Love VS Crush
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this is a boring topic that keeps reappearing in forums every now and then...
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Crush is when you hardly know him/her and yet you are willing to die for him/her and you think you cannot live without him/her. After you get to know him/her better, you hate him/her! Those "you cannot live without him/her feelings mysteriously disappeared.
Love is when you know that person reasonably well and know many things about that person and you want to live with that person until you die.
hahaha you need not even need to have the "I can't live without him/her" feelings.
Love is reasonable "crush" and "crush" that makes sense and based on true knowledge and understanding of the other party whereas "crush" is mostly fantasy.
The person you have a "crush" on, cannot be with you, is not what you think they are and they don't even know you exists (possibly).
It takes time to know somebody and you cannot say you "love" somebody without knowing them. You can have a "crush" on someone just by looking at their picture and by chatting with them in the net. -
Love is not merely a feeling, but a relationship.
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just to expand on what you said a little...Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:Love is not merely a feeling, but a relationship.
the feelings of love comes from a relationship
the feelings of crush comes from imagination
the feelings might even be more intense
so what's wrong, you might ask...
the feelings are good
good, no doubt
but do you want to have an imaginary relationship
leading to an imaginary marriage and
developing an imaginary family?
similar with other relationships, by the way (STABAT Mater dolorosa iuxta Crucem lacrimosa, dum pendebat Filius.) -
Hmm?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:similar with other relationships, by the way (STABAT Mater dolorosa iuxta Crucem lacrimosa, dum pendebat Filius.)
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then what's the difference between like and love?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Crush is when you hardly know him/her and yet you are willing to die for him/her and you think you cannot live without him/her. After you get to know him/her better, you hate him/her! Those "you cannot live without him/her feelings mysteriously disappeared.
Love is when you know that person reasonably well and know many things about that person and you want to live with that person until you die.
hahaha you need not even need to have the "I can't live without him/her" feelings.
Love is reasonable "crush" and "crush" that makes sense and based on true knowledge and understanding of the other party whereas "crush" is mostly fantasy.
The person you have a "crush" on, cannot be with you, is not what you think they are and they don't even know you exists (possibly).
It takes time to know somebody and you cannot say you "love" somebody without knowing them. You can have a "crush" on someone just by looking at their picture and by chatting with them in the net.
like = crush? hmms? -
Usually you chose the people you like to love.Originally posted by euunice:then what's the difference between like and love?
like = crush? hmms?
There are ten... you like two.
You ignore the eight and get to know the two better.
You decide to love one. The one you decided on do not want to have a love relationship with you.
You ask the other one that you love and the both of you decide to develop a love relationship.
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There are ten, you have a crush on one.
You decide to have a love relationship with the one.
The one you have a crush on is not interested to have a love relationship with you but you continue to behave like you have a love relationship or you had broken off from a love relationship.
There was no love relationship in the first place.
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You have a crush on someone.
You decided to have a love relationship with that someone.
That someone decided to get to know you better.
That someone decided after getting to know you, not to have a relationship with you but you continue to behave like you have a love relationship or you had broken off from a love relationship.
There was no love relationship in the first place.
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You have a crush on someone.
That someone has a crush on you.
The two of you decided to have a love relationship.
When the two of you get to know each other better, one or both of you decide that you don't even like each other and break off from the love relationship.
There was no love relationship in the first place because you two did not even know each other enough to start a love relationship!
In the meantime, you might have become physically close and that causes a lot of problems...