is it ok?
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is it ok if i meet my good guy friend for late night out? my bf doesnt like so never tell him. of course just meet for chit chat lah.
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You never tell him??
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I think your bf is insecure.
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No it's not okay.
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If he develops insecurities, then there are questions to be asked about a mature relationship, IMHO.Originally posted by MooKu:No it's not okay.
What if your bf develops insecurities.
I wonder how old the TS is. Hmm.. -
is it so serious? i never really think too much about it.
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You ask if its ok.Originally posted by jacqn:is it ok if i meet my good guy friend for late night out? my bf doesnt like so never tell him. of course just meet for chit chat lah.
You should ask your bf that.
If he hear from 3rd party of your late night out, then you will know from him if its ok or not.
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Originally posted by MooKu:No it's not okay.
What if your bf develops insecurities.
i really wonder how old are you? -
Originally posted by LazerLordz:If he develops insecurities, then there are questions to be asked about a mature relationship, IMHO.
I wonder how old the TS is. Hmm..
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If the relationship is strong, a guy will not feel pressured if his gf goes out with friends/friend. Unless she has given him reason to doubt or worry.Originally posted by mancha:You ask if its ok.
You should ask your bf that.
If he hear from 3rd party of your late night out, then you will know from him if its ok or not.
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don't get ya..Originally posted by MooKu:
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Originally posted by LazerLordz:If the relationship is strong, a guy will not feel pressured if his gf goes out with friends/friend. Unless she has given him reason to doubt or worry.
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makes sense don't it..Originally posted by allentyb: okay, well I'm talking about two adults who should know what it takes to clap aye.. -
Originally posted by LazerLordz:makes sense don't it.. okay, well I'm talking about two adults who should know what it takes to clap aye..
i also can't make any sense from your sentence, if that guy is a MCP, and possessive, he might as well, keep his girlfriend, she never provide any form of details about her boyfriend -
true, that's one variable.Originally posted by allentyb:
i also can't make any sense from your sentence, if that guy is a MCP, and possessive, he might as well, keep his girlfriend, she never provide any form of details about her boyfriend
oh well. I've said my opinion.
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mid 20s. sometimes i feel insecure with my bf going out and never return to home till the next morning. when i call him ask him where he is, he say he out with friends. i dont know to believe him or not. i cant find anybody to confide, so i tend to approach my other guy friend.
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Originally posted by jacqn:mid 20s. sometimes i feel insecure with my bf going out and never return to home till the next morning. when i call him ask him where he is, he say he out with friends. i dont know to believe him or not. i cant find anybody to confide, so i tend to approach my other guy friend.
never describle whats the personality of your boyfriend, typical problem that happen in relationship
so i will stick to........
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Actually she did not provide details of her relationship with her bf.
But she did acknowledge that her bf would not like it.
So it boils down to how she view him (the bf).
She can tell him to stuff it if the relationship is not strong.
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haha. bring ur bf along la....
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we need more details...how is the guy related to you?
btw, if your bf dont like and you still go out behind his back, somemore is late at night, what will he think? Try putting yourself in his shoes and THINK...
i understand the need to go out with friends, have your own freedom and space, social circles, etc.... but going out often with just a guy friend is not a good thing u understand? Trust is needed/essential in a r/s, but there is always a tolerance level...
i hope you understand from a guy's pt of view..and dont say that we are MCP.
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the guy is a normal friend. give me advice, sometimes lecture. but he is alright. my bf is very busy and has little time for me to talk to him and also be together, thus i always seek my friend's advice.
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Of course its alrite to go out chit chat....
But neva tell ur bf...u r indeed lokking for trouble...
Cos if he finds out, u guys are looking at a potential quarrel lo -
Bring him along?
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it is ok and don't tell him... if he finds out then deal with that... basically, live your own life. a relationship does not mean you lose yourself. after you lose yourself you are useless to the relationship.Originally posted by jacqn:is it ok if i meet my good guy friend for late night out? my bf doesnt like so never tell him. of course just meet for chit chat lah. -
thanks for the advice. as long as we are purely friends. i find nothing wrong with that. but anyway, we didnt meet in the end.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:it is ok and don't tell him... if he finds out then deal with that... basically, live your own life. a relationship does not mean you lose yourself. after you lose yourself you are useless to the relationship.