Originally posted by M©+square:
If she likes you, she likes you.
If she don't, she dont.
It's pretty easy. Either it's 1 or 2.
I will have to echo what the moderator wrote.
There are two categories of women in my head, friends and lovers.
The first category does not cross over to the other most of the time.
What about that lengendary speech women always make, “It is better for us to start off as friends, understand each other better…etc”
There is no contradiction to my point. ThatÂ’s their way of telling you not to come on too strongly at the initial stage.
These women must like you in the first place to want to understand you better!
Or perhaps not.
But it doesnÂ’t really matter.
Time will tell. Your task is not to understand women.
Their actions after that little speech will tell you whether they belong to the first category or the second. When they see you as a potential lover, they give you certain cues. It is up to you to pick them up.
HereÂ’s what you can do on your part:DonÂ’t look at women as a win or lose game. The focus is on finding someone you love and loves you back.
The objective is not to make every woman whom you like likes you.
How is this relevant to you?
Once you understand and put that into practice, youÂ’ve gained the ability to move on.
When you are able to move on easily, you start to see that the possibilities are endless. You are now more willing to go through the process of meeting new women.Scenarios:Girl gives you that speech about how she wants to understand you better and how she prefers to start off as a friend.
After spending some time with you, girl is still unwilling to give you her number or go out on dates.
Move on.
After a date, you call her to arrange another one. She does not bother to call you back.
Move on.
You mention some interesting place where the 2 of you can hang out. She says she wants to go but she never seems to have time for it.
Move on.
No ifs, no buts, no maybes.
Move on.This is not a win or lose game. We are all looking for that someone whom we love and loves us back.How do you proceed doing it then?
By going through the “horror” of meeting more women.
By filtering out women who want a piece of you but are not exactly attracted to you.
By eliminating those who string you along but canÂ’t really devote more time to you.
By putting yourself in the first place and understanding what you want.Good luck and take care.