how precious is your heart?

• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 01:15

  is love really just a game?
  
  how come people can have so many relationships and then end up with someone whom they say is the love of their life?
  
  what happened to the previous relationships? what did they amount to?
  
  is love not precious?
• Darkness_hacker99

  6 Apr 07, 01:17

  I am used to being a single
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 01:25

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  I am used to being a single

  are you waiting for someone?
• browniebaobao

  6 Apr 07, 01:26

  they are all passerbys.
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  6 Apr 07, 01:27

  the young ones are all so ignorant nowadays.. love of their life... they tink its so easy to find
• Darkness_hacker99

  6 Apr 07, 01:30

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  are you waiting for someone?

  
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 01:31

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  they are all passerbys.

  i don't understand. you didn't love those 'passerbys' with all your heart?
• blahshit

  6 Apr 07, 01:35

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  I am used to being a single

  
  
  me also..
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 01:57

  nobody?
• browniebaobao

  6 Apr 07, 01:58

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  i don't understand. you didn't love those 'passerbys' with all your heart?

  of course i loved them with all i had.
  
  but.. passerbys means.. they come and go..
  
  and the times spent together will only be memories after they left.
  
  of course, they will leave footprints behind.
  
  All the heartbreaks, tears, hurt etc..
• Patrik

  6 Apr 07, 01:59

  Lost its meaning as time goes by.
• Quinsy

  6 Apr 07, 02:00

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  is love really just a game?
  
  how come people can have so many relationships and then end up with someone whom they say is the love of their life?
  
  what happened to the previous relationships? what did they amount to?
  
  is love not precious?

  Their love faded, they realised they were not made for each other.
  
  They amounted to experience.
  
  Love is precious. Cherished in memories, use din experienced to nurture greater love.
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 02:09

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  of course i loved them with all i had.
  
  but.. passerbys means.. they come and go..
  
  and the times spent together will only be memories after they left.
  
  of course, they will leave footprints behind.
  
  All the heartbreaks, tears, hurt etc..

  how can you put it so lightly... come and go... Aren't the people you love supposed to be the most important people in your life? How can you bear to let them morph into nothing but memories?
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 02:10

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Lost its meaning as time goes by.

  what lost its meaning? your love?
• Moon Pixie

  6 Apr 07, 02:11

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  Their love faded, they realised they were not made for each other.
  
  They amounted to experience.
  
  Love is precious. Cherished in memories, use din experienced to nurture greater love.

  if love is precious, why do people so readily let it fade?
• mystee

  6 Apr 07, 02:45

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  how can you put it so lightly... come and go... Aren't the people you love supposed to be the most important people in your life? How can you bear to let them morph into nothing but memories?

  very rarely ppl who u love, u can let go easily... but sometimes.. we dont have a choice... holding on to it will only make ur life miserable.. the earth is round & is still moving.. what the point of holding on when he/she dont meant to be yours?
• Quinsy

  6 Apr 07, 02:47

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  if love is precious, why do people so readily let it fade?

  Circumstances and reality strikes. You can't survive souly on love, or the concept of 'love'. Real life requires a balance of both practicality and love.
• cheekycheng

  6 Apr 07, 03:36

  love is indeed precious, but when someone left u its no longer called love... its called denial.
  
  to me love is like a glass filled with liquid. 1st it fills up with ribena, then vodka, so ribena gets diluted but its always there, just diluted... then u get all kinds of liquid filling in... whisky, gin u name it... though it overflows, but the newer liquid will always be the most concentrated, but the others will always be there...
  
  ok just to lighten up...
• yihao93

  6 Apr 07, 09:59

  we dunoe wad is LOVE
  each of us have a concept of love
  which might be rite? or wrong
  most of the time its wrng...
  from the start, the partner might juz b playin?!
  i hope that u noe that teenagers are juz
  getiin in2 a relatiionship juz 4 the sake of gettin into 1
  
• browniebaobao

  6 Apr 07, 11:00

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  how can you put it so lightly... come and go... Aren't the people you love supposed to be the most important people in your life? How can you bear to let them morph into nothing but memories?

  excuse me, if they want to go, can u dun let them go?
  
  doesn't mean when u love a person, the person belongs to you and must stay with u for a lifetime. It should work both ways. If he wants to leave, do u think u can stop him? He may be important to you, but are you important to him?
  
  The most important people in my life? Not every relationship will last, not everyone will marry their first love. They were important when we were together.. after break up, no more contact le, how are you going to put them in an most 'important' position? The most important people in my life now are my family and friends...I know no matter what, they are the ones who will always be there for me.
  
  
• Patrik

  6 Apr 07, 11:09

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  what lost its meaning? your love?

  The word "Love"
  See how many people are claiming to be in love?
  But is there really love on the streets?
  There is no love in this world.
  Only evidence of love.
• Patrik

  6 Apr 07, 11:14

  I still think and believe that,when you love someone,it should be forever.
  Just because he or she doesnt love u,or left this world,u should stop loving him or her.
  To me,love is never fair la.
• Yunhaier

  6 Apr 07, 13:47

  Originally posted by Moon Pixie:

  is love really just a game?
  
  how come people can have so many relationships and then end up with someone whom they say is the love of their life?
  
  what happened to the previous relationships? what did they amount to?
  
  is love not precious?

  When you congregate and lump everything together, emotional blockage are bound to occur.
  
  It is precisely thoughts like these that breed depression and stagnation in people's course of direction.
  
  Why would you have to consider your past as a factor into your present and future? If you probe deeper, would that necessarily means you are more 'sentimental' as people might claim?
  
  No.
  
  But surely, I can tell you are more easily vulnerable to depression attack.
  
  There are too much consideration for the mundane.
  
  Each individual carries a tag of 'lesson/s' with them. You accept them into your life, you receive the lesson in return. After the exchange, they are gone. You are now questioning their existence, if there anything more than just the 'lesson' they bring forth.
  
  I say hardly.
  
  You pick a route.
  
  You walk.
  
  If you have to constantly remind yourself why you walk this direction and thought about the 'what if' in another separate direction - you are just making your life miserable.
  
  Life is made in such a way that there isn't a 'Save' and 'Load' option akin to any one player game - it's more like a MMORPG.
  
  Cheers