Originally posted by marlboro:How much do you like her? If you want her back, back off for a while and leave her alone for a while. Sometimes, they have to sort out things for themselves before accepting you.
A few months ago, I finally met a gal who can make me forget my ex(i haven't had a gf for 2 yrs after my ex) She was very bright and cheery and we called each other everyday and meet up very often, enjoying each other's company. However, recently she started avoiding me and refuses to answer my calls. I even went to look her up at her work place only to be rebuked... Finally she told me that her reason for avoiding me was that she felt that she is getting too close and too dependent on me, which she doesn't wan it to happen.. she is starting to develop feelings for me but she says there's already someone else in her heart and she cannot love 2 persons at the same time n therefore decided to avoid me.... I feel so fucked up... It had taken me so much time and courage to decide to love again yet this had to happen... I'm really feeling very down, pls tell me what can i do?
By now you should realise that this is sort of a one sided relationship...? Before you continue to swear and curse, I would like to share some GOOD NEWS with you....Originally posted by marlboro:A few months ago, I finally met a gal who can make me forget my ex(i haven't had a gf for 2 yrs after my ex) She was very bright and cheery and we called each other everyday and meet up very often, enjoying each other's company. However, recently she started avoiding me and refuses to answer my calls. I even went to look her up at her work place only to be rebuked... Finally she told me that her reason for avoiding me was that she felt that she is getting too close and too dependent on me, which she doesn't wan it to happen.. she is starting to develop feelings for me but she says there's already someone else in her heart and she cannot love 2 persons at the same time n therefore decided to avoid me.... I feel so fucked up... It had taken me so much time and courage to decide to love again yet this had to happen... I'm really feeling very down, pls tell me what can i do?
dun give up is what i will sae to u, dun give her up, try convince her u r the man for her, i regret already coz i give up b4...Originally posted by marlboro:actually, this happened about a month ago... I tried very hard to forget her but I still think of her alot... I called her a few times after the incident but I can feel that she's trying to avoid me... Haven't seen her since... Miss her alot, yet dare not call her or look for her again as I'm afraid that it'll make things difficult for her.. Just wishing that I can forget her quickly...
d oni thing u can do now iz to let her know ur true feelings, make things clear but know wheres the line n not cross it, ie, wait 4 her decision. hopefully she wont avoid u again. sumtimes thing cum when u least xpect it, n luv may juz hit u in d face when u least xpect it.Originally posted by marlboro:actually, this happened about a month ago... I tried very hard to forget her but I still think of her alot... I called her a few times after the incident but I can feel that she's trying to avoid me... Haven't seen her since... Miss her alot, yet dare not call her or look for her again as I'm afraid that it'll make things difficult for her.. Just wishing that I can forget her quickly...
Good for you then....?Originally posted by marlboro:actually, this happened about a month ago... I tried very hard to forget her but I still think of her alot... I called her a few times after the incident but I can feel that she's trying to avoid me... Haven't seen her since... Miss her alot, yet dare not call her or look for her again as I'm afraid that it'll make things difficult for her.. Just wishing that I can forget her quickly...
Originally posted by shandower:Shit happens. Be glad that the girl didn't play you for a fool and string you along with false hopes. Pick yourself up and get on with your life.
hey thanx for saying i'm nice!! i like u already...Originally posted by Iron Maiden:Man...life sucks....
bad things always seem to happen to nice people.
And good things always happened to the bad people
Man......!!!
.....Originally posted by jOhO:hey thanx for saying i'm nice!! i like u already...![]()
i think u are quite a fool to still go after her despite the way she treats u. Come on man! there are much more lovely ladies out there who would love to meet u.Originally posted by marlboro:Met up wif her again yesterday.. Suprised that she'll replied to my sms... went for movie, then chatted till very late before sending her back... Was the happiest man in Singapore last nitebut she ignored me again today... what the fuck is she thinking??! I got a feeling that I'm only someone to feel up a gap whenever she's bored or sad..other days she won't even think of me at all.... Arghhhh.....

..... It's YOUR CHOICE, it's YOUR LIFE...?Originally posted by marlboro:Met up wif her again yesterday.. Suprised that she'll replied to my sms... went for movie, then chatted till very late before sending her back... Was the happiest man in Singapore last nitebut she ignored me again today... what the fuck is she thinking??! I got a feeling that I'm only someone to feel up a gap whenever she's bored or sad..other days she won't even think of me at all.... Arghhhh.....