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my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got???
sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it.... -
at least she got call you to thank you rgt.dun think too much la maybe she too tired after a day of work..anyway good luck to two of you.
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maybe she shld talk to her!!
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It's the THOUGHTS which counts... If you're asking for MORE then you would have to BUY it...? <- But you can't buy LOVE....Originally posted by loti:my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got??? sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it....
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What reaction had you wanted? A thank you is not enough? You want her to cry in the phone for you? You want her to give you a kiss thru the phone? What had you wanted?
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i think u should be thankful she called u and said thank you....maybe like what u said ... she was really stressed out at work and did not want to talk much ....sometimes we humans think too much... and like what people say,....humans are not all perfect..
cheer up ..!
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this case happen to me too..really ji tao no mood/ demoralise hoh..when doing someting to "hong" her then she jus stay cold...gei sianz...but if u nv do anyting will be worst...=)Originally posted by loti:my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got??? sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it....
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I'm not expecting such BIG reaction. When i decide to get her that cute flower,whether u believe or not,i not expecting anything.I just hope that the flower can really cheer her up.I'm just demoralise by the way she say "Thank you".It just seems like your effort has gone unappreciated.Then i would rather not hear the words. Originally posted by Estee:What reaction had you wanted? A thank you is not enough? You want her to cry in the phone for you? You want her to give you a kiss thru the phone? What had you wanted?
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Hey can't you haf more sympathy! this guy is realli sad that his gf dun really appreciate n u can still be so sarcastic! i tink u r a real ass mann! She should be thankful that she has such a nice bf!Originally posted by Estee:What reaction had you wanted? A thank you is not enough? You want her to cry in the phone for you? You want her to give you a kiss thru the phone? What had you wanted? -
hai...y is life like tat? gals upset w/ their bf.....bf upset w/ their gf.....life is never fair huh?Originally posted by loti:my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got??? sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it....
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.....Originally posted by loti:my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got??? sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it....
I need your gf needs more of your company, listening to her and talking to her than the flower...? You can try that out? -
It's not that Life is totally unfair.... Though Life is never really that 'fair'.... But most of the time it lies more with the problem that people don't see the things they WANNA SEE.....?Originally posted by hopy:hai...y is life like tat? gals upset w/ their bf.....bf upset w/ their gf.....life is never fair huh? -
.....Originally posted by loti:I'm not expecting such BIG reaction. When i decide to get her that cute flower,whether u believe or not,i not expecting anything.I just hope that the flower can really cheer her up.I'm just demoralise by the way she say "Thank you".It just seems like your effort has gone unappreciated.Then i would rather not hear the words.
still say not xpectin anythin.... -
Well maybe just hear her out
I believe she is pleased with your gift some gals are just reserved and dun show feelings so easily -
erm.... i am thinking the exact oppostie.Originally posted by greengoblin:Well maybe just hear her out I believe she is pleased with your gift some gals are just reserved and dun show feelings so easily
Her fren said she was surprised initially as she dunno who gave her the flowers... she muz be thinking that sumone is after her.... that probably light up her day. but when she knows that the flowers were actually from her bf.... erm... not that she isn;t please that the guys bought her flowers... juz disappointed that the "secret admirer" thingy isn't real.
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Give his gf benifit of doubt. I believe she is not the type who is so flicke
I genuinely believe she is please with ur gift. Try harder pal !!! -
Trust is a costy commodity nowadays.
Give and expect nothing in return, in that you will find happiness. -
..... Please note that this is just your presumption? There're many possibilities than this way of seeing things...? You sure don't wanna jump to conclusion?Originally posted by JeweL81:erm.... i am thinking the exact oppostie.
Her fren said she was surprised initially as she dunno who gave her the flowers... she muz be thinking that sumone is after her.... that probably light up her day. but when she knows that the flowers were actually from her bf.... erm... not that she isn;t please that the guys bought her flowers... juz disappointed that the "secret admirer" thingy isn't real. -
Pay $200 to me and expect nothing in return ok...?Originally posted by CloneMe72:Trust is a costy commodity nowadays.
Give and expect nothing in return, in that you will find happiness. -
Hmmm... well maybe she's having a bad day lor. and when things are going like tat, most likely she also sian 1/2 lor. even when pple try to cheer u up, the respond will be juz a 'thanks for the effort' but it didn't really help.
on the other hand, some gers are like tat, always appear cold lor. i used to be wif a ger who will neber express her feelings lor. but deep inside she does know how she feels.
dun tink too much over the actions. i guess u were expecting her to respond in a particular way, and when she didn't you felt something is wrong.
go talk to her and try to 'hong' her. cos the best gift is being there with each other physically. it's the human touch, the human interaction. -
Was talking about intangible things such as love, happiness, care, concern...
You want money, go rob bank.Originally posted by Devil1976:Pay $200 to me and expect nothing in return ok...? -
I go rob bank you think I'll get nothing in return...?Originally posted by CloneMe72:Was talking about intangible things such as love, happiness, care, concern...
You want money, go rob bank. -
girl always makes boy got a headache...
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erm erm ...thats not always the case..everything juz look on the bright side sky n you will feel better ...reallly..Originally posted by skycrawler:girl always makes boy got a headache... -
sorry sista..not today..some other day some other skies...Originally posted by poolgal:erm erm ...thats not always the case..everything juz look on the bright side sky n you will feel better ...reallly..