If you are sure about what you want and what had gone wrong in the relationship, then communicate with her since you still want her. Sort things out together and both must be committed to make the relationship work. It is up to you two to make good what was/were bad and do something to suit each other!Originally posted by cyrusv2:i broke up with my girlfriend one month ago and up till now we are still talking. she is giving me hints that we can get back together even when our break up wasn't pretty at all now i feel depressed what should i do? i know i want her but i know i shouldn't she makes me feel used any suggestion?
i have that feeling but now i am confused......Originally posted by sweetevil:Nobody ever said that saying "goodbye" was easy, but after a while you sort of force yourself to remember that it's not really goodbye, it's really more like "I'll see you again".
sounds like this gal is not reliable and can't stand the test of time. u wanna give it a second thought to get back together with her? She is not "ci qing" and rather childish. Sorry if what I said hurt, but I speak the truth.Originally posted by cyrusv2:i love her alot shes my ideal one, somemore shes the one i lost my first time to so is she.....she say she love to too but because i wasn't in country for 1 month( i called her daily ) she couldn take it so she left me for another guy now they broke up because she dont think hes the right guy( that is what she claimed) i am confused as she is not coming clean with me about her reason. sigh... i love her alot i gave her wadever she wanted but....
probably she is still young and wanna look around till she finds the one she really wants and can be with her all the while or perhaps she still does not know what exactly she is looking for so she continues to shop for men until she finds the one. doesn't sound she is secure and mature in the way she handles relationship. If she goes on like that with you, you will continue to have headaches and you will feel insecure because you don't know when she will leave u for other men. Unless you are willing to wait for her to be more mature and by that time if she chooses you then good if she does not then your time and effort are in vain. just my two cents worth,nothing more nothing less.Originally posted by cyrusv2:what the hell is she trying to say....is she confused too? more blur then me?
Your 1st relationship?Originally posted by cyrusv2:she told me that when she first started out with me she also feel that i was the one for her. never mind thanks anyway fark that crap i think i know what to do.
Well, trying to win back someone's love isn't childish. And none of us can stop you from doing so even if we wanted to.Originally posted by cyrusv2:u know what guys i might be childish, but i want to court her back with everything i have got and when she accept i tell her " sorry i dont love you no more" things is especially bad for now when i have alot of free time i tend to think of her and our good memories.... sigh
try to stay away from her for the time being... cut off all contact, tell her you need time to think... clear your headOriginally posted by cyrusv2:i broke up with my girlfriend one month ago and up till now we are still talking. she is giving me hints that we can get back together even when our break up wasn't pretty at all now i feel depressed what should i do? i know i want her but i know i shouldn't she makes me feel used any suggestion?
wah! wat did she do? why you want to do that to her?Originally posted by cyrusv2:nah i don think i want her back i just want to seek my 'sweet' revenge i can forgive but never forget.