i`m confused
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i have a little liking to this girl and shes a friend of mine . Often receive those good night / take care messages from her , and when i message her or i replied to my messages she will be very responsive .and 1 day i actually asked her whether she sends the messages to everyone on her handphone and she said the message was sent to me only . gives me a feeling shes liking me .but before that she already told me she has a boyfriend . so during valentine day i purposely test her and ask her whether got activity and boyfriend got ask her out and she told me yes. just weeks back happen to start a conversation with her via sms and she did took initiative to ask me go out with her .
some suggestions and comment pls ,be it positive or negative, because i`m totally confused by her actions . -
then go out and see what happens lor.
then come back here report. -
go out and date first. not sure whether she need's a shoulder to cry on for some problems in her rs. but if you ain't close to her, den shouldn't be the case.
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1) Did she say she love or like you ? In sms or in front of you?Originally posted by dorwin:i have a little liking to this girl and shes a friend of mine . Often receive those good night / take care messages from her , and when i message her or i replied to my messages she will be very responsive .and 1 day i actually asked her whether she sends the messages to everyone on her handphone and she said the message was sent to me only . gives me a feeling shes liking me .but before that she already told me she has a boyfriend . so during valentine day i purposely test her and ask her whether got activity and boyfriend got ask her out and she told me yes. just weeks back happen to start a conversation with her via sms and she did took initiative to ask me go out with her .
some suggestions and comment pls ,be it positive or negative, because i`m totally confused by her actions .
2) she got bf and she tries to go out with you? humm...
3) Strange, does she love her bf? Why spend so much time with you? I mean by sending so many sms to you instead of her bf. -
hmm... she doesn't sound like a good gf to me. do you think you want such a girfriend?
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..forget to highlight something . her boyfriend is in ARMY ....
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i guess she's doing this behind her boyfriend's back right? do you think she's right for you?Originally posted by dorwin:..forget to highlight something . her boyfriend is in ARMY .... -
dont know lol , because base on my judgement i think shes find me chatty and find me like a good friend to talk and communicate with , just normal relationship. and i did visit her recent blog , and the blog was about how shes so happy to be with her boyfriend .probably during that timing her boyfriend suddenly 'missing' and feels very empty inside . thats what i personanlly think la ..Originally posted by dahliamorie:i guess she's doing this behind her boyfriend's back right? do you think she's right for you? -
you ans the question yourselfOriginally posted by dorwin:dont know lol , because base on my judgement i think shes find me chatty and find me like a good friend to talk and communicate with , just normal relationship. and i did visit her recent blog , and the blog was about how shes so happy to be with her boyfriend .probably during that timing her boyfriend suddenly 'missing' and feels very empty inside . thats what i personanlly think la ..
she loves her bf ..
She just asking you out as a friend.
Thats all ..
think so much for Waht? -
next time when u all together.....and u happen to have no time for her.....she will do the same to u...
find urself another gal -
why ARMY spell big big?Originally posted by dorwin:..forget to highlight something . her boyfriend is in ARMY ....
its short form for anything?? -
he make the word big big cos he wan us to know that the girl is cheating her bf behind his back while he is in the ARMY
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she is giving us one more reason to hate the govt for making us go ARMY
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i thought tats the way people spell "SAF / SCDF / SPF " in capital?especially posting in forum , anything wrong?
if i have 100% assurance towards my own judgement regarding what shes thinking . 2 timer? not possible/unlikely?
i thought forums suppose is for discussion and oppinion , wao now theres people bombing me for no reason -
SAF SCDF SPF are acronyms....
is "ARMY" one?
and no one is flaming u.....but if she can do it to her current bf...she can do it to u..that's wat we ( or at the very least me) is/ are trying to put across.. -
Ok... Cool.. Then stick to that thinking? Why think of so much otherwise...?Originally posted by dorwin:dont know lol , because base on my judgement i think shes find me chatty and find me like a good friend to talk and communicate with , just normal relationship. and i did visit her recent blog , and the blog was about how shes so happy to be with her boyfriend .probably during that timing her boyfriend suddenly 'missing' and feels very empty inside . thats what i personanlly think la .. -
Originally posted by dorwin:..forget to highlight something . her boyfriend is in ARMY ....
No wonder. -
er... jus go out n play by ear?
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Soon we can see the boyfriend posting at our AA, whinehouse or hotelheaartbreak forum liao.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:
No wonder. -
if she is interested in u, she will give more hints, try not to second guess
otherwise u might get into trouble -
maybe u are just a reserve to her.
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yeah, i agree, are you sure you would want a girlfriend who is going out with another guy when your back is turned?
even if she had no intentions of doing so, i find it hard to believe that she hasn't realised that you have the hawts for her. -
I also agree. Since she's doing this behind the BF's back, she might do this to you if you were to be her BF in times to come..Originally posted by dahliamorie:hmm... she doesn't sound like a good gf to me. do you think you want such a girfriend? -
Originally posted by ermintham:next time when u all together.....and u happen to have no time for her.....she will do the same to u...
find urself another gal -
u asked her is it send to everyone, she said send to u onli rite? then what did u reply?
next time, push this further.
reply: me only? what makes me so special?