You are kidding me.
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But since you suggested it.Originally posted by SumOne:No matter what your background qualification now, or your supposed past experience. With the way you are handling things now and seeing how really viscious and bent on going after a single person, I seriously would have no faith in you to follow your advice.
But I got a suggestion, why not you offer to take over as Mod? Especially if you feel yourself more qualified to do it? I personally have my own views what a mod is, even in AA. Since you are so eager for Devil to leave and are so confident in your own advice, step up and be a Mod.
Instead of me taking over the reign of the mod.
I would suggest that before threads are close again. That someone mod be prepared to fight on ground instead of abusing the power again.
I can suggest taking over mod. But can he deal with it? I thnk all of you can see. -
personally, I think it is a real scary thought to have VK modding AA. I really have no concerns, experience wise.... however VK's inability to be emotional detached from the problems that surface here is a big minus to such a suggestion.
... this is just an objective observation.
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Haha Chin Eng, for this, I agree with you!
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I agree, I am emotionally attached to issues here, especially when I find most being misled by the clueless.Originally posted by Chin Eng:personally, I think it is a real scary thought to have VK modding AA. I really have no concerns, experience wise.... however VK's inability to be emotional detached from the problems that surface here is a big minus to such a suggestion.
... this is just an objective observation.
So I am now suggesting. If you can see Devil not using his Mod status to conduct himself, then I would say we are debating on fair ground.
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some1 who is able to give advise should be the mod here. thats what i think. but vk, u abit too emo.
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Devil disturb you again?
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thats why my tittle is "You are kidding me."Originally posted by popmynutsy:some1 who is able to give advise should be the mod here. thats what i think. but vk, u abit too emo.
hey...I saw the humour in that suggestion too. -
Honestly I don't see how it is abuse of power as I really feel those threads should be closed. And I know there others who think the same way. Why don't you check directly with FireIce or even Jason regarding taking over as mod.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:But since you suggested it.
Instead of me taking over the reign of the mod.
I would suggest that before threads are close again. That someone mod be prepared to fight on ground instead of abusing the power again.
I can suggest taking over mod. But can he deal with it? I thnk all of you can see.
If you want, here's my stand. I'm all for VK to take the place as Mod. -
I am more for seeing Devil in person and knowing what my instinct tells me about a person.Originally posted by SumOne:If you want, here's my stand. I'm all for VK to take the place as Mod. -
it was all threads, where devil was 'attacked'.Originally posted by SumOne:Honestly I don't see how it is abuse of power as I really feel those threads should be closed. And I know there others who think the same way. Why don't you check directly with FireIce or even Jason regarding taking over as mod.
If you want, here's my stand. I'm all for VK to take the place as Mod. -
again objectively speaking....Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I agree, I am emotionally attached to issues here, especially when I find most being misled by the clueless.
So I am now suggesting. If you can see Devil not using his Mod status to conduct himself, then I would say we are debating on fair ground.
But was that a case here?
a free forum such as this one... there is no way anyone can control the quality of the mods - this is a reality.
even if Jason closes AA, what is to prevent a loony to start one tomorrow? also there is no way we can verify each others credentials.
so we can either continue to start topics to whack the mods or do something a little more constructive - nominate some other folks, and most importantly get them to accept the position.
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I think different people here have different expectations on what Mod of AA should or should not be. Many people here expect AA Mod to be different from Mod elsewhere. I even suspect in some cases that it's just an excuse to change Mod.Originally posted by popmynutsy:some1 who is able to give advise should be the mod here. thats what i think. but vk, u abit too emo.
But in any case, based on VK's claims that she is more qualified to give advice, and that she is very eager to see Devil step down as Mod. Then I suggest VK become Mod. Especially if her genuine intention is to help people.
Based on what she says, she has the experience on groundwork, she says she wants to help people and do good for others.
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Which are not relevant to what AA is about right? Thank you for reinforcing the point that the threads were just personal in nature.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:it was all threads, where devil was 'attacked'. -
VK opening threads n getting them closed is not going to solve anything. it doesn't help abit. jus get the victim to make a police report n solve everything legally. if he is really guilty then let the law punish him. but if the victim doesn't want to blow it up then pls respect her n stop all these attacks, its destroying the purpose of the AA forum.
