Sorry for my whining.. i know there are a thousand threads like this but it makes me feel betterOriginally posted by allentyb:![]()
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i dreamt of my ex, just a while ago
and i feel nothing
so
move on
there are many flowers out there for you to choose from,
don't burn the whole forest for the sake of a flower
dwelling on the past, will not bring here back
most importantly, you have learnt something from this relationship (i hope you did learn something)
maybe what she needs a man, not a guy that she need to babysit, no offence to you, TS
its ok that you whine, i didn't mention that its wrong to whineOriginally posted by Kens-:Sorry for my whining.. i know there are a thousand threads like this but it makes me feel better
Guess i have to face the harsh truth.. and learn to pick myself up from the garbage
We all go through this sort of things one time or another. Dream about your next better gf and then go out and look for her!Originally posted by Kens-:Its a pity my first post has to be like this.. Recently I tried to jio my ex back..we had been together for 2 yrs but we separated 'temporarily' a few months ago because she was really busy working and studying part time and couldnt commit to the relationship.. i understand that.. and it didnt really affect me badly at that time.
But yesterday she told me over the phone to forget about her coz she claims that we have different thinking and she wants somebody who is more 'mature'. I nv felt so heart-broken in my life.. the working environment must have warped her adolescent mindset..
Its so painful to see someone u love deeply dump u while she seeks better opportunites elsewhere. I look back on all the good times we've had and realising that we'll never experience those again hurts me deeply. We had such a strong relationship.. everytime we had problems we will not let it linger. I seriously cant believe that all of it has to end like this because she changed..
I know i have to move on but i do not know how long it will take for me to recover. Yesterday i just dreamt of her.. Emptiness consume me everytime wen im alone and i cant help but cry utterly when my mind wanders off to an image of her face. Knowing the fact that she wants someone better has also led me to think that i am inferior. She was my only confidant.. and now that she is gone i dunno what to do.. Im so confuse.. i do not wish to harp on this anymore.. Sobs*
btw do you want to end up as the bf in this story below?Originally posted by Kens-:Its a pity my first post has to be like this.. Recently I tried to jio my ex back..we had been together for 2 yrs but we separated 'temporarily' a few months ago because she was really busy working and studying part time and couldnt commit to the relationship.. i understand that.. and it didnt really affect me badly at that time.
But yesterday she told me over the phone to forget about her coz she claims that we have different thinking and she wants somebody who is more 'mature'. I nv felt so heart-broken in my life.. the working environment must have warped her adolescent mindset..
Its so painful to see someone u love deeply dump u while she seeks better opportunites elsewhere. I look back on all the good times we've had and realising that we'll never experience those again hurts me deeply. We had such a strong relationship.. everytime we had problems we will not let it linger. I seriously cant believe that all of it has to end like this because she changed..
I know i have to move on but i do not know how long it will take for me to recover. Yesterday i just dreamt of her.. Emptiness consume me everytime wen im alone and i cant help but cry utterly when my mind wanders off to an image of her face. Knowing the fact that she wants someone better has also led me to think that i am inferior. She was my only confidant.. and now that she is gone i dunno what to do.. Im so confuse.. i do not wish to harp on this anymore.. Sobs*
time will not let u forget the painOriginally posted by Quinsy:Time heals all wounds. Just stay strong and move on!![]()
The way I see it... It would be a garbage which stinks even more if you let it drag on till she just can't stand it anymore and do a 'confession' on you at a much later stage... Or worse still.. After she've got herself a bf?Originally posted by Kens-:Sorry for my whining.. i know there are a thousand threads like this but it makes me feel better
Guess i have to face the harsh truth.. and learn to pick myself up from the garbage
Originally posted by Kens-:Its a pity my first post has to be like this.. Recently I tried to jio my ex back..we had been together for 2 yrs but we separated 'temporarily' a few months ago because she was really busy working and studying part time and couldnt commit to the relationship.. i understand that.. and it didnt really affect me badly at that time.
But yesterday she told me over the phone to forget about her coz she claims that we have different thinking and she wants somebody who is more 'mature'. I nv felt so heart-broken in my life.. the working environment must have warped her adolescent mindset..
Its so painful to see someone u love deeply dump u while she seeks better opportunites elsewhere. I look back on all the good times we've had and realising that we'll never experience those again hurts me deeply. We had such a strong relationship.. everytime we had problems we will not let it linger. I seriously cant believe that all of it has to end like this because she changed..
I know i have to move on but i do not know how long it will take for me to recover. Yesterday i just dreamt of her.. Emptiness consume me everytime wen im alone and i cant help but cry utterly when my mind wanders off to an image of her face. Knowing the fact that she wants someone better has also led me to think that i am inferior. She was my only confidant.. and now that she is gone i dunno what to do.. Im so confuse.. i do not wish to harp on this anymore.. Sobs*
just wondering.Originally posted by Kens-:All of your replies have been really helpful.. thanks
I was hoping maybe we could get back together in the future.. but i tink i shouldnt lie to myself n push my hopes to high.. whatever comes i will embrace..n i will try to learn something from the experience and at the same time upgrade myself if i have to.
noo please dont get the wrong idea.. it is impossible to woo her back now.. I just have to let everything cool down..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:just wondering.
frankly were you hoping for us to give u replies like,"oh you should go ahead and get her back","try to woo her again" and all those kinds of replies?
oh you are just sharing la.okie, go ahead then.Originally posted by Kens-:noo please dont get the wrong idea.. it is impossible to woo her back now.. I just have to let everything cool down..
If thats the case i would have posted smwer else.. but im posting here because i have nobody to confide in.. i hope ur're not being sarcastic.. i really appreciate the replies i got.