depressed

• mid3

  10 Apr 07, 19:35

  am i wrong when my love had faded ..?at first she told me we are not suitable for each other ,and tell me she scared develop feeling on me.. i hold her hand but i never cross the border i control myself..
  
  now she blame me of leaving her, irresponsible for my acts.but i already lost the feeling i had...
• mhcampboy

  10 Apr 07, 19:36

  and what are u depressed abt?
• mistyblue

  10 Apr 07, 19:37

  Originally posted by mhcampboy:

  and what are u depressed abt?

  campy... its r/s trouble...
• ^tamago^

  10 Apr 07, 19:37

  knn why dun cross the border?
• mhcampboy

  10 Apr 07, 19:38

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  campy... its r/s trouble...

  Well, i can see that.
  
  But clearly he states he has no more feelings for her. And he already left her for tat.
  
  So whats the depressed mode for?
• mistyblue

  10 Apr 07, 19:39

  not enough info.
  
  I would think its not that bad to cause depression. More like frustrated because the girl give conflicting signals.
  
• Ito_^

  10 Apr 07, 19:45

  dun blame urself.
  
  nor blame her for her indecisiveness.
  
  be glad it doesn't happen after u two are married with kids.
• mid3

  10 Apr 07, 19:48

  i ask myself can i make thing better?..make her feel better..yet i know she might scold me if i call her..
  
  can anyone tell me..what to do??
• mhcampboy

  10 Apr 07, 19:50

  Originally posted by mid3:

  i ask myself can i make thing better?..make her feel better..yet i know she might scold me if i call her..
  
  can anyone tell me..what to do??

  So what you want to be?
  
  Her best friend so that you can help her move on?
  
  You love her or not?
  
  If not, then beat it! Dun make things worse for her.
• mistyblue

  10 Apr 07, 19:51

  
  
  R/s is not one sided.
  
  Always talk to her for feedback and see what both parties can do to move the r/s or talk out any issues hindering you guys..
  
  asking us... I don't think we can judge your r/s or tell you much...
  
  
• Cool-gal

  10 Apr 07, 21:06

  if u dun love her anymore, just dun lead her on.
  let her cool down and do her stuff. let it be bygone...
  dun contact her to add to her misery.
  
• allentyb

  10 Apr 07, 21:08

  i am also depressed, i can't watch anime 24/7 already
• Sakuraflower

  11 Apr 07, 03:47

  depend la...
  
  if u really like her... go for it
  
  if u feel that the feeling had faded, no more feeling....
  
  pls : dun add more trouble and stress for her...
  
  what r u depressed abt???
• ChingAlvin

  11 Apr 07, 03:49

  I dont know but if i am you, i wont be calling her for a long time...
• Beckhamagic

  11 Apr 07, 09:17

  If it is yours then it is yours... else no point being too bothered about it...
  
  Just let it fade with time...
  
  Furthermore in a relationship... there is no one right or wrong... as we cannot determine it anyway...
  
  Just a different point of view...