Date raped!
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A accquaintance you knew, asked you out for dinner. He paid for the expensive dinner at Compass Rose Restaurant, pampers you and gives you Tiffany pen as a present.
Then he asked you to go to his house to watch VCD.
You went. While in his room, he decides that you are too attractive and beautiful and he can no longer controls himself.
He forced you down on his bed and 'make love' to you.
What kind of mentality that you should put yourself in?
That you can feel violated and goes home to cry and be bitter about it?
Or.
You speak to your friends and you get their support to make a police report about it. And making a effort to prevent this from happening to other girls again.
Or.
You treat it as a fling and forget about it? -
ITs a must to make a police report. after all u were considered unwilling to the act.
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any "force" is rape..
and rape is rape.. the moment there is "no", it's hands off..
which part of NO did the guy not understand??
it's not consensual.. anything not consensual is considered rape..
now.. only if the victim would speak up -
LOL, its never a MUST.Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:ITs a must to make a police report. after all u were considered unwilling to the act.
There is no law in Singapore to says its unlawful NOT to make a police report. -
ok its not a must but if u can live on with life without any disturbances ..Originally posted by viciouskitty74:LOL, its never a MUST.
There is no law in Singapore to says its unlawful NOT to make a police report.
then so be it. let the guy go scot-free
afterall , its your own reputation at stake -
must report to the police...let this kind of shameless creature go to jail and squat...seriously l hate such ppl...if ever l met such ppl...l sure beat him de
They think wad...wah treat gals to free dinner, or free movie, or giv her free gift..den they can do whatever they want....if the shameless creature is so desperate..go geylang lar...
l hope quinsy will report to the police abt the forumer she goes out with..and l guess everyone shld noe who that shamless creature is by now!!!!
l repeat SHAMELESS CREATURE -
huh.. u mean she was raped ?
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oh... so its Quinsy?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:must report to the police...let this kind of shameless creature go to jail and squat...seriously l hate such ppl...if ever l met such ppl...l sure beat him de
They think wad...wah treat gals to free dinner, or free movie, or giv her free gift..den they can do whatever they want....if the shameless creature is so desperate..go geylang lar...
l hope quinsy will report to the police abt the forumer she goes out with..and l guess everyone shld noe who that shamless creature is by now!!!!
l repeat SHAMELESS CREATURE
but how come she still start a thread like she's having fun huh? -
you know what's kinda sad?
in the state of mind of those already vulnerable, you know that such trauma will result in nothing being done..
that is the tragedy of it all... that most predators will trawl for those who are already vulnerable...
what makes some cases worse are, like the Foster Home case recently, the abusers were in a position of responsibility... that makes the betrayal a lot worse...
however, until the victim surfaces the problem and makes a stand, there will be other victims...
sometimes cost of the numbers game where statistically, one will eventually stand up, is heinous... and it's made worse by the victims who were betrayed when they reached out for help.. and got taken advantage of instead... -
that's another sad thing...
where the "victim" trivialises it.. she just made everything more dangerous for the rest..Originally posted by pervertboi:oh... so its Quinsy?
but how come she still start a thread like she's having fun huh? -
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ya...l did say that it was her fault her oso..acting loose and open in the forum ..let ppl hav the mindset that she is a cheap woman..but still the guy cannot do this kind of thing mah..Originally posted by pervertboi:oh... so its Quinsy?
but how come she still start a thread like she's having fun huh?
l cnt tolerate wad quinsy had done..but l condenm the guy actions more..
moreover he acts like a saint summore...worst still -
wah.. the guy took advantage of her ? so she did not make any reporT?
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ya lor...if she go report...u will see sum1 disappear from this forum leOriginally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:wah.. the guy took advantage of her ? so she did not make any reporT? -
when did it happen ? she told all of u ? well.. sad thing that was..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:ya lor...if she go report...u will see sum1 disappear from this forum le -
summore l am disgusted by the fact that the forumer who do this holds a high authority in this forumOriginally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:when did it happen ? she told all of u ? well.. sad thing that was.. -
how is she now ? didnt really see her often nowadays.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:summore l am disgusted by the fact that the forumer who do this holds a high authority in this forum -
l not that close to her...juz happen to see her thread, and l go read, like that niaOriginally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:how is she now ? didnt really see her often nowadays. -
aw. which thread? mind letting me take a look and understand more. im indeed very concernedOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:l not that close to her...juz happen to see her thread, and l go read, like that nia -
sure go to this thread...there is another link in the thread which is opened up by quinsyOriginally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:aw. which thread? mind letting me take a look and understand more. im indeed very concerned
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=246898
once u go in..u will even noe who the forumer is? -
she didnt exactly get raped rite... i tot otherwise.. but its a shame
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I think the page is deleted or something, cause nothing is loaded when clicked on it.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:sure go to this thread...there is another link in the thread which is opened up by quinsy
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=246898
once u go in..u will even noe who the forumer is? -
who is that shameless guy you are referring to then?
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Devil ?
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it's the second case by that bastard already right?