To a girl I love and will carry in my heart.
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allentyb,
To give you an honest reply to your question. I've paid a heavy price for my past folly, I've lost the one dearest to me. I didn't make excuses for my past cheating nor did I defend my past faults. If there is a word I must submit to you, let the word me "repentance".
I'm not a preacher or a holy person. Just some guy who learned a lesson the very hard way, and wanting to share what I've learnt with people. I do not come to gain the pity of others, I do not need sympathy nor charity. So I appeal to you to drop the "pity" part already.
It wasn't exactly easy for me when I started typing and sharing my account, every word brought me back to reliving the pain. You may call the past me a "bastard" but I take offence in that "he is none other than a bastard."
You took the pleasure of googling me, and then the liberty of posting my blog address, name and all here. May I ask if that's your mean of rreciprocating my respect and civilities towards you? I do not need a single "sugar-coated" word from you, just pray be kind and not disturb my peace.
"then i will find more faults in his story to support my arguement." I quote from you, just so what is your problem? -
yea..i don't like the idea of googling every TS and posting their personal information on forums.
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sorry, i have already edit that part about the word - bastard
i am no quarrel with you,
put it this way, i already stop posted a while ago and they posted about my comment, so? i start to type again
otherwise i would have stop typing and mind my own business
and furthermore, i have no intention of flaming anybody, if they never start to criticise me, i would not have post again!
its their right to post, but they comment on my post instead on the topic itself!
so i may have been abit harsh on my choice of words - bastard
but i did edit it away, since it is too cynical of me to use that word
i merely type what i feel about the post, simple as that -
if i truly wishes to find fault with you! and looking for trouble, i would have go on and on and on, and post everything about
and i post the link from your blog,
its the source of your life story
what wrong with that?
as if, i go and dig up all the particulars about you,
have i not stop posting at one point! -
IF i was to call you a liar, and your story is nothing but a lie!
then truly, i am looking for trouble in your thread
but merely i doubt the credibility of the story
and i explain myself enough that! its too dramatic already
abortion, parent objection, and so on and so for,
BUT have i once call you a liar!
If they can't accept criticism, and i am blunt, so be it
i should have jolly well
said that
its a wonderful story, and its sad to hear this, and i wish you all the best in the future, may the past bury itself and never haunt you again!
and i have never ever mention the word again in my later post - PITY!
please read carefully to what i type
and let me emphasise this point again!
the price you pay is darn high, and you could have been a better man, instead, if you have treated woman with more respect, instead of what Slipshade has mention!, a game, would you need to regret all this!
for goodness sake
i have not once accuse you of anything,
one last thing. my comment already stop at page 2, they are the one, who wants to stir up drama, not me, i already mind my business at one point -
god damn itOriginally posted by allentyb:well, thats what i think, nothing offence about it, i think, and maybe i should have refrain from making any comment for that i am sorry
and to Browniebaobao, i think you are stupid to make a comment like that about me and for that i am not sorry that i comment that browniebaobao is stupid
at this very point, i already stop posting
if THEY never post about my comment and stick to the topic
WOULD I HAVE POST AGAIN!!!!!!!!! -
Try to RELAX people...
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Coming in too strong... Let's all drop it...?Originally posted by allentyb:oh please
i never mention that you are a liar or what, and simply hard for me to believe in your story
and i already profile a person like you
furthermore this is my way of typing, i am not a nice person who will tell you, oh thats a sad story, be brave, be strong
its a b u l l s h i t story, its too dramatic,
and i am questioning your credibility.
simple as that
thank you for posting a wonderful story
^_^
last thing - what you reap, is what you sow -
i am still very much awakeOriginally posted by Devil1976:Coming in too strong... Let's all drop it...?
i stand firm on what i type!
and i may have been harsh and tactless at some point
but i am no self righteous unlike them!
they accuse me of being a troublemaker
i merely express my thought
shouldn't that what a forum is for!