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lai lai..come +1
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actually, there are 2 ways to look at it. i can look at it that vk is very concerned about quinsy, thats why attack devil. or i can see it as she dislikes devil, and uses quinsy as an excuse to attack devil.Originally posted by SumOne:I think different people here have different expectations on what Mod of AA should or should not be. Many people here expect AA Mod to be different from Mod elsewhere. I even suspect in some cases that it's just an excuse to change Mod.
But in any case, based on VK's claims that she is more qualified to give advice, and that she is very eager to see Devil step down as Mod. Then I suggest VK become Mod. Especially if her genuine intention is to help people.
Based on what she says, she has the experience on groundwork, she says she wants to help people and do good for others.
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Quite frankly, I don't think it makes a diff who's the mod. VK could still give advise (like she has in the past) even if she isn't Mod. And even if she were Mod, people could still disagree with her. This was an online forum to begin with, no credentials or anything was linked with this forum in the first place. Need professional help, go elsewhere.Originally posted by Chin Eng:personally, I think it is a real scary thought to have VK modding AA. I really have no concerns, experience wise.... however VK's inability to be emotional detached from the problems that surface here is a big minus to such a suggestion.
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again, objectively, it should be closed, because they are personal attacks, which does not serve the objectives of AA....Originally posted by viciouskitty74:it was all threads, where devil was 'attacked'.
here's not to say I agree with devil, but as his rights as a mod of agony aunty, personal attacks MUST be closed... even it is on himself. -
Originally posted by popmynutsy:actually, there are 2 ways to look at it. i can look at it that vk is very concerned about quinsy, thats why attack devil. or i can see it as she dislikes devil, and uses quinsy as an excuse to attack devil.
It's quite obviously this. If it was out of genuine concern for the victim, there are certain things she would not have done. And certain other things she would not have needed prompting to do.
Thing is, VK is too impulsive as long as it involves Devil. Which is why I have always doubted the objectivity of your campaigns and posts. -
well that's one way of looking at it..... if folks disagree with her if she's not mod, there will be a stopgate for such troubles - the mod... however if she's the mod and the same folks disagree with her, again it will be seen as abuse of power....Originally posted by SumOne:Quite frankly, I don't think it makes a diff who's the mod. VK could still give advise (like she has in the past) even if she isn't Mod. And even if she were Mod, people could still disagree with her. This was an online forum to begin with, no credentials or anything was linked with this forum in the first place. Need professional help, go elsewhere.
... and the vicious cycle continues.
don't you like the way EH is modded nowadays???.... -
She can't help it, her hate and vendetta against Devil overrides a lot of things.Originally posted by Kouyou:VK opening threads n getting them closed is not going to solve anything. it doesn't help abit. jus get the victim to make a police report n solve everything legally. if he is really guilty then let the law punish him. but if the victim doesn't want to blow it up then pls respect her n stop all these attacks, its destroying the purpose of the AA forum.
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then maybe she is too rash, or not clear headed.Originally posted by SumOne:[/color]
It's quite obviously this. If it was out of genuine concern for the victim, there are certain things she would not have done. And certain other things she would not have needed prompting to do.
Thing is, VK is too impulsive as long as it involves Devil. Which is why I have always doubted the objectivity of your campaigns and posts. -
at the end of the day, that's what AA is. an advise forums. I mean these people are not counsellors and the advise they give will just be projections of their personal values and the culmination of their life experiences; be it Devil or VK.Originally posted by SumOne:Quite frankly, I don't think it makes a diff who's the mod. VK could still give advise (like she has in the past) even if she isn't Mod. And even if she were Mod, people could still disagree with her. This was an online forum to begin with, no credentials or anything was linked with this forum in the first place. Need professional help, go elsewhere.
Counselling sessions teaches you self-help and problem solving skills and requires you to take ownership of the decisions you make. But that almost cannot be done on an online forum -
i didnt close the thread. think about who did okay.Originally posted by Kouyou:VK opening threads n getting them closed is not going to solve anything. it doesn't help abit. jus get the victim to make a police report n solve everything legally. if he is really guilty then let the law punish him. but if the victim doesn't want to blow it up then pls respect her n stop all these attacks, its destroying the purpose of the AA forum.
please calm down.
he got his peaceout last time after he spammed and flamed me in club 30.
i stayed my hands on what i should be doing.
now this? what calm are you expecting me to do?
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VK, pls kindly show concern for the other users of AA. I've not closed the thread you've created to voice out your dismay. And having you to open threads flooding the forum is a normal allowed practice. It has always been the case even before you came to AA. Hope you'll understand?