What did it take to make you finally give up?

• Xiao Jun

  2 Apr 07, 12:50

  Originally posted by X-men:

  Congrats?
  
  Sometimes do have the 'loneliness' leh

  Haha! Congrats for not being in a relationship Mr X...lonliness is e side effects of singlehood...but I'm enjoying singlehood~
• Magnus

  2 Apr 07, 13:20

  Ah.. But dun get into a relationship just because of loneliness. Even if you are in a relationship or even married, you do exprience that especially if your partner dont understand you.
• yihao93

  2 Apr 07, 22:11

  rejection
  say say is dun chase her
  but still think of her
  ><
• Ladi

  3 Apr 07, 00:44

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  As e topic may suggest...my query leans towards relationships...hope I havn't ever picked at a scab where I shouldn't with this nagging thought of mine~
  
  Anyone care to share?

  Time. When the time is up.
• huy

  3 Apr 07, 01:07

  all along i tok that i am able to make it up.. i tried msg, calling, but no use.. until i noe he got himself a gf.. then i give up totally..
• soulwinner

  3 Apr 07, 01:11

  Give up what?
• Detached

  3 Apr 07, 01:54

  If the bitterness is from our selfish foolishness, let it go. If the bitterness is from someone's mistake. we learn grace and forgive.
• Quinsy

  3 Apr 07, 01:56

  so vague.
• SGpork

  3 Apr 07, 02:00

  when my hearts stop
  
  no ill know..if i wanna give up
  
  
• Xiao Jun

  4 Apr 07, 17:20

  Originally posted by Magnus:

  Ah.. But dun get into a relationship just because of loneliness. Even if you are in a relationship or even married, you do exprience that especially if your partner dont understand you.

  I really hope I never have to come to terms with something like that...
• Xiao Jun

  4 Apr 07, 17:30

  Originally posted by Ladi:

  Time. When the time is up.

  Originally posted by yihao93:

  rejection
  say say is dun chase her
  but still think of her
  ><

  Rejection is a clear indication of time's up...but for myself there are some reasons that I must learn to accept...unacceptable reasons include being unfaithful...that marks e end definitely
• alexkusu

  4 Apr 07, 18:15

  I remembered my reason now.
  
  Its when I find the relationship going nowhere, jus stagnant. Gone are the times where everytime she sees me there would be big energetic smiles and my spirits would lift up. Now its just the 'Oh, its you" kinda looks. And it pains me for her to stay like that with me when she could have someone else who can make her happier and much better than me.
  
  So yeah, thats the time to let go.
  
  
• coolger03

  4 Apr 07, 19:22

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  I remembered my reason now.
  
  Its when I find the relationship going nowhere, jus stagnant. Gone are the times where everytime she sees me there would be big energetic smiles and my spirits would lift up. Now its just the 'Oh, its you" kinda looks. And it pains me for her to stay like that with me when she could have someone else who can make her happier and much better than me.
  
  So yeah, thats the time to let go.
  
  

  what if the whole thing is just ur assumption and all along, she had thot u r the one who can make her happy?
• T.Ryousuke

  5 Apr 07, 13:22

  Why gal don't like to hear their bf talking about their ex even tho it's about bad thing. Issit they feel that there is still feeling attached? For me, once break means no feeling liao why cannot talk about ex? just to say out the unhappiness.
• alexkusu

  8 Apr 07, 17:34

  Originally posted by coolger03:

  what if the whole thing is just ur assumption and all along, she had thot u r the one who can make her happy?

  Once you know a person long enough, you could 'read' them, their feelings, emotions and thoughts.
  
  And my 'assumption' has been confirmed further down the line. We both came into the rs knowing we will break one day, so until that day comes we just did the best we can.so yeah, no regrets.
• SherLady

  8 Apr 07, 18:53

  when i feel that he's just a friend that i could be with and feelings start to fade...
  
  and for sure will do me good. just a friend.
• X-men

  8 Apr 07, 23:22

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Haha! Congrats for not being in a relationship Mr X...lonliness is e side effects of singlehood...but I'm enjoying singlehood~

  I am enjoying mine too
• Ito_^

  8 Apr 07, 23:25

  when i screw myself up.
• soulwinner

  8 Apr 07, 23:25

  Depend
• Xiao Jun

  9 Apr 07, 08:24

  Thanks for e replies SGF! I don't think a silent break will be all that bad...but then again...that's just me haha!
  
  What do you guys think about silent break-ups?
• X-men

  11 Apr 07, 20:24

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Thanks for e replies SGF! I don't think a silent break will be all that bad...but then again...that's just me haha!
  
  What do you guys think about silent break-ups?

  What is silent break-up?
  
  Just suddenly disappear? then the next time bump into each other.. both with someone else?
• browniebaobao

  12 Apr 07, 00:10

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Thanks for e replies SGF! I don't think a silent break will be all that bad...but then again...that's just me haha!
  
  What do you guys think about silent break-ups?

  silent break will only be good if both parties no longer has feelings for each other yet duno how to initiate the break ba...
• Devil1976

  12 Apr 07, 18:19

  Originally posted by X-men:

  What is silent break-up?
  
  Just suddenly disappear? then the next time bump into each other.. both with someone else?

  Breaking out without making an official declaration about it...