i seriously don understand why things will turn to this way..am i wrong in devoting too much in this relationship? i jus wan to find someone who loves me like the way i love him.. am i asking for too much? even now, when i tried to msg him, invite him out for dinner, he nv even bother to reply back.. what did i do wrong actually?Originally posted by lysa:I guess the letting go of things is usually hard for everyone.. i fully understood that kind of feeling.. sometimes longing for him to come back and he doesn't.. my friend, probably you should stay going out with other ppl instead of thinking him at night.. get a life friend.. no point telling him sorry or what.. there's no right or wrong in relationship.. move on for a new beginning... i have moved on.. time to move on.. time really heal wounds.. need ppl to accompany.. can look for me n u can just pm me...
tk care... 
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It requires strength to acknowledge weakness and yet have the compassion to voice out and reach out to those in pain.Originally posted by Patrik:Me too.
And i also dun see myself as being qualified to give pple advice.
When fear supersedes compassion, it bounds a person of his true self.
It's all in the matter of perception. With that said, it is how one percieve himself.
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pang guang zhe qing. when i screw up i oso need ppl to tell me one.
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she is obviously using you she is cheating you of your feelings and time ask her one last time if she loves you and if she say any answer out of yes just leave her
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honestly, there's always so much at stake, so much more there is in a relationship.. letting go just isn't as easy as falling in love..
there's a girl i hardly know from my 1st year at jc.. she was stunningly beautiful, but i wasn't interested in her because of her over-friendly attitude.. however, she was there whenever i needed her, she always said the nicest things, the things i needed most.. when no1 wants to break the painful truth to me, she'd be the only one who'd do it for me because she cares enough to be the one who'd say those things to me.. there was once i was really sad over my girlfriend being unreasonable to me, she scolded me.. that's when i realise i have feelings for her.. mild as they are, they do exist.. however, i chose not to let go of my girlfriend despite having been hurt so much by her.. now, i fret over the smses i have to reply my girlfriend everyday which lead to quarrels and i anticipate and desire the smses of this girl of whom i met in jc.. she dropped out of jc last year and i won't see her again.. she treats me as one of her only close friends in jc whereas i feel differently as her.. she just sms-ed me regarding some work and i've been waiting for her reply since.. i really wish to see her reply, yes i do.. but i do have a girlfriend.. i feel like an asshole..
hahas k i know i'm a jerk.. falling in love is very must different from falling OUT of love.. it's just so much more difficult.. -
so whats your point? i really don't see any agonizing in your post, so? you are not a jerk, now you have a girlfriend and that friend of yours is just merely a friend, so? will you take a risk? break up with your girlfriend and take a risk and woo this friend of yours. i think you are contradicting yourself, first you whine about your girlfriend, but still you are still in a relationship, jesus christ, get a lifeOriginally posted by blue_crimson_89:honestly, there's always so much at stake, so much more there is in a relationship.. letting go just isn't as easy as falling in love..
there's a girl i hardly know from my 1st year at jc.. she was stunningly beautiful, but i wasn't interested in her because of her over-friendly attitude.. however, she was there whenever i needed her, she always said the nicest things, the things i needed most.. when no1 wants to break the painful truth to me, she'd be the only one who'd do it for me because she cares enough to be the one who'd say those things to me.. there was once i was really sad over my girlfriend being unreasonable to me, she scolded me.. that's when i realise i have feelings for her.. mild as they are, they do exist.. however, i chose not to let go of my girlfriend despite having been hurt so much by her.. now, i fret over the smses i have to reply my girlfriend everyday which lead to quarrels and i anticipate and desire the smses of this girl of whom i met in jc.. she dropped out of jc last year and i won't see her again.. she treats me as one of her only close friends in jc whereas i feel differently as her.. she just sms-ed me regarding some work and i've been waiting for her reply since.. i really wish to see her reply, yes i do.. but i do have a girlfriend.. i feel like an asshole..
hahas k i know i'm a jerk.. falling in love is very must different from falling OUT of love.. it's just so much more difficult.. -
hmm you're right.. maybe i should.. too young too stupid for such things..
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To TS, alot of your friends can tell you all sort of things, such as dude, just let her go, dude, its in the past already, dude you have a girlfriend, dude, there are better girls outside, but the truth is, your heart refuses to let go of this lingering feeling, maybe until the day, she get married, then just maybe you will let go of this feelings, maybe you think she is just perfect for you, and she could be the 'one' so what to do?
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i am not going to spam those lame crap like, dude, go for it, it will be unexpected, what if that friend of yours, just treat you a very good friend, who doesn't have any feeling for you at all, and you might end up without a girlfriend, this is not channel 8 lame chinese drama, (lame ending), life is just darn not fair, u met this girl, and feel she is just alright, but when she is your girl, you get to see the 'other' side of her, so.... and you miss out of this chance, move on
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Ya, but only if you know what to say, and know everything.Originally posted by M©+square:It requires strength to acknowledge weakness and yet have the compassion to voice out and reach out to those in pain.
When fear supersedes compassion, it bounds a person of his true self. It's all in the matter of perception. With that said, it is how one percieve himself.
Cheers