How to chase a girl? - From someone who gives up easily.
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I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance? -
maybe shes realli busy?
give her some time lo... try sundays? -
ya lor. so late liao.. try on weekend bah. Jia you.
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Huh? What now what sunday? I am talking about how to chase a girl not how to chase a girl in one day.
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buy 6 perserverance gao tim
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you have not met the 'one' yet,
i also have friend that has not been in love ever since secondary school -
errrr, isn't it obvious??
don't give up easily loh
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then stay single lo... theres no fast way to it... u like her then work for it..Originally posted by woohooooo:I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance? -
wait for gal to woo u lor... provided u are good looking.. else stay single..
good gals dont come easy.. -
I somewhat agree... If u really met someone that attracts u so much or the 'one'. U will simply pour in everything just to woo her. Simply say ' Show Hand' of yr courtship.Originally posted by allentyb:you have not met the 'one' yet,
i also have friend that has not been in love ever since secondary school
It will take years before u give up.... -
You might want to re-evaluate whether she's worth your time...
If she hasn't the slightest interest in you (if she had, she'd probably have made time for you somewhat or reschedule your "chat" time), you could be in for a long ride and I'm not sure if your perseverance alone will be sufficient.
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Tell others gal.. 2 year ago have the similar problem with you now everything is fine...
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actually I think you should find those really warm to you... like this girl, just KIV her and find someone else that will respond to you and if you find one, then let this one go or wait until this one respond to you, then you stop looking.Originally posted by woohooooo:I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance? -
i think i have specific gender social phobia , when i talk to gals , i feel uncomfortable , tensed and blush a bit .
the prettier the gal , the more nervous i get .
i guess i should go for average looking gals .
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How do you know giving up is a bad thing especially when you feel that the other party is not interested in you?Originally posted by woohooooo:I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance? -
u tio chinese new year toto lor , sure get many suitors !!!Originally posted by mystee:wait for gal to woo u lor... provided u are good looking.. else stay single..
good gals dont come easy..
no matter how ugly u look !!! -
Try SMS her to ask her if she is tired or going to sleep and if you can call her? I think this most not intruding. Else, just give her a call and if she sounds tired than cut short the conversation.
What I can say is that, "there are many things in life that catch our eyes, but few catch our heart." If she is someone that catch your heart. Go for it!!! Unless she tells you "NO". Else just like Nike said, "GO FOR IT!"
I have friends who told me before that their wives did not like them initially but they persevere. -
Originally posted by woohooooo:I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance?
I think the problem lies in your mindset. Previously, all is easily won. But now, the game of pursue is no longer simple. It seemed that getting the woman you want requires more than just plain chatting on the phone or dinner at classic places.
Ladies do grow up too you know.
And as they grow wiser, they are more resistant to 'tricks' employed by guys that might easily score well with less experienced ladies. Also, they are often so overly exposed to interesting tales of BGR stories from their girl friends that they learned some things from here and there. The more experienced ones are even worst; they anticipated your thoughts even before you date them out.
You craved for instant gratification... instant affection... instant answer... like instant noodles; allow me to encourage you to see the beauty of patience. There are things in life which you got to work for and these things are often worth the effort. And working towards this goal requires time and patience. Like brewing a pot of chicken soup, if you shorten the time to brew it, it probably doesn't taste as good as if you allowed all the time needed to make it an excellent pot of soup.
Cheers -
YawnOriginally posted by woohooooo:I used to have few gfs and I chased them effortlessly. They would accept whatever I asked them whether it was meeting up or chatting on the phone without being reluctant. Things came my way easily then. However now the situation seems to have changed. Nowadays, it's not so easy anymore. It's been 3 years since my last relationship. Perhaps I am no longer young and relationships are more complicated.
Right now there's this girl I would like to chase. She seems lukewarm to my responses though. When I tried to get her number in front of the friends, she keep asking me to get it from someone we know. Yet I heard from my friend she don't mind giving me her number and was smiling afterwards. When I called her, we chatted a while and because she's not at home I told her I wouldn't to disturb her and call her later. She said don't call cos want to bath and sleep. Both of us working so don't know if she's tired?
In the past, when I get "hints" of disinterest, I would give up and not bother witht that girl anymore. I know this is wrong but I'm a person who gives up easily. So what should I do as I have no experience in perseverance?
so how does it feel to be play by girls?
your type never learns lar
once you get her , is just a matter of time before u dump her..
quit wasting time go for others lar
since everyone here knows the outcome anyway.