How often you say "I Love U" to yr dear?
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This is a magic word if it's not use too often, but it become unless when you say it too often, issit true?
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True... Being together and knowing when to say "I love you" is very essential...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:This is a magic word if it's not use too often, but it become unless when you say it too often, issit true?
Not just because it's your anniversary or his/her birthday or Valentine's Day, you have to say...
When you say it, you mean it from the bottom of your heart and let his/her feel the truth from the statement... -
The problem for me is that I can do anything for her but in the end I din say that I love her, but she is been very patient with me. Is not that I wanna test her, but sometime guy need to say it out cos gal need this kind of caring word to keep the love on going. And lately I keep mention about my ex and that made her unhappy, yet she din show anger directly at me until I slowly recall back what she had said and realise those r angry words. I took a long time to understand her words. So do you girls see ppl like me will say out directly infront of me if I say something wrong?
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Saying "I love you" isn't a solution or remedy... Especially in some scenarios that things went wrong and you've done something wrong...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:The problem for me is that I can do anything for her but in the end I din say that I love her, but she is been very patient with me. Is not that I wanna test her but sometime guy need to say it out cos gal need this kind of caring word to keep the love on going. And lately I keep mention about my ex and that made her unhappy, yet see din show it direct to me until I slowly recall back what she had said and realise those r angry words. I took a long time to understand her words, so do you girls see ppl like me will say out directly infront of me if I say something wrong.
Maybe in this context, you might need do something really really touching to her and slowly bring the words to your mouth and say it to her...
Time can be an essence but time can also be a killer... She might be patient but patience might run out...
If you really treasure her, remember one thing that man always like to do: compare her with your ex... Don't do that... Since you're with her now, give her the trust and love that she deserves... -
Din compare her with ex but was comlianing about the past unhappiness. Anyway this ex thing show that I got lot to learn in love.
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Actually you might not have sensed it, but it's an indirect comparison...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Din compare her with ex but was comlianing about the past unhappiness. Anyway this ex thing show that I got lot to learn in love.
Even me's married with my lovely wife, after having two Mini Mes, me also have to admit me also learning how to love her more every single day...
For a girl to put down her love on you isn't easy, so for us guys what we could do the least is to love them more than they love us, not only every single day that we are together... -
Thanks dork3d for yr advise, sometime I though wat I did was enuff to show my love to her. Well, must polish my antenna cos getting abit rustly. Girl really crack my head to understand wat they mean.
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Maybe for a start, get to know what she really likes and hate, and try to think what she really thinks, communicate with her... Act on her likes and dislikes and give some surprises once in a while when she least expects it... For example, if you can remember when was the date that both of you were together as an item, spring her a small surprise maybe a dinner plus a movie and walk her home, at her doorsteps, kiss her and tell her "I love you"...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Thanks dork3d for yr advise, sometime I though wat I did was enuff to show my love to her. Well, must polish my antenna cos getting abit rustly. Girl really crack my head to understand wat they mean.
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I did most of the thing except the last magic words! and a flower!
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Wish you the best and may your love be everlasting...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:I did most of the think accept the last magic words! and a flower! -
Need to try harder next round, cos she really deserve the best from me.Originally posted by dork3d:Wish you the best and may your love be everlasting... -
the journey of love is not easy indeed....
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Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:The problem for me is that I can do anything for her but in the end I din say that I love her, but she is been very patient with me. Is not that I wanna test her, but sometime guy need to say it out cos gal need this kind of caring word to keep the love on going. And lately I keep mention about my ex and that made her unhappy, yet she din show anger directly at me until I slowly recall back what she had said and realise those r angry words. I took a long time to understand her words. So do you girls see ppl like me will say out directly infront of me if I say something wrong?
Generally, humans can't really handle two things:
I) Truth
II) Power
If you know something like above will happen eventually, I suggest you avoid getting yourself into such plight in the future. As a viable alternative, you could talk to a friend instead.
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That line is so passe man.
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Is my mistake tho, least I know how much she cares about me.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Generally, humans can't really handle two things:
I) Truth
II) Power
If you know something like above will happen eventually, I suggest you avoid getting yourself into such plight in the future. As a viable alternative, you could talk to a friend instead.
Cheers -
not often if i sae it often i dun think i mean it.
actions speaks louder than words =) -
Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Is my mistake tho, least I know how much she cares about me. I think it's fundamentally flawed to reckon that 'because I have spoken about my ex and she reacted; it probably means that she cares/loves you.' This is usually the same line of argument given by possessive mates, claiming that that's love for them, thus the behaviour.
Nevertheless, I still hope for all the best in your current relationship. You had a rough one previously and let's hope things would be better now.
P.S: Our affections are FOC. It is never too much to show how much we appreciate people we love. In fact, we are often too inhibited emotionally.
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Ya, it's going fine and thanks for the advise, I am trying to learn how to handle a r/s with care and love.Originally posted by Yunhaier: I think it's fundamentally flawed to reckon that 'because I have spoken about my ex and she reacted; it probably means that she cares/loves you.' This is usually the same line of argument given by possessive mates, claiming that that's love for them, thus the behaviour.
Nevertheless, I still hope for all the best in your current relationship. You had a rough one previously and let's hope things would be better now.
P.S: Our affections are FOC. It is never too much to show how much we appreciate people we love. In fact, we are often too inhibited emotionally.
Cheers -
true, these 3 magic words are just like shang fang bao jian - can only use once - during ROM
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Wah shang fang bao jian , I got mia shi jin pai hor.Originally posted by Ah Cek:true, these 3 magic words are just like shang fang bao jian - can only use once - during ROM -
i say it when....
i did sth wrong
or when i just suddenly feel i love him more today than yesterday -
but shang fang bao jian can chop the fella with mian shi jin pai, and report to his majesty laterOriginally posted by T.Ryousuke:Wah shang fang bao jian , I got mia shi jin pai hor. -
Its only magic when you meant it. Doesn't matter how many times or when its used. Its the intent behind the meaning of "I love you" that brings impact and true meaning to that 3 word to your loved ones.
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Wah chop first report later, laddit also can?
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xian zan hou zou ma.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Wah chop first report later, laddit also can?