What if the person u like is homosexual?
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better to love a homosexual (of the opposite sex) than to be loved by one (of your sex).
trust me. i know.
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I disagree...totally disagree...Originally posted by nismoS132:better to love a homosexual (of the opposite sex) than to be loved by one (of your sex).
trust me. i know.
if u love a homosexual, u can be very sure that u will not be loved back and that hurts. but loved by one of ur own sex, u can just reject his/her feelings ...you probably don't lose more in being loved than loving..
i guess being loved is always better than loving someone...in whatever case.
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Hmm... A Taker?Originally posted by luvofmine:I disagree...totally disagree...
if u love a homosexual, u can be very sure that u will not be loved back and that hurts. but loved by one of ur own sex, u can just reject his/her feelings ...you probably don't lose more in being loved than loving..
i guess being loved is always better than loving someone...in whatever case. -
Mi guy but can love you?? hahaha~
Sometimes it's hard to tell lahz huhz.. If the person is too persistent it gives you the negatives also lahz... you will find him a pest than a pet... Doubt you will be evening thinking of hugging, and cuddling him.
Just like a common joke in my younger days, what is "1+1=". Answer is not always 2... that time they say it's a 'window'. As you grow older, you be more serious and forget about the joke, and took the answer as 2. But after studying a bit more you realized again 1+1 is not necessary 2. it can be 1 in computer language. and it can be other answers if you look in to Maths...
The main idea is that it's not sometimes being loved is not always a good thing, and having to choose who you love is a blessing. Of coz being love you have a lot of headaches to avoid, but are sure you really happy with the person should the person is homo or straight? Think it should be the same and you know what I mean...
------------------Originally posted by luvofmine:I disagree...totally disagree...
if u love a homosexual, u can be very sure that u will not be loved back and that hurts. but loved by one of ur own sex, u can just reject his/her feelings ...you probably don't lose more in being loved than loving..
i guess being loved is always better than loving someone...in whatever case.
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How's studies life getting on for our teddy?Originally posted by Bear:Mi guy but can love you?? hahaha~
Sometimes it's hard to tell lahz huhz.. If the person is too persistent it gives you the negatives also lahz... you will find him a pest than a pet... Doubt you will be evening thinking of hugging, and cuddling him.
Just like a common joke in my younger days, what is "1+1=". Answer is not always 2... that time they say it's a 'window'. As you grow older, you be more serious and forget about the joke, and took the answer as 2. But after studying a bit more you realized again 1+1 is not necessary 2. it can be 1 in computer language. and it can be other answers if you look in to Maths...
The main idea is that it's not sometimes being loved is not always a good thing, and having to choose who you love is a blessing. Of coz being love you have a lot of headaches to avoid, but are sure you really happy with the person should the person is homo or straight? Think it should be the same and you know what I mean...
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i think u soulg give him up.i knw saying is easy.but DUN waste ur time..u will find nicer guys in the furture
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Yep..thanks for the adviceOriginally posted by girlgirl:i think u soulg give him up.i knw saying is easy.but DUN waste ur time..u will find nicer guys in the furture
I'm trying...it's gonna take some time, but i'm sure it will pass..
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Well, this sem is pretty good in fact, better than the last. I took more classes, and is less concentrated on my work, but I'm getting more 'A's than the last... hahhaha~ Well at least I think I'm getting.. can almost confirm getting 3 out of 6 liaoz... 4th one is between a high B and A. The other 2 will be not really making their mark... but been pushing them a lot lately.. well the results posted next week will tell lahz...Originally posted by Devil1976:How's studies life getting on for our teddy?
anyway, had done a lot more things this semester than the last one. been drinking more often than before.. like once a week or something. American lifestyle... having to go to more parties... and also counselling and helping more people too... Just doesn't equate to the results that are produced... They are better than the last, but I spend less time on it.
Anyway will be back in Sg in June... initially didn't want to, coz was thinking of taking summer classes, but they don't offer much that I can take, so go home lorz.. if not I'll be spending my time travelling ard this place.. hehehe~
How's life back there???
