I want to let it out !
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Hi guys..
I've really had enough. I thought awhile before deciding to post here at AA. Heres the problem...
My dad and younger sis have super hot temper. They get angry easily. There are times when they showed me attitude but i just ignored it. But certain times it becomes unbearable. For my dad, whenever he is unhappy and i needed to talk to him, he would just ignore me and gives a bloody face. My sis is even worse. My sis would sometimes shout at me and curse me. I got very angry and shouted back at her with vulgarities and sparks flew. Theres this day when my sis said, "Hey! If im unhappy i can choose to talk back at you with a attitude, regardless how nice u ask me. Better heed my warnings." I always put up with such attitudes for at least once a week, especially my sis. I try hard not to retaliate and shout back since we are a family and to avoid arguments. My sis infact is the boldest of all. She told my mum this before, " Eh! If you dont show me respect first, i will never show you any respect, regardless of your status as a parent."
Ok ... i put up with such attitudes ... Now is my school.
Sometimes in school, i would get really fed up over certain things and homework. Then theres this 'friend' ( lets call him A) who really gets on my nerves. If he turns moody or angry with me, he would show me attitude and just keep mum. Not a word mentioned. Since I knew that i would clash with him and he's quite irritating at times, i chose to sit at another place in the class. But just as nice, there are many absentees on this particular day. Since there is an empty seat beside me, he shifted from his place and sat beside me. During POA, i got really fed up with a POA question, hence i turned quite moody. Then A asked me which question im at, i told him im at qsn 4. 10 mins later he asked me the same qsn again and i replied him with the same answer. 15mins later he asked the same qsn again! I got really irritated plus with the frustration i got with qsn 4, i replied with an irritated tone " What??! Im still at question 4 lah!" To my surprise, he slapped on my hand and said "HEY U CCB! Can you please reply with a nicer tone can anot? I ask you in a nice tone you better reply with a nice tone in return! You know something? If you weren't my friend, i would have punched you at your face given your so fcuked up attitude." I was like WTF, i was really irritated by him and frustrated, cant i reply with an irritated tone? Plus, i shifted my place precisely because i know i would clash with him. Instead he shifted place and sat next to me once again and now this happened.
Why is it that people can reply me with an irritated tone without getting threatened but poor me have to put up with such attitudes and i cant reply with an irritated tone? Why is it so unfair?
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nx time u threaten them lo
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You don't have to tolerate. Just guai lan with him. Show him you ain't a pushover.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:To my surprise, he slapped on my hand and said "HEY U CCB! Can you please reply with a nicer tone can anot? I ask you in a nice tone you better reply with a nice tone in return! You know something? If you weren't my friend, i would have punched you at your face given your so fcuked up attitude." I was like WTF, i was really irritated by him and frustrated, cant i reply with an irritated tone? Plus, i shifted my place precisely because i know i would clash with him. Instead he shifted place and sat next to me once again and now this happened.
Why is it that people can reply me with an irritated tone without getting threatened but poor me have to put up with such attitudes and i cant reply with an irritated tone? Why is it so unfair? -
if i got a younger sis who speak like that to my mother, i already slap her already.
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Thats why i guai lan with him that i nearly got punched.Originally posted by mase101:You don't have to tolerate. Just guai lan with him. Show him you ain't a pushover. -
I cant slap my sis. If i do that i would get a scolding from my mum and she starts chanting at my poor ear again.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:if i got a younger sis who speak like that to my mother, i already slap her already.
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i think u need to go back to the deport to check if ur radiator is working properly 
for ur sis rites, i know how u feel, and it reallk scuks i know, no respect ect. Try talking to her nicely first, cause if u treat her well, she will treat u the same way, thats respect. if that doesnt work, scold her like u nvr did before, and shout out all her bad points ect blah blah blah. oh ya, to spice things up. maybe throw something to make u look that u are really very very serious, and fierce, this shall show her who's boss
for ur "friend", if he is able to do that to u, why cant u do it to him, when he is very frustrated with something, do what he did to u last time, and judging from how u describe him, i dont think that the whole class likes him too, so u should know what to do rites
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I have a hostile family to except my mum.. But I can handle it...
It how u handle and see each situation...
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I can handle. But theres a limit for one's patience.Originally posted by soulwinner:I have a hostile family to except my mum.. But I can handle it...
It how u handle and see each situation... 
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go bus hunting to cool down lorOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:I can handle. But theres a limit for one's patience. -
As for my sis, throw things and scold her like never before? IMPOSSIBLE! You know what my mum said when i did that the prev time? Eh, she is your only sis lah, just give in to her and tolerate with her. You know what she's like. Just give in to her and "Jia he wan shi xin"Originally posted by kenn3th: i think u need to go back to the deport to check if ur radiator is working properly
for ur sis rites, i know how u feel, and it reallk scuks i know, no respect ect. Try talking to her nicely first, cause if u treat her well, she will treat u the same way, thats respect. if that doesnt work, scold her like u nvr did before, and shout out all her bad points ect blah blah blah. oh ya, to spice things up. maybe throw something to make u look that u are really very very serious, and fierce, this shall show her who's boss
for ur "friend", if he is able to do that to u, why cant u do it to him, when he is very frustrated with something, do what he did to u last time, and judging from how u describe him, i dont think that the whole class likes him too, so u should know what to do rites 
That practically means that i can never thrash it out with my sis but to tolerate. But theres a limit to ones patience lah!
