my mind is really in the mess right now
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haiz....... i really dunno what should i do next..........
i have known of this girl through my workplace for almost 4 weeks and initially i have no special feelings towards her but when the special feelings came i told myself not to have a special feelings towards her but my mind betrayed myself in the end.......
initially this girl behaves normal towards me but dunno why recently she seems to be 'avoiding' me and was rather 'uneasy' when with me although i didn't disturb her, showing any 'significant' sighs that i hv special feelings towards her, telling anyone that i likes her etc. however she still appears friendly when she saw me........ i really don't know what was she thinking.....
to be honest i was yet to start wooing her n she is just a normal friend to me at the moment.......
should i try and win her heart or giving up? pls advise -
go for it
u neber know, maybe she is wait for u to make the move!!!
if u neber try, u neber know!
but one thing to note though.......since u are colleagues, u may get into an awkward situation if u are rejected or din turn out wat u expect......
so u have to consider tt ok? -
Nike!
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ya loh, i agree........muz consider the facts that u all are colleagues and muz b ready to accept diappointment loh, today i am very sad too as i gt a bit liking for 1 guy colleague and he treat me very nice even treat me to eat very ex dinner which is almost $80 per person and is out of the sudden he treat me eat, then later that i bought him a present and when i pass to him today he tell me in msn "pls do not buy me any present again.", he like tat say is very hurting man, dun appreciate of wat i had bought for him, he have not open the present at tat time yet bt yet he say this sentence is rather hurting and sad, so i assume this is a negative sign..............
So i face diappointment and anger today cos of him thus if u really wanna woo ur colleagues, b ready to face disappointment but if u never try u will never know, if the person rejects u means is tat person loss for not having u, at least u did try then u will not let down urself and u can move on if is negative.......... -
er. no harm trying. but ..... u guys in the same office? hmm.. then i duno.. take ur time lar.. no rush ...
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Never take your time! There are other guys too.Originally posted by ilovethesun:er. no harm trying. but ..... u guys in the same office? hmm.. then i duno.. take ur time lar.. no rush ... -
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let nature take its course -
Better ask your boss for permission first.
It's going to be very awkward for you if you find out he is also interested in the same girl.
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Think u shd go slow and steady.. dun u think its to abrupt and u might just ruin ur chance.. treat her for dinner or some stupid exc la then she wads her reaction? but first gotta make sure she dun have any BF otherwise u will be the guilty party.. HAha all the best to U!
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from what i know she dun hv a boyfriendOriginally posted by newbie06:Think u shd go slow and steady.. dun u think its to abrupt and u might just ruin ur chance.. treat her for dinner or some stupid exc la then she wads her reaction? but first gotta make sure she dun have any BF otherwise u will be the guilty party.. HAha all the best to U! -
haiz....... now losing sleep over this thing
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Just follow your heart and feeling and do what it tells u to do...
But if she reject you then it is also ok coz at least you tried...
If you never try you never know... -
Hmm... It's times like these which make me wonder what's wrong with being friendly....?Originally posted by 855:haiz....... i really dunno what should i do next..........
i have known of this girl through my workplace for almost 4 weeks and initially i have no special feelings towards her but when the special feelings came i told myself not to have a special feelings towards her but my mind betrayed myself in the end.......
initially this girl behaves normal towards me but dunno why recently she seems to be 'avoiding' me and was rather 'uneasy' when with me although i didn't disturb her, showing any 'significant' sighs that i hv special feelings towards her, telling anyone that i likes her etc. however she still appears friendly when she saw me........ i really don't know what was she thinking.....
to be honest i was yet to start wooing her n she is just a normal friend to me at the moment.......
should i try and win her heart or giving up? pls advise