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Originally posted by Bear:
anyway, had done a lot more things this semester than the last one. been drinking more often than before.. like once a week or something. American lifestyle... having to go to more parties... and also counselling and helping more people too... Just doesn't equate to the results that are produced... They are better than the last, but I spend less time on it.
Guess you can say that socialising is also IMPORTANT for your COURSE of STUDY? One thing the Working Organisations in Singapore would be difficult to realise, pick up and LEARN from the Americans..? Some STRESS is nice? ALL STRESS just makes JACK a DUMB BOY?
Anyway will be back in Sg in June... initially didn't want to, coz was thinking of taking summer classes, but they don't offer much that I can take, so go home lorz.. if not I'll be spending my time travelling ard this place.. hehehe~
How's life back there???
Life? Me or AA? Singapore? My life is generally pretty FAST-PACED, STRESSED and 'exciting'? But I think it's still kinda 'lacking' in some way? Not sure... Can't really choose a path now, have to wait for things to slowly settle down and TAKE FORMS before I can have a CLEAR VIEW and decide?
AA I think is generally filled with LOVE STORIES and some nonsense..? Hehheh... Aiya, actually don't tell you you should also see for yourself right..? Now quite a couple of new forumites lately...?
Singapore... Hmm... LOTS of REFORMS going on...? ECONOMICAL RESTRUCTURING, companies, organisations.... Government airing LOTS of VIEWS..... I should say the DIRECTION is pretty MESSY and UNCLEAR for now...? SENSE that it's just like an old man struggling in water when he don't even know how to swim...? Hope I'm WRONG? -
hey Bear, sorry i didn't reply....forgot to check back on this topic
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Hmmm.. what do you study?? and where did you come across this information??Originally posted by chamenos:hey Bear, sorry i didn't reply....forgot to check back on this topic
anyway yea.....i think people should adopt a more open mind with this kinda things.
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Hmmm.. what do you study?? and where did you come across this information??
Well, at the moment I'm not studying any specific course yet, because I'm still in secondary school... I'm probably a kid by your standards
I got curious about homosexuality, bisexuality, and all the different kind of alternative sexualities, when I found out about them through movies, friends, etc. Because of that I started reading up on this, and other areas of interest I have on the net, which is where I got all this information from.
I still find it sad that so many people choose to fault people for the outcome of choices they didn't intentionally make. I don't think this sorta mindset is going to change anytime soon, though.
Some reports I've read online, claimed that a possible reason for normal heterosexuals belittling and discriminating against homosexuals, is due to the biological "propagate the species" imperative. Since homosexuals won't be able to produce offspring, they are rejected by normal heterosexuals, since they become a liability. Liability, in that they take from the community (food, shelter, etc), but dont give anything back (offspring basically).
Actually, our genetically encoded "biological imperatives" can explain a lot of unique aspects of human behavior.
For example, I read another report that claimed that a possible reason why a lot of men tend to cheat on their wives, is because humans by nature polygamous, and not monogamous.
This can be seen if you observes other primates, like gorrillas, chimpanzees, etc, where it is typical to have an alpha male in charge of a brood of females. This also coincides with the "propagate the species" imperative I mentioned earlier, in that one female human with 5 males can only produce one baby in 9 months provided they all get pregnant at the same time, whereas one male human with 5 females, would be able to produce 5 babies in 9 months, also provided they all get pregnant at the same time which isn't too hard for a (sexually) healthy male.
This would also explain men's chivalry, where they tend to be protective of women, since a woman's life is viewed as more precious since she's the one that can bear children.
About the stuff I knew about how male genitalia is actually formed from female genitalia, I've always been curious about the line down the underside of my dick and balls so I read up on it, and found out how they're actually formed. It actually makes me feel that the way women and men are segregated in society is really stupid, since we're actually all very similar at a base level. Its also kinda sad, actually, when you look at how women are subjugated and discriminated against men in power like in Afghanistan, or how men are also discriminated by women in feminist societies such as USA and Singapore, and most other "western" societies.
You know I learn so much more from surfing the net online than I ever could from school...makes school seem rather boring and dry in comparison