How to kickstart your life(again)
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Feel that I've reached a saturation point in my life whereby I'm doing the same routine day after day, week after week, month after month...u get the idea... Tried picking up some new sports/activites but nothing seems to be able to give me the lift that I need.. Anybody have the same problem? Any ideas how to kickstart this dying flame again? Thanks.
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quit smoking
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try volunteer work.
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go for a tour.. and do ting tat u have never do b4.. but of coz dun put ur life in danger.. then maybe u wil find ur aim in life again...
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haha, i actually did do volunteer work at an old folks home for a few months... and I jus came back from a tour of Thailand
) doesn't work... as for quiting smoking... haha, haven't try yet, dont see how it would help 
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yo. have you thought of changing your job? trying posing some challenge to your career and job-hop for a while.Originally posted by marlboro:haha, i actually did do volunteer work at an old folks home for a few months... and I jus came back from a tour of Thailand) doesn't work... as for quiting smoking... haha, haven't try yet, dont see how it would help
simplest way is to list what you have not obtained and strive for it, unless you are already a millionaire.
as for smoking leh, hehe. you can try quitting and it probably helps. but i see it as changing soup but not changing the medicine. -
i dunno if this is relevant but can u describe your routine? i mean are u working or studying etc?
to a certain extent our daily lives have to have a bit of regimentation. imagine waking up every morning but not having a clue wat to do. obviously this won't be the case since we all have to go piss and brush our teeth
but the point here is that it's extremely nerve wrecking not to know wat we are gonna do the next day.
one thing u can do is to ask urself this question: you go thru motions everyday for wat? if u are still a student then i guess one obvious answer is to get ur qualification so u can get a good job and the rest of it...
if u are working then think about whether u wanna stay in the company, and where u can get in the organisation, if not then look for another job but in the meantime is there anything new u can learn? i feel that every job is an education of some sort, of course there's only so much u can learn at one place.
if you're jobless then i'm sure you know wat to do!
basically go thru each day with the end in mind. there is a reason why u get up every morning. search for the reason if you don't have one.
hope this helps...
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don't try to quit smoking....u will get even more low morale.
Can u go for some course to upgrade yourself not only academic...
maybe some musical instrument like guitar.
Go ask your friends intro gerfriend to u or all net find lor.
but rem don't spend too much on them b4 u r confident.
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Sit down, and ask yourself what you want to do in your Life.... Plan about it (them?)....Originally posted by marlboro:Feel that I've reached a saturation point in my life whereby I'm doing the same routine day after day, week after week, month after month...u get the idea... Tried picking up some new sports/activites but nothing seems to be able to give me the lift that I need.. Anybody have the same problem? Any ideas how to kickstart this dying flame again? Thanks. -
I'm in the army right now so I guess changing jobs are out
Everyday the routine is basically home->work->back to home->back to work next day.... During weekdays I don't even know what to do after work and don't really feel like going out etc, cos have to wake up very early next morning... Sat come go cheong until late late, Sun noon wake up wif hangover, Mon back to the routine.... Help me break it!!!! -
Read self-development books
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u should have know this kind of life before you join the army.
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Originally posted by marlboro:I'm in the army right now so I guess changing jobs are out Everyday the routine is basically home->work->back to home->back to work next day.... During weekdays I don't even know what to do after work and don't really feel like going out etc, cos have to wake up very early next morning... Sat come go cheong until late late, Sun noon wake up wif hangover, Mon back to the routine.... Help me break it!!!! Try to divide out your work Life from your OWN Life.... You can try to make your work life not so routine and more interesting if you want to, it's usually how you view things which determine whether it's gonna be routine or interesting for you...?
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how old are u? schooling? i am doing the same thing week after week and still enjoying... maybe take up something challenging....like... erm .. whats ur interest?
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i'm 23 liao, serving ns...the thing about me is that i have a very short attention span and lose interest in things very fast... I guess all geminis are like that...
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Life is lidat one lah.... diff people diff aim in life, like for u, u like ur life to always have passion for something.
For other's, its like they come to a stage where they had enough fun, time for real things and achievements in life, like work, marriage etc etc... but of coz not just like that lah, if not sure sian until die... they can sometimes keep a hobby, weekends as usual go out shopping/games/whatever etc etc
Actually there are alot of things we can do lor, just that the "lazy" thing inside us which keeps us not moving and then in the end of the day still did nothing... get what i mean?
And also one point, SG very small, nothing much to do, and go where oso need $$...... -
L33T digicam skillz! LOLZ!Originally posted by Wes Brown: -
er.. i also gemini.. lose interest in things very fast ar? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm not sure leh depends on wat things ..Originally posted by marlboro:i'm 23 liao, serving ns...the thing about me is that i have a very short attention span and lose interest in things very fast... I guess all geminis are like that...
anyway i don't really believe in the horroscopes.. or and other "scopes" for that matter hehe.. -
hahaha...u r toking abt it n tt's gd
take a mirror. do some reflection!!!
instead of saying:'i dunno why....' try:'i'd like to...'
dun go digging into ur past anymore.Start afresh
if u've failed remaining the way u r now,
u've got to change the present U.Reverse action!
gd luck!!!!!