Affection and its Jealous Buddy
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Is it true if you show more Love to some person you like causes jealousy and Hate...therefore people tend to bring you down... or Some form trying to make you lose the person you like ?
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you mean for example like you like a girl but another guy gets close to her and you do nasty stuff to that guy so that he won't get close to her the next time?Originally posted by Seth35:Is it true if you show more Love to some person you like causes jealousy and Hate...therefore people tend to bring you down... or Some form trying to make you lose the person you like ?
and that girl got disgusted by your action and leaves you? -
you mean for example like you like a girl but another guy gets close to her and you do nasty stuff to that guy so that he won't get close to her the next time?
No i Meant was Othe girls see it and feels some form of affection of jealousy and how you treat the other Person...
and that girl got disgusted by your action and leaves you?
FYI I dont do that to guys....Its the People who did that to me
What if that guy is the one who badmouths you all the time, and you feel irritated...Even if you did badmouth him...Its the same... Cause he started it first....AND even if i did dont tell me he didnt do it before...I bettcha the girl knows more...
Why would a dog bite a person if the person didnt ill treat the dog ?
Even if i hate the Person...I had so far never touched him.... Even if i had lots of words of anger to say....I would say it to my own close friends or relatives...Why the person would be this way or so on... Isnt that normal explaining how you feel to your own friends or relatives ? I BET even that guy does it at my back most of the times too.
Why blame me for something i havent even done ? Or try to anticipate a move i dont Intend to make ? -
Another saga? -
Ya la....Somehow...Always the Same.... Irritated by people or children
Ooh...i reached my 1000th post long time ago... Any Prize ?
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Try staying with only one thread this time round all right?Originally posted by Seth35:Ya la....Somehow...Always the Same.... Irritated by people or children
You need help. But must have the desire to change to get help.
Change. -
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Originally posted by Seth35:Change like what ? No offense but seriously....The person that need to change is that Person... Why do i need to change when it was not me in the wrong...this is what i find RIDICULOUS... You never do anything wrong whats there to change ?
Then speak your case. We'll see how the thread goes. -
Nevermind...We'll continue his thread when the Right time Comes...
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The Remedy if i were to Suggest.... Is to spill the Beans... And let the girl know the whole truth of the situation.... Every single little thing out....From start to End... What he said and what he Did not say...
What is the real me and what is not...Able to Differentiate what is lies and Truth
People to respect my decision...(But this is hard for some "people")
One on one confrontation with the "person" involved... councilor or Somebody "Fair" as a Medium.... No friends or outsiders involved...
Explain to the "person" what kind of misunderstandings are involved...and tell her my point of view of what is really happening...
Basically BEING FAIR for either parties.
Solving this Problem but not making it an opportunity for eithe side... Keep everything balanced....
This is how i feel problems should be solved....
If people cant do this...so my Policy Remains the Same...
If that guy is Confident...I am very sure he has nothing to be afraid of...to Face people... -
real friend will be happy that u have success
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real friend will be happy that u have success
yap real friends feel happy for your success not angry at it....
But that was my attitude towards my friends....Too bad they were not appreciative.... -
Are you around 21 this year...?Originally posted by Seth35:The Remedy if i were to Suggest.... Is to spill the Beans... And let the girl know the whole truth of the situation.... Every single little thing out....From start to End... What he said and what he Did not say...
What is the real me and what is not...Able to Differentiate what is lies and Truth
People to respect my decision...(But this is hard for some "people")
One on one confrontation with the "person" involved... councilor or Somebody "Fair" as a Medium.... No friends or outsiders involved...
Explain to the "person" what kind of misunderstandings are involved...and tell her my point of view of what is really happening...
Basically BEING FAIR for either parties.
Solving this Problem but not making it an opportunity for eithe side... Keep everything balanced....
This is how i feel problems should be solved....
If people cant do this...so my Policy Remains the Same...
If that guy is Confident...I am very sure he has nothing to be afraid of...to Face people...
Just a reminder.. Often, asking people to settle or solve something YOUR style or YOUR way... Could already be a hindrance to negotiation by itself....?