If you know that her SMSes make you feel all sucky, then you might seriously want to tell her that frankly.Originally posted by Rockhound:then she bring up the topic abt how shitty my job is...how she thought i had a good high appointment IT job..yadayadayada...how i am fickle minded and like my army dreams this will be something temporary again.......
kinda sucks u noe...like..wtf i do to u sia..
anyone ever experience this kinda problem?....sometimes i feel stupid sia replying her smses...
i admit that i am fickle minded...but i have good frens in helping me make the right decisions although that sounds abit childish...Originally posted by fudgester:If you know that her SMSes make you feel all sucky, then you might seriously want to tell her that frankly.
She's being overly judgemental in telling you how you are fickle-minded. The way I see it, the only fickle-minded person I see here is her.
In all honesty, this is one kind of friend I can do without. I had such a friend who would try to put me down in such a similar way. After putting up with his nonsense for a while, I simply cut him off from my life. I blocked him on MSN and totally ignored all his SMSes.
I'm not saying that you should do the same, but you might want to reconsider what this friend of yours means to you....
1) Is she your gf?Originally posted by Rockhound:here is the story..
in poly...i had this crush in a gerl....
but somehow she kinda shallow and too happy go lucky for me...but we stayed as frens every now and then...
went ns...motivated to sign on..actually had a couple of offers to be a regular but then somehow....as much as my job was nice i couldnt really commit..
i mean..starting pay is good..but really no life la...standbys....and all..
she noes abt this...
well..then label me as fickle minded...huge ego making small things sound big..
anywaes...throughout NS i made good frens with my MO and this man of mine..
somehow they put my life into perspective...
made my resume 2 mths b4 ord..
applied for a job 1 mth b4 ord..
and got a job the day after my ord...
job sucks arh..cos i am the onli IT trained support spec..so workload alot...but i like it..cos i gain alot of experience....1.5k is kinda good for a starter i gez...saving up to start part time degree in december...
8-5 working hrs...but i stay sometimes till 7 to finish werk...never claim off and OT...but seriously i like the job arh....feel very appreciated...plus it seriously look good in my resume
then she msg me back lately
yadaydayada
then she bring up the topic abt how shitty my job is...how she thought i had a good high appointment IT job..yadayadayada...how i am fickle minded and like my army dreams this will be something temporary again.......
kinda sucks u noe...like..wtf i do to u sia..
anyone ever experience this kinda problem?....sometimes i feel stupid sia replying her smses...