In what way does society judge a person?
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Just by what way? By his wrongdoings? By rumours? By what he appears to be on the outside but totally opposite inside?
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by look first
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unforunate, but yesOriginally posted by Diehard_89:by look first -
Just because of an incident, i'm labelled...Originally posted by Diehard_89:by look first -
So you value yourself based on how much the society judge you?
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Not really but even so, to them i'm known as what they know me as instead of who i truely am.Originally posted by Bontakun:So you value yourself based on how much the society judge you? -
Its a complicated situation where you wanted to be known and valued as who you are and not how you are perceived by others, yet others will never know who you are unless they bother to find out.. which most of them don't.
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The way they perceive me as hurts meOriginally posted by Bontakun:Its a complicated situation where you wanted to be known and valued as who you are and not how you are perceived by others, yet others will never know who you are unless they bother to find out.. which most of them don't. -
first impression counts for all
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size of ..wallet,
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Mostly by look and status...
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Sad to say our society guage a person more on the Vitamin M than anything else...
You can do a thousand good deeds but all you need is one bad deed and you are out...
People will remember your wrongdoing longer than anthing else... -
man only remembers wat u did wrong, not wat u did right
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Welcome to lessons on "learning the ways of this world"..........Originally posted by wonderamazement:The way they perceive me as hurts me 
No man is an island and many a times, we are forced to conform. As long as you know your true self and still retain your sanity, life's wonderful isn't it? -
by wrongdoings - yes, i think in this society, we remember others' mistakes hard, whoever did something wrong, it spreads around fast, and people remembers it.Originally posted by wonderamazement:Just by what way? By his wrongdoings? By rumours? By what he appears to be on the outside but totally opposite inside?
by rumour - yes too, especially in office, rumour/gossip is really powerful. If you are working in the same company as me, but different departments, i know who you are but i never talked to you before, all i know about you is from "rumours". If i never get to know you in person, and be a closer freind with you and know the "real" you, you will always be the "rumour" you in my mind.
The "totally opposite inside" part is not easliy discovered, unless i am close to you. Most ppl will look at what "you appears to be". So, yes. Looks, how you dressed up yourself, how you talk, who you hang out with, it all counts. -
as long as u did something bad once, u r condemned
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Care to elaborate on that...?Originally posted by wonderamazement:Just because of an incident, i'm labelled... -
take it easy. Throughout my life, I have been seen in manners that is not even close to who and what I am and the kind of treatment I get can make people cry.
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Learn not to be affected by other people's view of you. If it is true, reflect and see if you can change. If it is not true, there's nothing you can do to change people's mind.
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money money money
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How true.Originally posted by TehJarVu:money money money -
Rather notOriginally posted by Devil1976:Care to elaborate on that...? -
Appearance counts. Most of the time, you are already judged or stereotyped before you are spoken too. Sad but true. I guess you cannot blame strangers for doing that.
If you somehow survived the first encounter, it will be your achievements, personalility, wrongdoings, $$$$, etc, that will be assessed next. -
by appearance i agree
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the face.
the sad social phenomenon......
u see ppl trying to look for other forumites' frenster pix, u see ppl have been trying to find out how FI look like after so many yrs.... u see how ppl posted pix in sggirls and comment on them..... u see the effects of stomp.........
yes, it's the face..........