i'm such a failure..

• lonestar86

  16 Mar 07, 22:38

  i'm feeling so down now..
  
  right after my BMT, my gf left me for another guy..
  
  to make matters worst, i didn't managed to get into command sch (SISPEC or OCS).. reasons being i've no leaderships, i'm extremely hot tempered etc..
  
  to make matter even worst, i'm posted to the most xiong unit in the RSAF, ADA, to be a man, the lowest life form in unit..
  
  why am i such a failure??
  i think God can explain..
• mistyblue

  16 Mar 07, 22:45

  take it easy on yourself man.
  for one she's just your gf.
  next, its just NS.
  three, at least you found out certain things about yourself that you are now aware of and can take action when you find yourself losing your temper
• kiseki

  16 Mar 07, 22:48

  NS is where boys come out and become men . that means growing up ! you will learn to handle it , be it relationships or career . (:
• CHoCo^LaTcH

  16 Mar 07, 22:52

  Originally posted by lonestar86:
  [b]reasons being i've no leaderships, i'm extremely hot tempered etc..
  [b]

  they tell u want or u say bout urself ?
• lonestar86

  16 Mar 07, 23:03

  Originally posted by CHoCo^LaTcH:

  they tell u want or u say bout urself ?

  a reflection of myself..
• allentyb

  16 Mar 07, 23:04

  Your situation is just too darn common
  
  and i have heard this x12343547935 times already
  
  move on
  
  there are many flowers out there
  
  woman are just not darn worth the time, nowadays
  
  
• Scania N113CRB luver

  16 Mar 07, 23:25

  U think girls prefer boys or man? Ofcuz its man ! Just go thru NS first then come out be a hunk. Im quite sure you can get a really nice and caring girlfriend. Besides, there are alot of nicer girls out there!
  
  Cheers!
• Parka

  16 Mar 07, 23:26

  You're only a failure when you think you are one.
• SingaporeMacross

  16 Mar 07, 23:31

  Look on the bright side. Men only get crap from one end. Specialists get it from both ends.
  
  Count your blessings.
• lonestar86

  17 Mar 07, 00:32

  i've finally understand why ppl drink when they are down..
  cus drinking can temp solve their prob..
• Xiao Jun

  17 Mar 07, 00:34

  Drinking only makes you lose sight of e problems...they will still be there even when you are drunk
• Scania N113CRB luver

  17 Mar 07, 01:17

  Originally posted by lonestar86:

  i've finally understand why ppl drink when they are down..
  cus drinking can temp solve their prob..

  Dun ever drink simply because you think it can solve your probs. I think its a stupid idea. You are just only escaping from reality. Drink only when you wish to celebrate. If you feel down and out and drinking makes you feel better, then maybe you can drink. Otherwise dont.
• thousandisland

  17 Mar 07, 01:20

  Originally posted by lonestar86:
  i'm feeling so down now..
  
  to make matter even worst, i'm posted to the [b]most xiong unit in the RSAF, ADA, to be a man, the lowest life form in unit..
  
  why am i such a failure??
  i think God can explain..[/b]

  lols ada xiong meh -.- wait till you come ihawk. see how sin nang. rsaf is slack alr lah as a service.
• Xtrider

  17 Mar 07, 01:25

  Originally posted by thousandisland:

  lols ada xiong meh -.- wait till you come ihawk. see how sin nang. rsaf is slack alr lah as a service.

  ada is de farking shiong la...chiong sua unit in rsaf...
• lonestar86

  17 Mar 07, 01:32

  Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:

  Dun ever drink simply because you think it can solve your probs. I think its a stupid idea. You are just only escaping from reality. Drink only when you wish to celebrate. If you feel down and out and drinking makes you feel better, then maybe you can drink. Otherwise dont.

  yes, i admit i'm trying to escape from reality..
• hobochua

  17 Mar 07, 02:03

  Relax....IS just a girl..Though i say this but i know i will be very sad if i were in ur shoes..Nvm since she left ,not you dump her then is ok...Cos you get a chance to know tons of new girls...
• gigabyte14

  17 Mar 07, 02:05

  learn from your weakness.
• soulwinner

  17 Mar 07, 02:50

  Bro just preserve...
• R3SsH|n

  17 Mar 07, 03:01

  serve and fuck off..
• Gackt247

  17 Mar 07, 03:07

  1. Only shows the quality of tt ex-gf of urs.. no offence..
  
  2. I was once like u.. disappointed for not going Comm Sch.. but trust me.. once u have served n fugged off.. Comm Sch is juz utter crap. Juz "SAF".. unless u wan to sign on.
  
  3. ADA is xiong.. i have frens who are regular there.. got problems to adjust i can try to help u..
  
  Chill it..
• AndrewPKYap

  17 Mar 07, 03:27

  Originally posted by lonestar86:

  i'm feeling so down now..
  
  right after my BMT, my gf left me for another guy..
  
  to make matters worst, i didn't managed to get into command sch (SISPEC or OCS).. reasons being i've no leaderships, i'm extremely hot tempered etc..
  
  to make matter even worst, i'm posted to the most xiong unit in the RSAF, ADA, to be a man, the lowest life form in unit..
  
  why am i such a failure??
  i think God can explain..

  artillery? very siong...
  
  If you ask God... it is to break you down to nothing so you can become a better person than what you are now...
• Diehard_89

  17 Mar 07, 03:32

  must jia you!
  
  
  
  go uni got more choices!
• Kuali Baba

  17 Mar 07, 03:50

  Be glad that the worthless bint got rid of herself before you committed any further.
  
  And after a while, life there will be easier. I know because my cousin's in the same place as you.
• jameszen

  17 Mar 07, 23:36

  i last time oso man oso v siong
  endure can liao
  
  as for ur gf leaving u for another guy maybe they r more suitable?
  i am in a reverse situation as u...
  i like a girl who got a bf in army but she dun like me
  i oso think i am a failure...
• mhcampboy

  17 Mar 07, 23:37

  wads wrong being the lowest life form in the unit?
  
  i was a one of the lowest lifeforms in my division.. and im having a time of my life there...