trust
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what do u do when u find that you dun trust ur partner altho she/he loves u alot?
anyway to clear this trust issue?
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trust is either u have or dun have.............
some ppl start with zero...
then as time goes by.....the trust level increases......
some ppl start with full marks.....(full trust)
then as time goes by.....some things happen and marks get deducted
most impt is how do u make ur partner feel it....... -
but then if its urself who dun trust leh?
how to get rid of this stupid trust problem...its like some kind o selff confidence issue -
Sometimes we may only look at the good side of a person and discount the bad side.
Sometimes we may only look at the bad side of a person and discount the good side.
Only when we lost that person, then we will see both the good side and the bad side of that person.
Cheers. -
TS. If you want to trust someone, you must learn to trust.
Trust is not something that you say to yourself to give you confidence.
Trust is not about scruntizing your partner's every words to check for loopholes.
It is to actually let go and give your partner space, while feeling frightened to death all the time.
Slowly, you will get use and gain respect for your partner for not abusing your trust. -
u have to write down or make an analysis what u dun trust about your partner or is it you're too sensitive and dun have confidence in yourself first?
Could be that u feel insecure eveytime she for e.g speak on the phone to another 'guy' friend or wear sexy clothing going to uni/work, etc.
make a note man what u dun feel good what u dun like her to do that makes u lose trust.
Figure out whether is she cheating on you that makes u lose trust or is it just her real character like that for e.g is she always flirty/cheeky when she talks to ppl (maybe it's only natural that she was brought up to talk to ppl like that). If that's the case then u know that she loves u and she's just being herself, nothing much to worry. Sometimes u gotta let her go loose, dun hold on too tight man, you'll suffocate her. Maybe let her go with her friend (can start off with just girls only) depending on your jealousy level hehehe for 1 night then when u feel more confident maybe let her go out with a group mix guys/girls, etc.
I think the most important thing is that trust dun come so fast can take a long time but u can develop and start now. Start off by letting her do what she like not what u dun like her to do. But judging by your post, seems like u already got an issue with trust
with your partner so I think just let her do wat she wants now, dun fight it, girls ah always want to win wan hate to admit they're wrong so just give her space now. -
how the hell can you not trust yrself? that means you've got no discipline...
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trust??
there's no such thing as trust..
u will know what i mean when he/she did unfaithful
things behind ur back.. -
Originally posted by StarPuppy:what do u do when u find that you dun trust ur partner altho she/he loves u alot?
anyway to clear this trust issue? 
Always take the absolute approach - 0% or 100%.
Confusion always occur when you set your figures in between.
Cheers -
before we commit in a relationship , we know very well trust is a need in it. and if we don't trust each other , why do we agreed to be together in the first place?
everything has a reason . but if you dun trust ur partner. try to noe wad is the issue about and mebbe talk to him/her about it.
this might solve the little question mark u have =) -
it will be a thorn in the flesh..
until both parties are really truthful to each other and clarify things up. -
finding out something which you will never know is a tiring task. i doubt u wanna try.
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it will be a thorn in the flesh..
until both parties are really truthful to each other and clarify things up.