What will you do if you were me?
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What will you do if you were me?
It has been 4 years since I broke up with my 1st love. Done alot of stupid things after we broke up. been in a few relationships after her. But will break up after a short while because I am unable to forget her. I am still unable to forget her after all these years. no amount of beer or cigarettes will ease the pain and agony.
I would try out ways and means to find out news about her. But its hard to do so because I had broken off all connections with our friends. I still have her house number, though I am not sure if its changed. I never got to call her because of all the foolish things I had done.
What will you do? -
tons of alternatives.
go for a tour. pick up new and extreme hobbies. go pubbing. find new girl. no point dwelling on something historical. merely treat it as a bad experience. you'll find yourself more mature after overcoming this stage.
cigrattes and alcohol are always problems and never solution.
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time will heel.............but 4 yrs...haizk haizk......maybe ur right girl haven't appear...when u find someone u realy love..sure will take over her..........spend ur time do other things...go learn things to do lor...u guy rite...go learn cooking lor...
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4 years..not a short period, channel all your sorrow and pain into something else you can focus on, be it work, a sport or something, not an easy thing to do but if you can manage to take the first step of getting up after this fall, you will be able to face the future well...good luck!!
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Brother in arms we truely are!
I've been through the same thing and i know exactly how you feel. If you do not think it is possible for you to get back together again, try and look for another. I know its not easy but you will one day meet another gal that will make you forget.. whether you manage to get the gal to feel the same way is another thing
Anyway, since you still have her home number, I'll say give her a call. If you are able to talk to her, treat her as a normal friend, you're halfway there already.... -
Ironically, one of the best solutions is to look the girl up, and try to be friends again. Do not do it with the intention of getting her back, do it with the intention of sewing the rift between the both of you.
There'll be great chance you'll still want to be with her if you've made it to be on talking terms again... But if you have to let go, you just have to. Some things just weren't meant to happen - like why the moon never collides into Earth and just floats endlessly round it...
Someday, you'll know why she wasn't meant for you... but for now, just hold on to hope on yourself. =)
Choosing to blurt your feelings out here would indicate that you are strong enough to let your problems be known and that you seek help... Now all you need is to be strong enough to pull yourself through! -
I ever had a 4 years relationship which I broke off years ago. I would indeed be happy if he will still remember me. Hey, someone out there is thinking of me! However, I know we were not meant for each other. The past has to be left behind no matter how sweet it had been. Life is not just make up of sweetness but bitterness as well. If you are able to focus yourself in the new relationship, it will equally blossom.
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i oso haf this experience...but my relationship wif her last 3 yrs...till today i m not able to 4get her...it wun be ez as i had found out but TIME IS THE BEST MEDICINE TO HEAL WOUNDS...it may take some time to 4get her...juz bear wif it....if the 2 of u really meant 4 each other..eventually u n her will be a couple again...but if it isnt..u juz haf to let go n gif her ur blessing...
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hmmm u quite chi qing hor... tis ger muz b lucky~ well i tin u slowly 4get lor...i tin u haven reli let out ur pain & hurt...try to let it all out by crying out lor...guys oso can cry 1 mah...hmm cry everyday for 2 weeks den tin wum b so bad den try to make more new frenxs..
nw u oso wis she will b happy rite? sumtime although u luv dat person but dat does not mean u hv to b together. let her go & she happy wif it u shld oso feel hapy rite? if u hold on & she no happy wad the point? *you can keep her in person but u can't keep her heart wif u...*
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suggestion: go kill her and dig out her heart...
forget it... u dun know how to 'preserve' it either... wasted...
move on lar fren...or bro... or acquaintance.....whatever...
*slaps on shoulders* buck up