i have not flame anyone yet
the first few of my post, has been tactless
but i already explain my point clear enough
if i was to go in hard on each and every point in TS thread
then truly, i am finding fault in TS thread
till this point, i merely said what i think of this thread based on what he has typed -
Dear alleytyb and all fellow forumlites,Originally posted by allentyb:i am still very much awake
i stand firm on what i type!
and i may have been harsh and tactless at some point
but i am no self righteous unlike them!
they accuse me of being a troublemaker
i merely express my thought
shouldn't that what a forum is for!
i have not flame anyone yet
the first few of my post, has been tactless
but i already explain my point clear enough
if i was to go in hard on each and every point in TS thread
then truly, i am finding fault in TS thread
till this point, i merely said what i think of this thread based on what he has typed
let's just cool it. Alleytyb has explained what he thinks and he took the trouble to explain, so let's leave it.
But really, alleytyb, I don't mean to criticize you, being direct is ok, but watch the risk of appearing rude. Direct, Blunt and Rude are all separated by one thin line.
While many people can appreciate a direct person, coz its good as we don't go round the bush, most people take to offense a blunt or rude person.
I am saying this for your good. I was too blunt once, and I suffered the nightmare of hatred and isolation in my secondary school class for 2 years. It was a horrible experience, one that I was in denial for many many years (until my wife made me face my memories and come to terms with it), for I suffered a lot of humiliation during that period, and it affected my personality.
Anyway, Detached. Live your life well, and live your life to the fullest. I think you owe R that much. And... don't ever, ever forget her, for she lives on as long as you remember her. You can move on, but don't forget
Slipshade, glad to know we see eye to eye on this thing
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I know.. You've admitted that you were harsh at some points too.. And I know it was likely to be unintentional..... Let's just drop it?Originally posted by allentyb:i am still very much awake
i stand firm on what i type!
and i may have been harsh and tactless at some point
but i am no self righteous unlike them!
they accuse me of being a troublemaker
i merely express my thought
shouldn't that what a forum is for!
i have not flame anyone yet
the first few of my post, has been tactless
but i already explain my point clear enough
if i was to go in hard on each and every point in TS thread
then truly, i am finding fault in TS thread
till this point, i merely said what i think of this thread based on what he has typed -
Apology for the unfair treatment given to you, if you feel there's any.. On my part.Originally posted by Detached:allentyb,
To give you an honest reply to your question. I've paid a heavy price for my past folly, I've lost the one dearest to me. I didn't make excuses for my past cheating nor did I defend my past faults. If there is a word I must submit to you, let the word me "repentance".
I'm not a preacher or a holy person. Just some guy who learned a lesson the very hard way, and wanting to share what I've learnt with people. I do not come to gain the pity of others, I do not need sympathy nor charity. So I appeal to you to drop the "pity" part already.
It wasn't exactly easy for me when I started typing and sharing my account, every word brought me back to reliving the pain. You may call the past me a "bastard" but I take offence in that "he is none other than a bastard."
You took the pleasure of googling me, and then the liberty of posting my blog address, name and all here. May I ask if that's your mean of rreciprocating my respect and civilities towards you? I do not need a single "sugar-coated" word from you, just pray be kind and not disturb my peace.
"then i will find more faults in his story to support my arguement." I quote from you, just so what is your problem? -
Soulrage,
Yes, thank you so much. Honestly, I'm pretty much at loss for words now except to express my thanks. As long as I live, she will live in my heart. I will continue to be strong and strive to excel in whatever I do, so I may dedicate a worthy life for her.
Devil,
You've been very kind, you owe me no apologies nor did me any wrong. I am grateful too for your replies and all.
Good luck to the both of you, and the many nice souls who came and shared with everyone their stories, opinions or a mere word of encouragement. I wish you all well.
Regards,
detached -
hi Detached,
after reading your true life story,there's no wrong in feeling sad,let bygones be bygones.
whether TS's story is true or not,we should all learn from mistakes and not to make anymore.so just let the arguments cool down and carry on, on our daily lifes....
Many good days ahead.
Terence -
Terence,
Thank you for your reply. Bygones can never be bygones just like that. What most important that when one walk out of a crisis, he learns something out of it. I hope you share my sentiment.
Many good days ahead indeed,
detached