what is so good about being in love?
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but basically whats the point in telling ppl that most of the time the onli think they r in love?u wun knw what is love until u experience it...n how wuld u knw if u r experiencing love if u hadnt tried?i feel that most imptly is try not to get hurt too much when u fall out of love...sex is the best physical pleasure, love is the best emotional pleasure=POriginally posted by Yunhaier:
Many only THINK that they are in love; more often than not, they are in love with love.
There isn't one particular reason why people fall in Love; Love is far too abstract to be confined within those definitions.
P.S:
When you love, you should not say,
"God is in my heart,"
But rather,
"I am in the heart of God."
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I think I am in love...
with myself...
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u will know the answer when r in love..
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do ppl reali knw what love is when they havnt exp b4 love?many couples stay tgt due to commitment n not love...doesnt mean a couple stayin tgt for v long means they r very in love...it can mean that they r very committed to what they vowed to...actuali love is alot like try n error la lol...but the costs of it can b rather high when error occurs loh=xOriginally posted by lonestar86:u will know the answer when r in love.. -
How does one tell if he/she is in love with love, or truly in love?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Many only THINK that they are in love; more often than not, they are in love with love. -
i asked that arldy, he aint answering=pOriginally posted by Moon Pixie:How does one tell if he/she is in love with love, or truly in love? -
look at what maslow says about human needs and see how much of it can be satisfied by a rs and you'll know why people wants a rs -
so which one is more impt?Originally posted by dibilo:
look at what maslow says about human needs and see how much of it can be satisfied by a rs and you'll know why people wants a rs -
ur in earth.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:just wondering...
sometimes i just dont understand why people can work so hard for money.
or why they just wanna get into $ so much
or what is so good about being in rich
or what the point of being rich if u hardly find happiness.
What's the difference in this 2?
without money, u wont be happy.......
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yes we need, but not overly obsessivess.Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:ur in earth.
without money, u wont be happy....... -
Originally posted by Moon Pixie:How does one tell if he/she is in love with love, or truly in love? Time.
Time will reveal all.
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it's all about chemistry......so all those madly in love are actually nerds i guess
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u r hydrogen n im oxygen...
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polygamy not allowed in SGOriginally posted by cheekycheng:u r hydrogen n im oxygen... -
I just broke up even though the relationship was alright. I just couldn't stand being married to a guy who has bad accounts.
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specops87 got chance liao right?Originally posted by Quinsy:I just broke up even though the relationship was alright. I just couldn't stand being married to a guy who has bad accounts.
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Love is wonderful. Its good to know that someone is there to share your worries and joy.
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Having someone to sayang and care for you, and vice versa??
But oh well...usually it comes sweet first....then it gets sour and bitter... and people will come Aunt Agony to post about saddening stuffs...asking for advices and stuff...
It doesn't happen to the majority though ( i hope so..!)....
I read and translated this from some HK forum...
The story of a handphone.. lol...somehow it relates well to a r/s.
One day while A's shopping... and walking past a mobile shop...some handphone caught his eye...he found it stylish..and nice...it was "love at first sight"...he wanted to get that phone very much, but at that moment of time, he couldn't afford it because it was so so expensive... But the price did not deter him from getting the phone...he decided to slowly save up for the phone... and every time he goes shopping, he would go to the shop..to have a few glances at that same phone...hoping that some day soon,he will save up just enough to get that phone..
Finally.. the day came.. he happily went to the shop and bought the handphone...for the whole week, the handphone had all his attention..he bought a very expensive casing for it, and even forbid his siblings to touch it.. besides working, sleeping and eating, he spent the rest of the time meddling with the phone.
As time went by.....
He got sick of the phone.... it was just a phone, that he would keep in his pocket.. and take out to use only when he needs to sms or make phonecalls... or maybe check the time (and not forgeting to snap pictures)..if not it would be strewn to some ulu corner in his room...or kept in his pocket
Months passed...the phone dropped on the ground quite a few times, and there were slight scratches and cracks on it... even though it was working well... sending it back to the service centre wouldn't make much difference,no one's gonna change the exterior of the phone for you.. i mean.. who would possibly wanna do that? Perhaps its time to get a new phone?
This fella went shopping again some day.. and spotted another new phone.. with better and up to date functions as well as a more stylo milo appearance...and once his 2 year plan was over.... he traded in his "old" phone for a new one.....
Morale of the story?
Unfortunately in some cases, a r/s's just like a handphone.
Sweet -> gets boring...->start seeing lotsa flaws-> bitter-> gonez-> ???? New handphone?
Maybe i sound very negative and pessimistic.... i really don't wish this to happen to me...
p.s To those who have just gotten into a r/s.. please enjoy your honeymoon period to the fullest!!! -
sex
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Being in love is one thing, and being together in a marriage is another - it's hard work.
Anyway, the good thing about having someone is:
- you'll never need to be alone, always have someone to do things with, and if you need time to yourself, just ask the person to go do his own thing.
- always have someone to listen to you, about your woes, complaints about work, etc. and who is a sounding board
- no offence to anyone, but it's just nice to feel loved and wanted, and not left on the shelf (so to speak)
- having someone to share the ups and downs in life, responsibilities, household chores, etc. so that life's problems won't seem so overwhelming. -
All are impt. Maslow's hierarchy of needs just say we have 5 different levels of needs. Once the lower level needs are satisfied, we will want to satisfy the next level of needs.Originally posted by darkhour:so which one is more impt? -
if you have to ask, you'll never knowOriginally posted by bladez87:just wondering...
sometimes i just dont understand why people can cry so hard over a failed r.s
or why they just wanna get into 1 so much
or what is so good about being in r.s
or what the point of being together if u hardly meet up due to schedule conflict
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What u think?
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so u haf to satisfy the lower needs first?cool n sex is the lower levelOriginally posted by Wanda:All are impt. Maslow's hierarchy of needs just say we have 5 different levels of needs. Once the lower level needs are satisfied, we will want to satisfy the next level of needs.
lets all go arnd n rape ppl to satisfy our lowest level needs