i'm too dull

• isjennyalive

  25 Mar 07, 18:44

  after so many fail attemps. i'm so heart broken. maybe its b'cos i'm too dull, e topics i talk r too dry n doring. as a result no girls interested in me. any help or advice .
• Patrik

  25 Mar 07, 18:45

  What are the topics u talk about?
• Eternal-fire

  25 Mar 07, 18:45

  If you think you are dull or boring, you will surely be dull or boring. Just change that mentality.
• blahshit

  26 Mar 07, 00:06

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  What are the topics u talk about?

  maybe he tok about,
  
  hi
  
  hello
  
  erm... hi
  
  erm... hello..
  
  (after 20 minutes)
  
  erm.. how's ur day..
  
  (then whole day no tok)
  
  end of day,
  
  bye.. see u..
• Simple_Bear

  26 Mar 07, 21:51

  I am a quiet and dull bear also...
  
  U just have to meet the person who can be on the same frequency as you...
  
  
• <Precious>

  26 Mar 07, 22:05

  You seem to be suffering from a bout of self doubt from your description......
  You ought to take things slowly and start searching your soul. Learn to appreciate yourself for what you are. Love yourself for your strengths but also acknowledge your weaknesses. Remind yourself of the achievements you've scored in your life, however small.......
  
  Take things easy for the time being. Pamper and rejuvenate yourself. Go to a gym to work out. When your mind is fresher, you'll feel more alive and confident! Life is a marathon, not a sprint. You've got a long way more to go so bide your time. Not good at something, keep working on it. The more times you fail only means the closer you are to success. It's your life. Live it on your own and at your own pace. Don't compare with others at all! Good luck!
  
  
• Ito_^

  26 Mar 07, 22:12

  how leh
  
  i oso leh
  
  nothing to tok about
  
  aiya
  
  gib up la
  
  got rubbish tok rubbish
  
  lor
• turbo_drift

  26 Mar 07, 22:13

  
• OO_OO_OO

  26 Mar 07, 22:14

  just talk rubbish and dont give a second thought abt what she might say
• browniebaobao

  26 Mar 07, 22:39

  Originally posted by Simple_Bear:

  I am a quiet and dull bear also...
  
  U just have to meet the person who can be on the same frequency as you...
  
  

  everytime trying to sian ple..
  
  u are far away from being quiet leh.
• FBI

  26 Mar 07, 22:41

  Originally posted by isjennyalive:

  after so many fail attemps. i'm so heart broken. maybe its b'cos i'm too dull, e topics i talk r too dry n doring. as a result no girls interested in me. any help or advice .

  watch jacky wu and learn something from him
• smudgey

  26 Mar 07, 23:09

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  everytime trying to sian ple..
  
  u are far away from being quiet leh.

  hehehe +1
  
  ya lor bear bear where got quiet?!
  
  always making honey tea for me....
  
  bear bear... where's my honey tea???
  
  and my long island tea????
  
  btw... TS...
  
  there's certain ppl we can talk to and certain ppl we just can't get the conversation going.... it's like that wan.... you just need to find the ppl with the same interest as you....
• blahshit

  27 Mar 07, 00:19

  Originally posted by FBI:

  watch jacky wu and learn something from him

  HAHAHA!! then u will know how to jian(4) ren(2) shuo(1) ren(2) hua(4), jian(4) gui(3) shuo(1) gui(3) hua(4)
  HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
• Cool-gal

  27 Mar 07, 01:06

  ya, watch more of jacky wu's show. definitely change u abit.
  when i was young, nobody pays attention to me.
  but now tat i have grown up, everyone laughs at my jokes n likes to chat up with me.
  
• beavan

  27 Mar 07, 08:49

  maybe cos you are pretty?
• fatslob

  27 Mar 07, 10:05

  Originally posted by beavan:

  maybe cos you are pretty?

  
• Rock^Star

  27 Mar 07, 10:31

  You are who you think you are. Watch some humourous variety shows, helps a lot!!
• nanren4ever

  27 Mar 07, 10:53

  watch Jacky Wu or Zhang Fei's variety shows, but don't watch crap shows that do nothing for ur intelligence or personality. Like the Monday 8pm variety show on Channel U.. To gain some laughs, they insult each other till machiam very jia lat..
• Yunhaier

  27 Mar 07, 12:00

  Originally posted by isjennyalive:

  after so many fail attemps. i'm so heart broken. maybe its b'cos i'm too dull, e topics i talk r too dry n doring. as a result no girls interested in me. any help or advice .

  Define 'many' ?
  
  Cheers
• sheri

  27 Mar 07, 13:44

  Cannot really help you, coz sometimes I think I become dull too. But I think the environment matters a lot, if you are with dull people = you will auto become dull.
• Simple_Bear

  27 Mar 07, 18:59

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  everytime trying to sian ple..
  
  u are far away from being quiet leh.

  I only crap with people of the same frequency...e.g. pretty gals...
  
  
• Simple_Bear

  27 Mar 07, 19:00

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  hehehe +1
  
  ya lor bear bear where got quiet?!
  
  always making honey tea for me....
  
  bear bear... where's my honey tea???
  
  and my long island tea????
  
  btw... TS...
  
  there's certain ppl we can talk to and certain ppl we just can't get the conversation going.... it's like that wan.... you just need to find the ppl with the same interest as you....

  Pai seh nowadays too busy...
  
  
• tek_koh

  27 Mar 07, 22:03

  whole day no tok?! sure not..i oso v quiet and nei xiang 1 la..its all about effort to find sth to tok bout
  
• browniebaobao

  27 Mar 07, 22:07

  Originally posted by Simple_Bear:

  I only crap with people of the same frequency...e.g. pretty gals...
  
  

  u are making me shy.
  
  hahaha.. i know i buey paisei..
• Eric Cartman

  27 Mar 07, 22:10

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Define 'many' ?
  
  Cheers

  1 liner also cheers
  
  poser