My prOblem is back!!!
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My Past Story ..
(hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him? ) by mE!!!!
Although finally we are broke off liao..
but now we are back but things had changed..
Good Things
1) he has reply me most of the time..
2) we are closer and even k communicate well
3) he is not cold towards to me anymore..
4) he had date me out with his frenz
5) he will tell me how he feel
Bad Things
1) When i am free, we always meet at his house.. Pei him and NOT DOING OTHER THINGS ELSE
2) he never show that he really love me..
3) He k don msg for days.. but maybe because he is busy in camp or because his hp kana confiscate...
Haizzzzzzz.... Wat should i do?
Give him some times? -
Maybe he got damn bloody shagged by ns?
Its heckloads easier to stone infront of a computer compared to talking and going out with osmeone when tired methinks.
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Oh Girly. I am sorry. I can't help. I needs something experiencing to be professional.
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may i noe what is his vocation? Never heard of 2pm bk in, 5pm bk out.
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im puzzled..
how can u like someone when u have never even met or at least chatted with him on the phone before? -
I agree lor..Originally posted by browniebaobao:im puzzled..
how can u like someone when u have never even met or at least chatted with him on the phone before? -
aiyo.. met be4 one...
now his timing more worse.. work two days off one day... -
but u like him before u met or talked to him on phone right?Originally posted by Amber20:aiyo.. met be4 one...
now his timing more worse.. work two days off one day... -
friend is better than special friend ma...
if is special 1, den i tink he feel paiseh, dunno wat to tok abt on the fone...
now dat hes single, spent time wif him more.
who knows, maybe u both can get together again...
patience is a part of victory -
fire n rescue specialist is it? work 2 days off 1 day?
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Good 5 vs 3 Bad
so good wins -
thats good.Originally posted by X-men:Good 5 vs 3 Bad
so good wins -
maybe u r just lonely and u tot its love.
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infatuation maybe?Originally posted by nerfz:maybe u r just lonely and u tot its love.
i have a fren doing sentry, 2 days 1 off haha -
Maybe he's tired.. maybe he's crazy over dota.. but maybe he's not as interested in u as u are head over heels over him.
Think abt it.. thrash out with him.. analyse.. den make a decision. -
run and scream
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still too early la... give him a few more month then if things r bad then tell him lo...Originally posted by Amber20:My Past Story ..
(hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him? ) by mE!!!!
Although finally we are broke off liao..
but now we are back but things had changed..
Good Things
1) he has reply me most of the time..
2) we are closer and even k communicate well
3) he is not cold towards to me anymore..
4) he had date me out with his frenz
5) he will tell me how he feel
Bad Things
1) When i am free, we always meet at his house.. Pei him and NOT DOING OTHER THINGS ELSE
2) he never show that he really love me..
3) He k don msg for days.. but maybe because he is busy in camp or because his hp kana confiscate...
Haizzzzzzz.... Wat should i do?
Give him some times? -
i've heard of such convocation. They do exist.Originally posted by Amber20:aiyo.. met be4 one...
now his timing more worse.. work two days off one day... -
In NS, most guys are like that. Give him sometime and try to be understanding lor. After sometime, when you get used to it, things will be better.Originally posted by Amber20:Although finally we are broke off liao..
but now we are back but things had changed..
Good Things
1) he has reply me most of the time..
2) we are closer and even k communicate well
3) he is not cold towards to me anymore..
4) he had date me out with his frenz
5) he will tell me how he feel
Bad Things
1) When i am free, we always meet at his house.. Pei him and NOT DOING OTHER THINGS ELSE
2) he never show that he really love me..
3) He k don msg for days.. but maybe because he is busy in camp or because his hp kana confiscate...
Haizzzzzzz.... Wat should i do?
Give him some times? -
maybe doing RP?
24 hrs duty then the next day book out.
damn sianz like that. no energy to do anything at all
coz after booking out next day got to go back do 24 hrs again.
so try to understand him ok? -
he seldom have time to enjoy his hobbies.. let him be.. maybe he enjoy yr company this way.. maybe u can enjoy his company too..
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should i be evil?
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Good things: number 5. Since he'll tell you how he feel, why not try asking him the 'Bad Things' 1~3?Originally posted by Amber20:My Past Story ..
(hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him? ) by mE!!!!
Although finally we are broke off liao..
but now we are back but things had changed..
Good Things
1) he has reply me most of the time..
2) we are closer and even k communicate well
3) he is not cold towards to me anymore..
4) he had date me out with his frenz
5) he will tell me how he feel
Bad Things
1) When i am free, we always meet at his house.. Pei him and NOT DOING OTHER THINGS ELSE
2) he never show that he really love me..
3) He k don msg for days.. but maybe because he is busy in camp or because his hp kana confiscate...
Haizzzzzzz.... Wat should i do?
Give him some times?
Well I think most guys here play dota.. I personally dont play de. MAybe becox of his NS, he is very tired and need more rest.
I suggest you get back to him bah.. Try to tell him how you feel. Couple must share trouble and good things de... Have a heart to heart talk with him.
Most ppl have this case where bf go NS and gf gets neglected and broke off..
gf must understand this ok? Hugging, holding hands and kissing maybe is the best way to closer your bond. Let him know that you REALLY love her, always there for him..
Good luck to you.
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oh man u r speaking of me when i was in ns too , same experience how i treat my ex gf and i realli regret . nv find time to acc her got time onli at home gaming or go out with frenz , when she at my huse pei me i onli gaming or watch tv or xxx afte that den slp . i think he still not mature enuff to handle relationship and not really love you . thats how i feel when i was in ns too so many years and i still miss her so much
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arent you exhausted working 8.30am-12am?