I need some advise on relationship
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I knew this girl through irc... quite pretty and sweet. She just break off with her b/f and I'm still having a g/f. We have sex after met up for few days. I'm so afraid I will fall for her, so I decided to leave. She's the type with alot of guys gping after her and she has been dating alot of guys. I know maybe she's just flirting around with me but I can't help thinking of her when I'm with my g/f. But why when I want to leave her she still want to hold me on ???? Can anyone please advise me what to do ???
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Well, u lack self-control, that is for sure. U have a gf, but u still go all out to buaya and ended up in bed with one of them.
So what if she's flirting with u?? Come on. Make a choice here: A or B. Don't ruin both people's lives, and u are not in either category. -
I have already make a choice, that is to be with my g/f. But when I want to leave that girl, I can feel the sadness from her which i can't bear to leave. I just don't understand her lor, can be good to me one moment and next moment just ignore me... HAI.....Originally posted by Larry:Well, u lack self-control, that is for sure. U have a gf, but u still go all out to buaya and ended up in bed with one of them.
So what if she's flirting with u?? Come on. Make a choice here: A or B. Don't ruin both people's lives, and u are not in either category. -
Bullshit. If you have already made your choice then why are you still so hesistant? Make it clear once and for all.. if you're going to keep hanging on like that.. you're just sugar-coating your inability to enforce your decision.Originally posted by denny:I have already make a choice, that is to be with my g/f. But when I want to leave that girl, I can feel the sadness from her which i can't bear to leave. I just don't understand her lor, can be good to me one moment and next moment just ignore me... HAI.....
That whole "feel the sadness" routine.... it shouldn't work on someone who has strength of character.. but then, you've already given into temptation.. so that doesn't apply to you...
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Tell your gf then u slept with someone else and see whether she forgive u first.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
wah leow .. if i was a girl, and even worse, if i was your gf, i would dump you straightaway and not look back .. if you can`t even be faithful to your girlfriend ..
what more can she trust you with ?
better think through what you really want, though, before you lose what is really valuable to you. -
First of all I will like to thanks all of you guys for the advise.... I already make up my mind, that is to forget about that girl. Thanks....
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Good for u denny. But I do wonder if your gf knows about the whole thing. Will this thing weigh on your mind in future??
Do give such matters deep consideration before doing anything foolish.
PS: The reason most people sound very harsh here is becos such an incident really disgusts them, and trust me, I'm inclusive.
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wahz.. fastest problem ever solve all dun within a day...
Anyway be sure u stick to it. and be honest and truthful to ur gf.. dun ever betray her againz.. coz good girls are hard to come by..
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Did I sound harsh?? Oh dear.. I was tryingOriginally posted by Larry:PS: The reason most people sound very harsh here is becos such an incident really disgusts them, and trust me, I'm inclusive.
for "abrasive". Well, better luck next time I guess.
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Don't like what I'm saying? Bite me....
but not too hard please. -
But one thing I don't really understand girls.. why when you want to leave them, they will try to hold you on... once they decided to leave you, there's no turning back...
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who understand girls? perhaps even they dun understand themselves.Originally posted by denny:But one thing I don't really understand girls.. why when you want to leave them, they will try to hold you on... once they decided to leave you, there's no turning back...
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heh heh HEH .. girls are all part of a sinister plot to drive all the men in the world MAD, crazy , nuts !!!! har har har ...Originally posted by denny:But one thing I don't really understand girls.. why when you want to leave them, they will try to hold you on... once they decided to leave you, there's no turning back... -
Then what about guys?Originally posted by Dreamlord:heh heh HEH .. girls are all part of a sinister plot to drive all the men in the world MAD, crazy , nuts !!!! har har har ...
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Girls nice nice... *flying in cloud nine* he ehee
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Well, that's women!! :p
Anyway, let's not get too upset over women. Just stay hippy!! -
Still prefer girls.. coz me only 20 lehz.. even miself also not that grown up yet... so still call girls.. he ehee..
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Who wants to be sad... but sometimes just can't be help...Originally posted by Larry:Well, that's women!! :p
Anyway, let's not get too upset over women. Just stay hippy!! -
*ahem ahem*Originally posted by Dreamlord:heh heh HEH .. girls are all part of a sinister plot to drive all the men in the world MAD, crazy , nuts !!!! har har har ...
liew.. u all talk as if no girl will ever read this nor react one wor... #angwee liaoz# hmph!!!! -
dearest dennyOriginally posted by Larry and Dimsum :PS: The reason most people sound very harsh here is becos such an incident really disgusts them, and trust me, I'm inclusive.
Did I sound harsh?? Oh dear.. I was trying
for "abrasive". Well, better luck next time I guess.
well... i was tinking more of "corrosive" or even "explosive" when i read this denny guy's second line of the topic tat he had sex with her.. ohmigosh.. okok, everyone has diff values and stuffs... but... *cooling down*.. i knoe i'm a bit over-reacting here but i reallie feel so sad for your gf.. both then and now... then is bcoz the bf she loved so much has betrayed her trust in him... now is bcoz she continues to be with this ungrateful guy who is keeping a grave thingy from her and lying to her...
i dun tink u will tell her wat happen ( pardon me if i'm wrong )... dun tell me u dun wanna tell her coz u tink she'll b better off not knowing and u dun wanna hurt her and all thsoe stuff... honestly speaking, i dun see how cum anione can have the cheek to put up such a topic... u are not in agony...
u r in shame.
but as AA is, we welcome and practice the freedom of speech so i'm not stopping u from doing nor saying anything.. but for your info, i'm responding your topic only with the hope that what i say will strike u and u'll get to feel how sinful a guy u r... i wonder what path u will take ( dun reallie wish to knoe aniwae )... but wateva it is, i do hope u'll get to move on from the right path from now on. -
i`m sure you`re an exception .. maybe you`re uncharacteristically nice .. heh heh .. hope you dun turn into a super-bitch then ..Originally posted by Babyacid:*ahem ahem*
liew.. u all talk as if no girl will ever read this nor react one wor... #angwee liaoz# hmph!!!! -
HEY PPLE COOL IT!!!
THOUGH THERE'S NO MODERATOR HERE, PLEASE WATCH WAT U SAY AND DUN HURT PPLE. I DUN WANT PPLE TO CREATE A MESS HERE...
THANX A LOT!!!
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Well, don't be too upset ladies. We already have bastards among us guys to spoil the soup.
Both gender has their own faults, but let's not neglect the strong points of either gender.
Babyacid:
Trust me. A lot of sensible people will feel that out dear denny here deserves something really harsh for cheating on his gf. That would include me too. So unethical.
The comments by Dreamlord and NiVleK are more meant as a joke. Don't take it so hard. There are sensible women out there too.
I have always believed that for every action, there would be an equal and opposite reaction. Consequences will follow for every action you do.
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There...you read it, you reacted it to... all you got angry!! Ohh.... I am getting mad!!!!! Help!!!Originally posted by Babyacid:*ahem ahem*
liew.. u all talk as if no girl will ever read this nor react one wor... #angwee liaoz# hmph!!!!
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