help.... i have a crush on my childhood
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can anyone advice me what to do..
i like my childhood friend for very long....
but is like we can hardly communciate
maybe know each other too well...
anyone can advice me how to express my feeling to her...
and how to know if a girl has feeling for a guy....
help....
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JOHO...patient..patientOriginally posted by blurguy:can anyone advice me what to do..
i like my childhood friend for very long....
but is like we can hardly communciate
maybe know each other too well...
anyone can advice me how to express my feeling to her...
and how to know if a girl has feeling for a guy....
help.... 
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There are a lot of ways of expressing your feelings to her. If you are the shy type, drop her hints along the way. For eg, be more attentive and caring to her needs, help her do things or buy things, ask her out more often, be there if she needs someone, or to the extent of "defend" her when she is harmlessly bullied by friends. Don't worry about your friends teasing you, coz basically that's your idea of letting her know.
Listening, IMHO, is a skill that most guys lack nowadays. Pay attention to what she said, what she wants. She may like something or whatever food. Do all the things that please her. It will show that you actually care for her.
When to reveal your true feelings to her is up to you, but do it at the right time. Observe her reactions and body language when you are with her. They can be useful indications whether she has accepted or irritated by your wooing. From there, then make the decision.
Lastly, if you succeed, don't stop. Continue to be a gentleman and treat her nice. A good relationship doesn't stop at the "honeymoon" period. Remember that. Wish you luck. -
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Hey blurguy..u are attap di right...
the problem is too similar to what you told me..almost word for word and you still dare say its not you.
(look at my nick carefully..u will koe who am i..
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always kou bu dui xin...kept saying you do not give a damn and there you are mooning over her..hehehehe...
ok ok...enough of teasing you..or i know you will wanna punch me when we meet.
actually i said all that could be said already lor (i really ought to charge you consultation fees)... just take it slowly..wooing gals take time and effort lor...you have barely started chasing her and there you are worrying about the end results..
so...jia you!!!
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[color=red]WEll i know how you feel...especially when u have known the person for long and suddenly you want to be more then friends is a difficult thing to tell her...but hey likewht the others say you can drop hints and stuff to see how he feel...remember it can be difficult but once you have made it clear to her, at least you have a chance to be with her....if not, then you will never be able to have this chance to be lovers with her at all.....so GOOD LUCK!!