My friend? How did you guess that? 99% people of my class dont like him because of his attitude.
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what school u from?
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Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:
if that's the case, why bother let him affect you..
As for my sis, throw things and scold her like never before? IMPOSSIBLE! You know what my mum said when i did that the prev time? Eh, she is your only sis lah, just give in to her and tolerate with her. You know what she's like. Just give in to her and "Jia he wan shi xin" That practically means that i can never thrash it out with my sis but to tolerate. But theres a limit to ones patience lah!
My friend? How did you guess that? [b]99% people of my class dont like him because of his attitude. [/b]
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Zhenghua Secondary aka the Macdonald secondary (in the past). The only school in SG with red colour uniform.Originally posted by popmynutsy:what school u from?
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He does not say only, he uses action. Its really fcuking irritating.Originally posted by ilovethesun:if that's the case, why bother let him affect you..
let him say whatever he wants.. jus bo chup..
When i was sleeping soundly in class during he would come behind me and slap me and wake me up. I asked him to stop fcuking disturb me but his excuse was " just now u also disturb me what!" Ok, i wake him up just now because it was during a lesson, he's ought to be awake. Ok lah i abit kaypoh and "concern" abt him, but its during free period that i slept, nth wrong. People in our class hates him to the core because he is sibei bhb ( thick skin) and buay ji dong (not sensible)
Then during recess time, theres left a small space on our canteen benches and you know what? He just eng eng lai and squeezes in (hes a little plump). I DONT LIKE to be squeezed when im eating, it just kills my appetite and he just dont have that initiative to sit somewhere nearby. -
zhenghua at where?
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Somewhere in Bukit Panjang, near Jelapang Road.Originally posted by popmynutsy:zhenghua at where?
It's my previous sec sch, luckily I left the school already. -
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Some young people nowadays have serious attitude problems... -
OMG. Didnt see you leh. LOL.Originally posted by furb:Somewhere in Bukit Panjang, near Jelapang Road.
It's my previous sec sch, luckily I left the school already.
Eh , rmbr Mr Sng and Ranjit Singh? These two are the most looked out for. -
ur young sisOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:I can handle. But theres a limit for one's patience.
XIA LAN WIF HER
show her u r the man
ur fren siam her
or report to teacher
show them u canot b a pushover
meanwhile , at school i ok
at home, my mei
last time she xia lan mi
i beat her up until she cry,
then no more liao
really
xia lan wif ur mei la
resort to violcnce if necessary,
but CONTROL
as 4 ur mum
beat ur sis up 1 time song song and retreat to ur room 4 1 day -
sometimes.. when u dun do anything back to them... they will feel bored.. and sianz of u liao.. den they will stop disturbing u liao lor (for ur friend)
ur sis ah... i tried this b4.. but dunno whether it will work in ur case... 1 day.. u purposely bring all ur friends home... den make a lot of noise ah... den tok abt ur sis loudly... let her hear it... if she buay song.. come and find trouble wif u all.. u not scared wat... got friends back u up... if she juz listen onli.. maybe she understand wats her wrong le.. -
two trademark words from kengkia...MOVE OUT lor....san shi liu ji zou wei shang ce..... ....see what they can do w/o u....see they treasure u anot...
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aiya....this prob only occur not very frequently larh....move out like too kua zhang liao.Originally posted by kengkia:two trademark words from kengkia...MOVE OUT lor....san shi liu ji zou wei shang ce..... ....see what they can do w/o u....see they treasure u anot...
But for my fwen, i oredi "move out" liao....i nvr seat with him anymore. But he always bhb and keep sitting next to me. -
i have this kind of fren as well, for me, i just take sth like stapler, then grab on hand and hit his head hard lor, then bang the person against the sharp of the pillar
jkjk
just tell teacher tht he had bad attitude and remain annoynomus -
Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:As for my sis, throw things and scold her like never before? IMPOSSIBLE! You know what my mum said when i did that the prev time? Eh, she is your only sis lah, just give in to her and tolerate with her. You know what she's like. Just give in to her and "Jia he wan shi xin" That practically means that i can never thrash it out with my sis but to tolerate. But theres a limit to ones patience lah!
My friend? How did you guess that? 99% people of my class dont like him because of his attitude. this kind of people surely prey on more than one people de so alot of people will hate him
ask the whole class to go against him lor, lead a army of students to disturb him or ask ur class mates to support u when he disturbs u maybe with a hand sign to show that u need help